UPhilipps oxakekileyo waba neyona mpendulo ilungileyo emva kokuba nguMama-eneentloni ngeTattoo yakhe eNtsha

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Kuninzi kakhulu okuthandayo malunga ne-Busy Philipps. Ungumntu othabathayo, obonisa iindwendwe, ongumdlali onesiphiwo, kwaye uhlala ekhuthaza abantu basetyhini ukuba bayithande imizimba yabo njengokuba benjalo. Ngoku, eyokuqala IiFreaks kunye neeGeeks inkwenkwezi inokongeza ngokusemthethweni "ukumkanikazi oqhwaba izandla" kukuqhubeka kwakhe nokukhula kwakhona.

U-Philipps usandul 'ukwabelana ngesithombe somvambo wakhe omtsha kwi-Instagram, ebonisa umzekeliso wentombazana encinci i-skating kude namagama: "f*ck 'em." Uye wachaza ukuba lo mzekeliso uzotywe kwimemori yakhe, Oku kuyakukhathaza nje kancinci. "Kuyinyani ngokungaqhelekanga kwifomu kwaye njengoko izinto zihlala zikhona, kuhlala kusoloko kubuhlungu kancinci," ubhale ecaleni komfanekiso.

Ewe, abanye abantu abakwi 'Gram babonakala benayo izimvo malunga noPhilipps wokwenza umvambo okhutshiweyo emzimbeni wakhe-uyazi, ukuba ngumama kunye nakho konke (faka iliso apha). (Related: Lo Mama unomyalezo wabantu abamphoxayo ngokusebenza)

"Ayisiwo umyalezo olungileyo wokuwuthumela kwiintombi zakho, kodwa nokuba yeyiphi na," utshilo umntu omnye kwifoto. Andigwebi. Ukunyaniseka kuba ndinqwenela ukuba bendinesibindi njengokuba usenza umvambo onjalo—kodwa ubaxelela ntoni abantwana? wabhala enye.

U-Philipps waphendula kakuhle wathi: "Ndibaxelela ukuba la ngamagama ekufuneka uphile ngawo, ngakumbi njengabafazi." (Eyeleleneyo: Imbaleki ye-CrossFit uEmily Breeze Kutheni i-Workout-Shaming abafazi abakhulelweyo kufuneka bayeke)

Ngokunikwa inani labantu abagxeka itattoo yakhe kwimidiya yoluntu, uPhilipps wazisa umdlalo weqonga kumdlalo wakhe, Ngokuhlwa kuxakekile, Kwaye wabiza oomama-shamers ukuba "bamyeke aphile."

"Abantwana bam balivile igama 'f ck' ngaphambili-bangabantwana bam," utshilo. "Ukuba awuyifundisi intombi yakho ukuba ithi 'f ck' em, 'bazakuphela bebukela amakhwenkwe amaninzi adlala imidlalo yevidiyo okanye ukukhwela e-skateboard kwiindawo zokupaka," uqhubeke watsho. "Yilento uyifunayo kubo?" (Idibeneyo: Ngaba Ubusazi Ukufunga Ngaba Kungakuphucula Ukusebenza Kwakho?)

Okukwintsusa: Yintoni uPhilipps akhetha ukuyibeka emzimbeni wakhe, okanye indlela abakhulisa ngayo abantwana bakhe, ayisiyoshishini lomntu. Kwaye nangona abanye abantu banokucinga ukuba ukufunga "akufanelanga," umyalezo osemva kwe tattoo kaPhilipps mkhulu kakhulu kwaye ubaluleke ngaphezu kwegama elilula lesiqalekiso: Yima ngokwakho, kwaye wenze into yakho-nokuba bathini abo bathiyayo.

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