Ngaba unokumangalela umntu othile ukuba akunike i-STD?

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U-Usher utyholwa ngabafazi ababini kunye nendoda ngetyala lokubanika i-herpes ngexesha lokudibana ngokwesondo, ngokwegqwetha labo uLisa Bloom kwinkomfa yoonondaba namhlanje. Oku kuza emva kokuba imvumi ixele ukuba yahlawula umfazi i-1.1 yezigidi zeerandi ukulungisa ityala apho wathi wasilela ukumlumkisa ngobume bakhe be-herpes kwaye wamnika isifo esingasinyangekiyo ngesondo ngo-2012. unetyala okanye ulixhoba nje elishwa lengoma yeengoma kuxhomekeke kwiinkundla ukuba zenze isigqibo-kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo eli ayizukuba lixesha lokugqibela usiva malunga nesimangalo esinje.

U-Keith Cutler, u-Esq., Igqwetha letyala kunye nesiqingatha sesibini esitshatileyo esongamela njengeejaji Inkundla yesibini kunye nabasiki. "Sidla ngokuva kuphela ngamatyala abandakanya abantu abadumileyo, kodwa uninzi lwabantu abadumileyo bafaka izimangalo xa befumanisa ukuba bosulelekile. Lo ngumba onzima ochaphazela abo badumileyo nabangengosaziwayo."

Ukufumanisa ukuba usulelekile ngosulelo olosulela ngokwabelana ngesondo ngamava aphazamisayo, kodwa ukufumanisa umntu okunike lona Ndiyazi bosulelekile kwaye khange bakuxelele kuyenza mbi nangakumbi imeko. Ngokuqinisekileyo linyathelo elibi, kodwa ngaba ukusilela ukubhengeza i-STD lityala lolwaphulo-mthetho? Kuxhomekeke kuhlobo lwesifo, utshilo uDana Cutler, u-Esq., Kwanegqwetha letyala kunye nejaji INkundla yezibini kunye nabasiki.

Akukho mithetho yomanyano ifuna ukuba umntu abhengeze ukuba une-STD, utshilo. "Kodwa kukho imithetho yelizwe malunga nokuxelela amaqabane ezesondo ukuba une-STD ezithile-njenge-HIV / AIDS okanye i-herpes ngenxa yohlobo losulelo." (Funda: azinyangeki.)

ECarlifonia, yifayile ye- ulwaphulo-mthetho ukuba umntu one-HIV azibandakanye kwisondo elingakhuselekanga, asilele ukuxelela iqabane lakhe ngesimo sabo, okanye abelane ngesondo ngenjongo yokosulela iqabane lakhe. Ukuba bafunyaniswe benetyala, banokugwetywa iminyaka esibhozo entolongweni. Ezinye ii-STD zineziqinisekiso ezifanayo kodwa zinezohlwayo ezincinci kunye nezohlwayo.

Ngokufanayo, iNew York ithi umntu osulelekileyo unomsebenzi wokulumkisa amaqabane abo ngokwesondo ukuba unayo nayiphi na i-STD, ngokuqonda ukuba isimo se-STD sinokuba yi-deal-breaker kwi-hookup. Amanye amazwe amaninzi anemithetho efanayo kwiincwadi kwaye baye bakhokelela ekugwetyweni. Kwaye umntu osulelekileyo akazikhuphi izityholo zolwaphulo-mthetho okanye uxanduva ekuhlaleni kuba nje iqabane lakhe lingosuleli; okanye ngenxa yokuba kwakuyinto yesondo evumayo; okanye ngenxa yokuba ukhuseleko lwalusetyenziswa, uDana Cutler uyongezelela.

Nokuba ayipheleli kwityala lolwaphulo-mthetho, ukwazi ukudlulisela i-STD kungakhokelela kulwaphulo-mthetho loluntu, njengalowo ujongene no-Usher. Ityala loluntu ngokwesiqhelo lixhomekeke kukungakhathali, ukumela kakubi ubuqhetseba, ukwenzakala koxinzelelo lweemvakalelo, kunye nebhetri, ngomonakalo onikezelwa ngokusekwe kwiindleko ezinokubakho ezinxulunyaniswa nokhathalelo lwexesha elide kunye nonyango olufunwa zizigulo ezinganyangekiyo ezinje ngeherpes, utshilo. Umfazi wase-Oregon wafumana i-900,000 yeedola ngo-2012 emva kokufumana ikhontrakthi ye-herpes, umfazi wase-Iowa wammangalela owayemdala kwaye wafumana i-$ 1.5 yezigidi zokuhlala, kwaye umfazi waseCanada wafumana i-218 yezigidi zeedola emva kokuba isoka lakhe lisulele.

Ukuba uzifumana ukwimeko eyoyikisayo yokufumanisa ukuba iqabane lakho owabelana nalo ngesondo likunike i-STD, ngekhe ube wedwa: Kukho ngaphezulu kwezigidi ezingama-20 zamatyala amatsha ee-STD unyaka nonyaka kwaye ngaphezulu kwe-400 yezigidi zabantu baseMelika sele benayo i-herpes, ngokwe-Centers kuLawulo lweZifo. Kodwa unokukhetha kwezomthetho. Ukhetho lwakho oluphambili kukufaka isimangalo kuluntu kwaye ufune ukonakala kwemali kwiindleko zakho zonyango eziyimfuneko kunye noxinzelelo lweemvakalelo olubangelwa kukuvezwa, utshilo uKeith Cutler. Kwaye ukuba uyakholelwa kwiqabane lakho osulelekileyo ngabom okanye osulelekileyo, unokufaka ingxelo emapoliseni, wongeza.

Okwangoku, qi (Sukuthatha nje ilizwi lakhe ngesiqingatha samadoda esingakhange sivavanyelwe ii-STD!)

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