Isikhokelo sokuNxiba abantwana: Izibonelelo, Iingcebiso zoKhuseleko, kunye noNjani

Umxholo

• Zithini izibonelelo zokunxiba umntwana?
• Kunciphisa ukukhala
• Ukukhuthaza impilo
• Uncedisa ngokuncancisa
• Kwandisa uqhagamshelo
• Ukunciphisa ubomi bemihla ngemihla
• Ngaba ikhuselekile?
• Iindidi zabathwali babantwana
• Zama ngaphambi kokuba uthenge
• Isisongelo esithambileyo
• Abathwali abadumileyo bokuthwala
• Urhangqo ephothiweyo
• Imisongo ephothiweyo edumileyo
• Isilingi isilingi
• Abaphethe iringi abadumileyo
• Meh dai
• Abathwali be mei dai abadumileyo
• Uthwali olucwangcisiweyo oluthambileyo
• Iziphathamandla ezithandwayo ezithandwayo
• Unxiba njani umntwana
• Iingcebiso
• Kwiintsana
• Ngokubona umhlaba
• Kuba xa bebadala kancinci
• Unxiba njani umntwana ngamawele
• Yise kude

Sibandakanya iimveliso esicinga ukuba ziluncedo kubafundi bethu. Ukuba uthenga amakhonkco kweli phepha, sinokufumana ikhomishini encinci. Nantsi inkqubo yethu.

Ngaba ukhe wababona abazali kunye nabanonopheli ngaphandle nangaphandle, benikezela ngenani lezinto ezahlukileyo ezinemibala eqaqambileyo kunye nabaphethe abantwana? Ukuba kunjalo, mhlawumbi ukhe wabona iintlobo zeentlobo - ukusuka kubaphethe izinto ezifana nobhaka ukuya kusonga.

Ke yintoni isivumelwano? Abantu bathi ukunxiba usana lwakho kunokunceda ngayo nantoni na evela kwimpilo yosana ukuya kwimeko yabo.

Ngaphandle kwalonto, ukunxiba umntwana kunokwenza ubomi bube lula kakhulu kwikota yesine nangaphaya njengoko ufunda ukuhamba emhlabeni kunye nomncinci kwi-tow. Ngapha koko, iinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo kwihlabathi liphela bezisebenzisa iindlela zokunxiba abantwana kangangamakhulu, mhlawumbi amawaka eminyaka. Kwaye ukuba unesiphatho esifanelekileyo esifanelekileyo, akudingeki ukuba ube buhlungu emva kwakho.

Funda ukuze ufunde indlela onxiba ngayo umntwana, kunye nezibonelelo kunye nokukhathazeka ngokunxiba umntwana, kunye nokuba ujonge ntoni xa ukhetha ophethe umntwana.

Zithini izibonelelo zokunxiba umntwana?

Ukuba uthetha nomzali onxibe umntwana, unokufumana uluhlu oluninzi olungenasiphelo. Kodwa ngaba kukho nayiphi na kubo exhaswa yinzululwazi?

Ngelixa uphando lusekhona, kukho inani elikhulayo labantu abacebisa ukuba ukunxiba usana kunenzuzo kubo bobabini umntwana kunye nomongi.

Kunciphisa ukukhala

Ukufumanisa indlela yokwenza ukuba umntwana ayeke ukukhala yenye yezona zinto zinzima kubazali. Ngelixa ukunxiba kosana kungaziphelisi zonke iinyembezi zosana, abanye bathi kunganceda ukunciphisa ukukhala nokuxambulisana.

Abaphandi bafumanise le nto yokuqhekeza emva kwi1986. Kubo, bafumanisa ukuba iintsana ezincinci ezazithwelwe zazikhala kwaye zixubusha ngaphantsi kweentsana ezazingekho.

Ukongeza, ukuthwala iintsana iiyure ezintathu ngosuku kwabonwa ukunciphisa ukukhala kunye nokuxambulisana ukuya kuthi ga kwiipesenti ezingama-51 ngexesha langokuhlwa.

Eli yayiliqela elincinci lokufunda kwaye ngokuthe ngqo ekuqhubeni, endaweni yokunxiba. Uphando oluthe kratya kunye neqela elikhulu, elahlukileyo liyafuneka ukuze uqonde ngcono unxibelelwano phakathi kokunxiba kwabantwana, kunye nokulila kunye nokuxabana kwiintsana.

