UBillie Eilish uthi 'Unolwalamano olubi' kunye noMzimba wakhe

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UBillie Eilish ubuyisa umkhusane kwidabi lakhe. Ophumelele iGrammy, osanda kukhupha icwecwe lakhe lesibini lesitudiyo, "Ndonwabe Kakhulu kunangaphambili," utyhilwe kudliwanondlebe olutsha no. UMgcini ukuba "ngokucacileyo akonwabanga nomzimba wakhe."

Ukuxoxa ngemigangatho yobuhle obungeyonyani ihlala iboniswa kumajelo asekuhlaleni, u-Eilish uxelele UMgcini, "Ndibona abantu kwi-intanethi, bekhangeleka ngathi andikaze ndijonge." Inkwenkwezi ye-pop eneminyaka eyi-19 iqhubekile yathi, "Kwaye ngokukhawuleza ndifana, owu Thixo wam, bajongeka njani? Ndiyazi ins kunye nokuphuma kolu shishino, kwaye yintoni abantu abayisebenzisayo kwiifoto, kwaye ngokwenene ndiyazi. into ebonakala iyinyani inokuba yinkohliso.Kodwa ndisayibona kwaye ndiyahamba, Thixo, loo nto indenza ndizive ndibuhlungu kakhulu. Kwaye ndithetha ukuba, ndizithembile kakhulu ngale nto ndiyiyo, kwaye ndonwabe kakhulu ngobomi bam… 'Kucacile ukuba andonwabanga ngumzimba wam." (Idibeneyo: UBillie Eilish uvula malunga nokulwa kwakhe nomzimba iDysmorphia kunye noxinzelelo)

U-Eilish, oye wadlala ngokunxibileyo kwaye enxibe iimpahla ezixineneyo, wachaza kaninzi nendlela ekufuneka ethethe ngayo ngokuzithetha gwenxa. "Xa ndiseqongeni, kufuneka ndizihlukanise neengcinga endinazo zomzimba wam, ngakumbi kuba ndinxiba iimpahla ezinkulu kwaye kulula ukungena kuzo ngaphandle kokubonisa yonke into- zinokungathandeki," uxelele. UMgcini. "Kwimifanekiso, kubonakala ngathi andazi nokuba yintoni. Ndiwahlule ngokupheleleyo la mabini. Kuba ndinolwalamano olubi kangaka nomzimba wam - ngokungathi awunakukholwa - kungoko kufuneka ndiziyeke."

Phambi kokuba ubhubhane we-COVID-19 alunqumle ukhenketho olufutshane ngentwasahlobo ephelileyo, u-Eilish wathetha nabagxeki bakhe, abathi ngenye indlela bamhlasela ngokuzogquma kwaye ngokubonisa nokuba lilitye lesikhumba. Kwifilimu emfutshane, Ayiloxanduva lwam, eyakhutshwa ngoMeyi ka-2020, u-Eilish ubonwa esusa uphawu lwakhe lwentengiso olungaphezulu kwe-hoodie ukuze aveze ibra emnyama, exelela umbukeli, "Umzimba endazalwa nawo, awuyiyo le nto wawuyifuna? Ukuba ndinxiba into ekhululekile, ndiyiyo. Ukuba ndithe ndalahla iileya, ndilihule. U-Eilish wajongana nokubuyela umva kwakhona emva kokuphalaza ukungcwatywa kuJuni ka-2021 Vogue UK, Isiganeko athi simenze "angaze afune ukuthumela kwakhona." (Inxulumene: Abantu bakhusela uBillie Eilish Emva kwetroll emjolise kwi-Twitter)

Xa engasebenzi okanye kungenjalo eluntwini, u-Eilish usesemngciphekweni wokugxekwa ngabantu angabaziyo, enkosi ngokuduma ngokwaneleyo ukuba abafoti baqhubeke ekhayeni lakhe. "Ufumana umfanekiso wepaparazzi xa ububaleka ukuya emnyango kwaye unxibe nje nantoni na, kwaye ungazi ukuba kuthathwa lo mfanekiso, kwaye ujonge indlela okhangeleka ngayo, kwaye wonke umntu unje, 'Fat!'" Utshilo u-Eilish UMgcini. Ukunyathelwa, imvumi ikholelwa, ngokuyinxenye kungenxa yemifanekiso engeyiyo yemfezeko eyenzelwa abanye abantu abadumileyo kwaye akukho mntu unokufikelela kuyo. U-Eilish wabiza ezi ngcinezelo kwingoma yakhe ka-2021 ethi "Ukufudumala," apho abuza khona, "Ngaba ziindaba? Iindaba kubani? / Ukuba ngokwenene ndikhangeleka njengani nonke?" (Idibeneyo: UBillie Eilish angathanda ukuba uyeke ukusebenzisa iZimbo zakhe zoKhetho kwi "Slut-Shame" Abanye abantu)

"Ukufudumala kakhulu" kusebenza kubo bonke abantu abaphakamisa imigangatho yomzimba engafikelelekiyo, utshilo UMgcini. "Kulungile ngokupheleleyo ukwenza umsebenzi- yenza le nto, yenza leya, yenza into ekwenza uzive wonwabile. Kulapho uyakuphika kwaye uthi," Owu, ndiyifumene yonke le nto ngokwam, kwaye ukuba ubuzama kakhulu, Ingayifumana loo nto. Oko kundenza ndicaphuke ngokoqobo. Kubi kakhulu kubafazi abancinci- nakumakhwenkwe, ukuba bakubone oko. "

Ukuqhekeka komzimba womntu kusamxaka kakhulu u-Eilish, oxelele UMgcini, "kuyahlekisa ukuba nabani na uyikhathalele imizimba konke konke. Njengokuba, kutheni? Kutheni sinenkathalo? Uyazi, xa ucinga ngayo ngokwenene?"

U-Eilish, osandula ukuba blonde emva kokurhweba ngotyikityo lweenwele ezimnyama ezineengcambu eziluhlaza, uqhubeke wathi, "Kutheni sizikhathalela iinwele? Kutheni wonke umntu ezithiya kakhulu iinwele zomzimba, kodwa sinento enkulu kakhulu yeenwele entloko, kwaye loo nto, ngathi, ipholile kwaye intle. Njengaye, yintoni umahluko? Ndiyathetha, ndiyazithanda iinwele, kwaye ndenza izinto eziphambeneyo ngeenwele zam. Ndinetyala njengaye wonke umntu, utshilo. "Kodwa iyamangalisa. Ukuba ucinga ngayo nzima, uyaphambana."

U-Eilish kudala eyincwadi evulekileyo xa kufikwa ekuthetheni ngobunzima bakhe. Kwaye ngelixa ethatha yonke into imihla ngemihla, uya kuhlala enenkxaso kubalandeli bakhe kuyo yonke loo nto.

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