UCamila Mendes wabelane ngendlela ahlangana ngayo neFan ngaphezulu koMzimba

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Ngaba unqwenela ukuba unokuba nexesha lokuphola nomntu odumileyo omthandayo kwaye ube ngabahlobo kwangoko? Yiloo nto kanye eyenzekileyo kwifayile ye- Riverdale Umlandeli ogama linguGeorgia, owazifumana ehleli ecaleni kukaCamila Mendes (aka Veronica Lodge) kwinqwelomoya esuka eBrazil isiya eCalifornia. Nge UbumeUmnyhadala weVenkile yomzimba ka-2018 (apho bobabini abasetyhini babesiya khona) UMendes ubalise ngonxibelelwano lwabo olukhokelele kwingxoxo emangazayo ngomzimba.

Ngelixa wayethetha nomlawuli womzimba oncedisayo uJen Widerstrom, uMendes wathetha ngokudibana neGeorgia: "Ndaqonda ukuba kwakumele ukuba ahlale ecaleni kwam kwinqwelomoya," watsho uMendes, ngaphambi kokumema iGeorgia kwiqonga ukuba babelane ngebali lakhe kunye neqela. abaphulaphuli. (Idibeneyo: Iposi yoMzimba oPheleleyo oQalile ngayo ubuhlobo obuhle be-IRL)

U-Georgia uqhubeke wachaza ukuba wayetyebe kakhulu okomntwana, kwaye wazuza ubunzima ngexesha lokufikisa, ekugqibeleni watyeba ngokugqithiseleyo. Uthe wadandatheka kwaye wazama amayeza, ukutya ukutya, kunye nokuzilolonga ukunciphisa umzimba, kodwa akukho nto yasebenza. UGeorgia uthe ekugqibeleni waphulukana nobunzima obuninzi, kodwa wavuma ukuba oko akuzange kumenze azive engcono. (Funda kabanzi malunga nokuba kutheni ukulahleka kwesisindo akuyiyo imfihlo yolonwabo kunye nokuba kutheni ukulahlekelwa ubunzima akusoloko kukhokelela ekuzithembeni komzimba.)

"Ekupheleni kosuku, ndaye ndathoba umzimba kakhulu, kodwa ke ndandineempawu zokuzolula kunye namanxeba kwaye ndandisazithembile ngomzimba wam," utshilo. UGeorgia uthe waqonda ukuba wayengenguye yedwa kumzabalazo wakhe. Okukhona wayethetha ngayo, kokukhona wayeqonda ukuba bangaphi abahlobo bakhe nabo abanengxaki yokungazithembi. Ekugqibeleni, ukuthetha ngokuvulekileyo nabanye kwamnceda wamkela umzimba wakhe, wabelana.

Ukuvula isihlwele seevenkile zoMzimba, uMendes uxoxe ngohambo lwakhe lothando lomzimba. Umdlali we-actress uye ngaphambili malunga nokuzabalaza nengxaki yokutya kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, kwakhona ekholejini, kwaye kwakhona ngelixa esenza ifilimu. Riverdale. Ekugqibeleni, uthi waqonda ukuba ingxaki yakhe yayimenzakalisa kangakanani. "Andikwazi ukukhuthazwa ngokwesondo ukuba andizange ndiqiniseke emzimbeni wam ... ndandiziva ndityebile, ndandifana, Akukho namnye ukuchukumisa mna, kwaye kulapho ke iqala khona ukungxakana nobomi bakho, utshilo. Ukubona i-Therapist yamnceda ukuba enze inkqubela phambili, kwaye ngoku ubambisene neProject Heal ukusasaza umyalezo wokuba #YenziweNgokutya. usasokola ukuthanda isisu sakhe-indawo eqhelekileyo yokungazithembi abasetyhini abaninzi abanokuthi babhekane nayo.)

Ngelixa amabali amabhinqa amabini efana-babelana ngomxholo oqhelekileyo wokungazithembi kunye neentloni, kodwa nokwamkelwa kunye nothando lomzimba), zahlukile, eziqaqambisa ukutya okungalunganga kunye / okanye ukungazithembi komzimba akusoloko kubonakala ngendlela efanayo. Abantu bacinga ukuba abantu abaneengxaki babonakala begula, uyazi, ukuba bahlala boney kwaye babhityile, kodwa ayiyonyani leyo, utshilo uMendes. "Amaxesha amaninzi, abantu abanengxaki yokutya 'abajongi' ngathi baneengxaki zokutya." (FYI, u-Ashley Graham waphefumlela uCamila Mendes ukuba ayeke ukucinga ngokuba bhityile.)

Akululanga ukuthetha ngokuphandle malunga nokungaqiniseki komzimba wakho. (Ngapha koko, kwathatha uMendes ukuzama ukuzama ukweyisela iGeorgia ukuba ithathe inqanaba, kodwa wayenza loo nto. kwaye uloyiso lwabo.

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