Ukuba ujonga iindlela zokunciphisa ukukhala kusana lwakho oluncinci, ukunxiba umntwana kunokuba kufanelekile ukuzama. Ingumngcipheko omncinci kwaye inokunika izibonelelo ezongezelelweyo kusana.

Ukukhuthaza impilo

Kukho ukunxibelelana kolusu nolusu kunye nezibonelelo ezinokuba nazo kwiintsana, ngakumbi iintsana ezizelwe ngaphambi kwexesha (iintsana ezizalwe ngaphambi kweeveki ezingama-37) esibhedlele.

Iintsana ezizalwe ngaphambi kwexesha zinokufumana ezinye zezibonelelo ezifanayo kwindlela yokunxiba ebizwa ngokuba kukhathalelo lwekangaroo.

bonisa ukuba ukunxiba usana olusondeleyo, ngakumbi ngesiphatho esikhethekileyo esenzelwe ukunxibelelana nolusu nolusu, kunokunceda ukulawula ukubetha kwentliziyo yomntwana, ubushushu, kunye neendlela zokuphefumla ngelixa bekwiiyunithi zononophelo lweentsana.

Uphando oluthe kratya luyafuneka ukuqonda ngokupheleleyo olu nxibelelwano, kodwa ndicebise ngemfuno yokonyusa ukhathalelo lwekangaroo, ngakumbi ukhathalelo lweentsana ezingaphambi kokubhedlele. Akucaci ncam ukuba ezi zinto zifunyanisiweyo zisebenza kwiintsana xa sele zigodukile.

Uncedisa ngokuncancisa

Nangona kukho ukuba umntwana onxibe unokukhuthaza ukuncancisa, uphando nje.

Kodwa ukuba ungumzali oncelisayo kwaye uqhelisela ukunxiba usana, kunokwenzeka ukuncancisa ngelixa umntwana ekumthuthi. Oko kunokwenza kube lula ukondla umntwana ekuhambeni okanye ukuziqhelanisa nokondla imfuno.

Ukuncancisa rhoqo kunokunceda ukugcina okanye ukuphucula ubisi lwebele.

Kwandisa uqhagamshelo

Masijongane nayo: ukudibanisa nomntwana omncinci, owandulela ukuthetha ngamanye amaxesha ngamanye amaxesha unokuziva kunzima. Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba, umntwana, isenzo esilula sokubanjwa sinokukunceda ukomeleza olo nxibelelwano kunye nonxibelelwano.

Ukunxiba umntwana kunokunceda ukuxhasa le bhondi. Kwakhona kunokwenza kube lula kuwe ukuba uqale ufunde imikhondo yomntwana wakho ngokuzithemba ngakumbi.

Umzekelo, uya kuqaphela iintshukumo ezithile okanye imisindo ekunceda uqonde ukuba umntwana udiniwe, ulambile, okanye ufuna utshintsho lwe-diaper. Olu nxibelelwano lunokufikelela nakubani na ongomnye onxibe usana ngokunjalo.

Izibonelelo eziphuculweyo zokubopha ubudlelwane bomzali nomntwana kwinqanaba lokufikisa nakwiminyaka yabantu abadala, nayo. Oku akuthethi ukuba ukunxiba umntwana kuya kwenza kwangoko ibhondi eya kuthi izuze izibonelelo zexesha elide- okanye kuphela kwendlela yokwenza ibhondi- kodwa inokuba linyathelo lokuqala lokuqala ekuphuhliseni olu hlobo lobophelelwano nomntwana wakho .

Ewe, ukuba ukhetha ukunganxibi umntwana, kusekho ezinye iindlela ezininzi zokubopha kunye nosana- umzekelo, ukuphulula umntwana.

Ukunciphisa ubomi bemihla ngemihla

Kukho enye inzuzo enokubakho ngokunxiba usana ngezo ntsuku xa zifuna ukubanjwa. Yinto engenazandla!

Ukusebenzisa umntwana ophetheyo kunokwenza ukuba kube lula ukwenza imisebenzi yakho yemihla ngemihla ngeengalo nangezandla ezikhoyo.

