Kutheni usana lwam luhlunguzela iintloko?

Umxholo

• Ushwankathelo
• Ukuqonda izakhono zemoto zabantwana
• Ukunikina intloko xa uncancisa
• Ukunikina intloko xa kudlala
• Ukuhamba kokuvavanya
• Ukukhathazeka nini
• Ukuthatha

Ushwankathelo

Ngaphezulu konyaka wokuqala wobomi, umntwana wakho uya kufikelela kumanqanaba ohlukeneyo ahambelana nokucinga kunye nezakhono zemoto.

Xa umntwana eqala ukunikina intloko, unokukhathazeka ukuba kukho into engalunganga. Unokuzibuza nokuba umntwana wakho usemncinci kakhulu ukuba angangcangcazela intloko.

Ezinye iimeko zentloko yokugungqa zihambelana nokuphazamiseka kwemithambo-luvo okanye ukukhula. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwamatyala aqhelekileyo.

Funda ukuba kutheni umntwana wakho enikina intloko kunye neentlobo zeemeko ekufuneka ukhathazekile ngazo.

Ukuqonda izakhono zemoto zabantwana

Njengomzali, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba namava okukhusela. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, umntwana wakho osandul 'ukuzalwa ubuthathaka kwaye akakwazi ukuzikhusela.

Okwangoku, oku akuthethi ukuba umntwana wakho akakwazi ukuzihambela. Ngokuka-Matshi ka-Dimes, ukuphela kwenyanga yokuqala yobomi, iintsana zinakho ukuhambisa iintloko zazo ngapha nangapha. Oku kwenzeka kakhulu xa belele emacaleni.

Emva kwenyanga yokuqala, intloko ishukumisa abantwana kwiintsana zihlala zihamba nokudlala kunye nezinye iindlela zokunxibelelana. Iintsana ezikhula "ngesiqhelo" ziya kuba nakho ukuhlunguzela iintloko zazo "ewe" okanye "hayi" kunyaka wazo wokuqala.

Ngexesha leeveki zokuqala zobomi, iintshukumo zomntwana wakho zinokuba "zijerky" ngakumbi njengoko bekhulisa ulawulo lwezihlunu.

Ukunikina intloko xa uncancisa

Elinye lamaxesha okuqala abantwana banikina iintloko kuxa bancancisa oonina. Oku kunokwenzeka kuqala kumzamo wosana lwakho ukuzama ukuloba. Njengoko umntwana wakho efumana ukuxhonywa, ukugungqa kunokuba sisiphumo sovuyo.

Ngelixa usana lwakho lunokufumana izihlunu zentamo kwaye lukwazi ukushukumisa ecaleni xa longa, kuya kufuneka uxhase intloko yazo ubuncinci kwiinyanga ezintathu zokuqala.

Unokufumana kwakhona amaxesha okondla ukuba abe yimpumelelo ngakumbi ngokuzola ingqondo yomntwana wakho osandul 'ukuzalwa ukuze babambelele ngokulula.

Ukunikina intloko xa kudlala

Ngaphandle kwenyanga yokuqala, iintsana zinokuqala ukuhlunguzela iintloko ngelixa zidlala. Ngamanye amaxesha, banokuhambisa iintloko zabo xa bephumle kwizisu zabo okanye emqolo. Uyabona ukuba ukunyikima kwentloko kuyanda xa usana lwakho luvuya.

Njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula, baya kuqala ukuqaphela isimilo sabanye kwaye bazame ukunxibelelana nabo. Ukuba unabanye abantwana ekhaya, usana lwakho lungaqala ukulinganisa indlela abaziphethe ngayo ngentloko nangezandla zomzimba.

Ukuhamba kokuvavanya

Iintsana zikhaliphile kakhulu, kwaye ziya kuqala ukuvavanya ukuba zinokuhamba kangakanani.Malunga neenyanga ezi-4 okanye ezi-5 zenyanga, ezinye iintsana ziya kuqala zihlunguzelisa iintloko. Oku kungashukuma ngokugungqisa wonke umzimba.

Ngelixa iintshukumo ezinyikimisayo zinokubonakala zoyikisa, kuthathwa njengokuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kuninzi lweentsana. Ngapha koko, ihlala ingumanduleli wosana lwakho ukuqonda indlela yokuhlala yedwa. Ukuziphatha okungcangcazelisayo kunye nokuzamazama kuhlala kungapheli imizuzu eli-15 kweli qela leminyaka.

Omnye unobangela wexhala kubazali abaninzi kukugquma intloko.

NgokweAmerican Academy of Pediatrics, le nto ixhaphake kakhulu kubafana. Ikwaqala malunga neenyanga ezintandathu ubudala. Ngethuba nje ukubetha kungenzima kwaye umntwana wakho ubonakala onwabile, uninzi lwabantwana alunakukhathazeka ngale ndlela yokuziphatha.

Ukubetha kwentloko kuhlala kumisa ngeminyaka emi-2.

Ukukhathazeka nini

Intloko ehlunguzelayo kunye nezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ezinxulumene nazo zihlala zithathwa njengenxalenye yesiqhelo yokukhula komntwana. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iimeko apho indlela yokuziphatha inokuthi yande ngaphaya kokungcangcazela ngokulula. Biza ugqirha wabantwana ukuba umntwana wakho:

• akanxibelelani nawe okanye abantakwabo
• akahambisi amehlo abo ngesiqhelo
• kukhula amaqhina okanye amabala empandla entloko
• Ukunyikima kwanda ngexesha loxinzelelo
• kubonakala ngathi bafuna ukuzenzakalisa
• isilela ukufikelela kwamanye amanyathelo ophuhliso achazwe ngugqirha wakho
• ayiphenduli kwilizwi lakho, kunye nezinye izandi
• Iyaqhubeka nokuziphatha ngaphaya kweminyaka emi-2 ubudala

Ukuthatha

Ngelixa ukugungqa kwentloko kungasoloko kungunobangela wokukhathazeka, kukho iimeko ezithile apho kuya kufuneka ucinge ngokuthetha nogqirha wabantwana.

Ukuhamba rhoqo kuhlala kuyinto ebonakalisa ukuba ukushukuma kuyinto eqhelekileyo na okanye hayi. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba umntwana wakho uhlunguzela intloko kancinci ngexesha lokutyisa okanye lokudlala, oku akunakuba ngxamiseko lonyango.

Kwelinye icala, ukuba intloko iyahlunguzela rhoqo kwaye ihlala ixesha elide, kuya kufuneka ubone ugqirha kwangoko.