UCamila Mendes Uqhwabela izandla amazwi angaphandle ngokumela imizimba yokwenyani kwiintengiso zabo

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Ngokuqinisekileyo uyazi kwaye uyayithanda iiVoices zangaphandle zokutyikitya umbala we-leggings ezivaliweyo kunye nezixhobo ezibalekayo. Kodwa abantu bayayiqaphela imizimba yokwenyani kunye nenokuthenjwa esetyenziswa luphawu kwimifanekiso yabo yokuthengisa. Kungekudala kakhulu, babonise imodeli ene-cellulite enxibe iibhulukhwe zabo ezimfutshane ezibalekayo-kwaye khange batsho nokuba i-body-positivity kuba YINTO EQHELEKILEYO. Iwebhusayithi yabo igcwele imifanekiso enjalo engayifihliyo oku kuthiwa kukungafezeki-into yangaphambili Ubume ikhava intombazana kunye Riverdale Umlingisi uCamila Mendes uthathe naye.

Ngeempelaveki, uMendes wabelane ngothotho lweefoto ezivela kwiwebhusayithi yohlobo lwentengiso kumabali akhe e-Instagram ukubancoma ngokungazibandakanyi iimodeli zabo. (Idibeneyo: IiVoices zangaphandle zaSungula ukuQokelelwa kweQhuku lokuqala)

"Zininzi iimveliso zeempahla ezisebenzayo kuphela eziqesha iimodeli ezinezisu ezisicaba, okanye bahlela iifoto ukuze kungabikho kujikeleza okubonakalayo esiswini," ubhale ecaleni kwescreengrab semodeli enentliziyo etsalwe esiswini sakhe. "Ndithanda iiVoices zangaphandle zokuqesha iimodeli ezinamagophe, kunye nokugcina iirves zazo zihleli kwaye zibonisiwe," ubhale watsho, esabelana ngomnye umfanekiso ofanayo.

Wonke umntu unesisu, i-BTW. Kwaye isisu asisoloko sicaba njengepanekuku, kulungile? Ewe, nokuba usempilweni kwaye ufanelekile. Okwangoku, ukwamkela umzimba wakho kunye nesisu sakho kunokuba nzima, nto leyo uMendes avule ngayo ngaphambili. Oku kubonakala ngathi kutheni umfanekiso ongezantsi uthethe naye.

Umfanekiso ubonakalisa imodeli emi yesiqhelo, isongwe kancinci esinqeni esinqeni sayo kwisibonisi esipheleleyo (into enokuthi ihlelwe ngokwesiko okanye icoceke kumfanekiso wokugqibela). "Izinto ezincinci ezinje ziyandonwabisa," ubhale watsho uMendes ekhomba koku kubizwa ngokuba sisiphene. "Le yindlela umzimba wam ubonakala ngayo xa ndinxiba iimpahla ezisebenzayo. Ngamanye amaxesha ndiye ndingazithembi xa ndibona amagophe am esongelana. Kodwa kuqhelekile. Kwaye sinikwe imeko yokukholelwa ukuba kukungafezeki."

Ngelixa ulusu lusongelwe apha kwaye kungangabonakali ngathi yinto enkulu, uMendes ucacisile ukuba kutheni olu hlobo lokumelwa kobunyani, nokuba kukwinqanaba elincinci, lubalulekile-kakhulu. “Ndiyazi ukuba ayizizo zonke iimodeli ezikwibali lam ezinobungakanani obukhulu,” ubhale watsho. "Izinto endizijikelezile ziinkcukacha ezifihlakeleyo onokungaziqapheli kodwa zibaluleke kakhulu. Ndifumanise ukuba ifashoni inokuba yipolarizing: Iimodeli ziphantse zabhitya okanye zadibanisa ubukhulu, zilibale ukuba kukho uluhlu lweentlobo zomzimba phakathi. " (Idibeneyo: UCamila Mendes ekwabelwana ngayo ngoDlelwaniso kunye neFan ngaphezulu koBume beNdawo)

I-Mendes inayo inqaku. Ngelixa baya besanda abantu besetyhini abazamkelayo iimilo zabo, kukho iqela elipheleleyo labasetyhini elishiyekileyo: Abasetyhini abangayifanelanga ileyibhile engacacanga yokuba "babhityile" kodwa bangazicingeli njengabaphosakeleyo. UKatie Willcox, umseki we-Healthy Is a New Skinny movement, ebekhe wathetha malunga nokuba aba bafazi, abawela phakathi embindini, abayiboni na imizimba yabo emelwe kwimidiya-kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, iincoko malunga nomzimba, Ukwamkelwa, kunye nothando lwakho ngokuzithanda alubabandakanyi. (Idibeneyo: Ngaba uMbutho oLungileyo woMzimba yonke iNtetho?)

Kunye noWillcox, uMendes unethemba lokujonga loo nto nge-mini-rant yakhe encinci. "Ndinqwenela ukuhlala kwihlabathi apho zonke iintlobo zomzimba zinokubhiyozelwa kwaye zimelwe-zibhityile ziye kubukhulu obudibeneyo, nayo yonke into ephakathi," ubhale watsho. "Ngamanye amaxesha into esingazithembanga ngayo ayilingani nobukhulu kodwa kunoko ziinkcukacha ezingafezekanga zobume bethu."

Ekupheleni kosuku, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba umzimba ophilileyo ubukeka ngokwahlukileyo kumntu wonke-yep, uvile ukuba amaxesha esigidi, kodwa kusekho isikhumbuzo esifunekayo. Kwaye ukuba ucinga ukuba le nto yenziwa yi-OV inokubonakala ngathi ayisiyonto yonke, zibuze: Ke kutheni abantu abaninzi beyiqaphela?

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