Unokusonga iimpahla, ufunde incwadi kumntakwenu osele ekhulile, okanye uphume uhambe edolophini. Amathuba anokuphela- ewe, phantse. Mhlawumbi gcina ukutya okunzulu kokuqhotsa okanye ukwenza i-skateboarding xa unganxibanga sana.

Ngaba ikhuselekile?

Njengayo yonke imisebenzi enxulumene nosana, kukho indlela elungileyo kunye nendlela engalunganga yokunxiba umntwana. Kwaye umahluko phakathi kwezinto ezikhuselekileyo nezingakhuselekanga ngamanye amaxesha unokuba nobuqili.

Uninzi lwenkxalabo yezokhuseleko ijikeleze ukugcina indlela yomoya yomntwana icacile, kunye nokuxhasa umqolo nentamo yabo.

Kubalulekile ukuba uziqhelanise noko uluntu olunxibe usana lukubiza ngokuba yi-T.I.C.K.S:

• T: Ngqinile. Usana kufuneka luthe nkqo kwaye luxineke ngokwaneleyo kumphathi ababanjelwe ngokukhuselekileyo ngokuchasene nabani na obanxibileyo. Oku kunceda ukuthintela ukuwa ngengozi.
• Mna: Imbonakalo ngawo onke amaxesha. Ubuso bomntwana kufuneka bubonakale kuwe ukuze ubeke esweni ukuphefumla kwabo. Unako kwakhona ukugcina iliso elingcono kwi-mood yomntwana wakho ukuba uyababona.
• C: Vala ngokwaneleyo ukwanga. Ngaba ungayithoba intloko uze uphuze umphezulu wentloko yomntwana wakho? Ukuba akunjalo, kuya kufuneka ubeke kwakhona kwindawo ephetheyo de ibe phezulu ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungamanga ngomzamo omncinci.
• K: Gcina isilevu esifubeni. Jonga umntwana wakho ukuqinisekisa ukuba kukho umsantsa omalunga neminwe emibini ububanzi phantsi kwesilevu. Ukuba bakwindawo elungileyo ethe tye ngomqolo ogoso kunye nemilenze egobileyo, kunqabile ukuba isilevu sabo siwe.
• S: Inkxaso ebuyisiweyo. Ngelixa ufuna ukuba umntwana wakho akhuseleke, xhathisa ukuqinisa ngaphezulu komphathi ngasemva kwabo. Kuya kufuneka umphathi wakho aqinise ngokwaneleyo ukuba kungabikho sithuba phakathi komntwana wakho nomzimba wakho, kodwa ukhululeke ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungatyibilika isandla sakho kumphathi.

Kwaye ngelixa ujoliso lwakho kufuneka lube semntwaneni wakho, qiniseka ukuba umntu ophetheyo uziva ekhululekile nakuni.

Abathwali ababeke ngokungafanelekanga banokukunika imiba ebuyayo okanye benze ezinye iindawo zokuqaqamba okanye ukonzakala, ngakumbi ixesha elide lokunxiba.

Ukunxiba umntwana akunakubafanela bonke abazali beentsana, kuxhomekeka kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zonyango. Ukuba unemibuzo okanye unenkxalabo, thetha nodokotela wezilwanyana okanye ugqirha oyintloko.

Kwakhona, qiniseka ukuba ulandela yonke imiyalelo kumphathi wakho othile, kubandakanya nezithintelo zobunzima.

Iindidi zabathwali babantwana

Akukho kunqongophala kwabaphethe abantwana kwiimarike. Oko ukhetha ekugqibeleni kuya kuxhomekeka kwizinto ezahlukeneyo, kubandakanya:

• ubudala okanye ubungakanani bomntwana wakho
• uhlobo lomzimba wakho
• uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali
• ukhetho lwakho

Zama ngaphambi kokuba uthenge

Olunye usana lwasekhaya olunxibe amaqela okanye iivenkile zabantwana zibonelela ngelayibrari yokuboleka yenethiwekhi. Banokukunceda ufunde ukuba ungazisebenzisa njani izinto ezahlukeneyo zokuthwala.

Ukuba awunawo na amanye amaqela eevenkile ezikufutshane nawe anikezela ngethala leencwadi lokubolekisa, ungaphinda ubuze ujonge ukuba ukhona na umntu omaziyo ophethe izinto angakuboleka.

Isisongelo esithambileyo

Esi siqwenga selaphu senziwe ngomqhaphu kunye neLycra okanye iSpandex. Unokuyiva ibizwa ngokuba "sisongelo esoluliweyo" ngamanye amaxesha.

Isongelo esithambileyo sinxitywa ngokusongelwa umzimba wakho emva koko ubeke usana lwakho ngaphakathi kulo. Ngenxa yobume belaphu, olu hlobo lwenkampani lufaneleke ngakumbi kwiintsana ezincinci.

Kukho intwana yokufunda yokufunda ekuqondeni indlela yokubopha olu hlobo lokusonga. Kulapho umntwana onxibe amaqela okanye iividiyo ezikwi-Intanethi anokufika ngokufanelekileyo.

Ngumbono olungileyo ukuziqhelanisa nomqamelo omncinci okanye unodoli kuqala, ngaphambi kokuzama umphathi ophethe umntwana ngaphakathi.

Abathwali abadumileyo bokuthwala

• Ukusonga kweMoby Classic ($)
• Isongelo seBoba ($)
• I-BABYY Dragonfly ($$)

Urhangqo ephothiweyo

Isisongelo esilukiweyo siyafana nesongezo esithambileyo kuba sisiqwengana selaphu osongele umzimba wakho. Ungazifumana ezi ngobude obahlukeneyo ukuze zilungele ukumila kunye nobukhulu bomzimba ohlukeneyo, kunye nezikhundla.

Umahluko phakathi kwemisongo ethambileyo neyolukiweyo kukuba ilaphu elisongelweyo lilukhuni kwaye lihleleke ngakumbi, kwaye linokuvumela ukuba uthwale ngokufanelekileyo abantwana abakhulu okanye abantwana abancinci.

Abantu abaninzi bafumanisa ukuba izisongelo ezilukiweyo zikhululekile, kodwa kunokuba nzima ukufunda indlela yokubopha ngokufanelekileyo.

Imisongo ephothiweyo edumileyo

• Isisongelo seRainbow ($)
• Isisongeli esirhabaxa seChimparoo ($$)
• Isisongeli se-DIDYMOS ($$$)

Isilingi isilingi

Olu hlobo lwesithwali lunxitywa egxalabeni elinye kwaye lwenziwe ngelaphu eliqinileyo elilukiweyo.

Emva kokuyifaka, uvula ilaphu ukwenza ipokotho kufutshane nesisu sakho. Emva koko ubeke umntwana ngaphakathi kwaye utsale ngobunono kwilaphu elikufutshane nomsesane ukuze uhlengahlengise kwaye ukhuseleke.

Izilayingi zeringi ziyaphatheka kwaye kulula ukuzisebenzisa. Nangona kunjalo, unokufumana uxinzelelo kwelinye ihlombe ungakhululekanga, ngakumbi ukuba unomntwana onzima okanye usebenzisa umphathi ixesha elide.

Abaphethe iringi abadumileyo

• Isilingi esoluliweyo ($)
• I-Hip Baby Ring Sling ($
• Isisongelo seMaya esityhidiweyo
  

Meh dai

Ibizwe ngokuba "inokubopha," meh dai abathwali bavela eAsia. Kubandakanya iphaneli yelaphu enemitya emibini yokujikeleza esinqeni kunye nezinye ezimbini zokujikeleza emagxeni. Ezi ntambo zihlala zibanzi kwaye zidwelisiwe ukuze zithuthuzele.

I-Meh dai yenethiwekhi inokunxitywa ngaphambili, esinqeni, okanye ngasemva. Zilungele iintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa kubantwana abasakhasayo, kwaye ziyahlengahlengiswa ngokwaneleyo ukuvumela abanonopheli abaninzi ukuba bazisebenzise.

Nangona ungazisebenzisa ngeentsana ezinkulu okanye ezindala, unokulufumana olu hlobo lwesiphatho lungonwabanga ngeentsana ezingaphezu kweepawundi ezingama-20.

Abathwali be mei dai abadumileyo

• Isisongelo seS Infantino Sash ($)
• Ufudo Mei Tai ($$)
• I-DIDYMOS Meh Dai ($$$$)

Uthwali olucwangcisiweyo oluthambileyo

Ezi zithwala zilula ukuzisebenzisa zibandakanya imitya, iibhaksi, kunye neephedi zokufumana ulungelelwaniso olulungelelanisiweyo lweminyaka eyahlukeneyo- usana ukuya kumntwana omncinci nangaphaya.

Kukho neempawu ezenza abathwali beentsana kunye nabaphethe abantwana abancinci ukulungiselela ukuphakama okungafaniyo kunye nobunzima (ukuya kuthi ga kwiiponti ezingama-60).

Umntu ophethe izinto ezithambileyo unokunxitywa ngaphambili komzimba, kwaye abanye bavumela ukuthwala-kunye nokuphatha ngasemva.

Awunakho ukusebenzisa olu hlobo lokuthwala kunye neentsana ezincinci ngaphandle kolunye uhlobo lokufakwa kosana.

Iziphathamandla ezithandwayo ezithandwayo

• UTula omncinci ($)
• I-LILLEbaby 360 (i $ $)
• U-Ergo 360 ($$)

Unxiba njani umntwana

Usebenzisa njani umphathi wakho uya kuxhomekeka kuhlobo olukhethileyo. Qiniseka ukuba ufunda yonke imiyalelo yomenzi ngaphambi kokusebenzisa umphathi wakho.

Kungangumbono olungileyo ukunxibelelana nosana olunxibe iqela lendawo ukuze ufumanise malunga neeklasi okanye iiseshoni ezizodwa ezinokukunceda ufunde ukusebenzisa umphathisi wakho ngendlela ekhuselekileyo kuwe nakumntwana.

Iingcebiso

Kwiintsana

• Iintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa zinganxitywa kwangoko ngaphandle kokuba akukho zinkxalabo kwezonyango kwaye ubunzima bomntwana bujikeleze iiponti ezisi-8 okanye nangaphezulu.
• Unokufumana isongelo esoluliweyo ngokukhululekileyo kweli nqanaba. Ukuba wenza umphathi ophetheyo othambileyo, cinga ukusebenzisa into efakwe kusana olusandul 'ukuzalwa ukuze ulunge ngakumbi.
• Soloko uqinisekisa ukuba uyabubona ubuso bosana lwakho ngelixa ubuthwele bade babe neenyanga ezi-4 ubuncinci.

Ngokubona umhlaba

Njengokuba umntwana esiya eyiqonda ngakumbi imekobume yabo, banokufuna ukujongana nokubona umhlaba. Ukwenza oku, ungasebenzisa isongelo esoluliweyo okanye esolukiweyo, kwaye ubophe umphambili wokubamba ngayo.

Unokukhetha kwakhona ukusebenzisa izinto ezithambileyo ezilungiselelwe ngokukodwa ezenzelwe ukhetho lwangaphambili, njenge-Ergo 360.

Kuba xa bebadala kancinci

Iintsana ezindala kunye nabantwana abancinci banokulungela ukukhwela emqolo wakho.

1. Ukuqala, kliphulela kwisiphatho sakho esithambileyo kwaye ubeke umntwana wakho esinqeni kunye nemilenze ngapha nangapha kwesisu.
2. Cothisa kancinci ophetheyo emqolo ngelixa ubambe yomibini imitya ngokuqinileyo kwaye ukhokela umntwana ngesinye isandla.
3. Emva koko beka imitya emagxeni akho, kliphu endaweni, kwaye uhlengahlengise intuthuzelo.

Unxiba njani umntwana ngamawele

Amawele? Ungazinxiba, nazo!

Enye yeendlela ezilula ngakumbi zokwenza oku kukutyala imali kubathwali bezinto ezimbini ezithambileyo kwaye unxibe umntwana omnye ngaphambili nomnye ngasemva. Oku akunakusebenzela iintsana ezincinci.

Kukho nezifundo onokuzifumana kwi-Intanethi ngendlela yokubopha isongelo sokugoba amawele. Unokufuna ukuba iqabane lakho okanye umhlobo akuncede kumaxesha ambalwa okuqala.

Yise kude

Ukunxiba usana kungaphezulu kwendlela yokuhamba okanye into yokungena kwifashoni. Inokukunceda ugcine usana lwakho lusondele, kwaye inezibonelelo ezongeziweyo zokuthwala umntwana wakho ngelixa ukhulula izandla zakho ukuze wenze izinto.