Kutheni le nto ndingaFikelela kumzimba kuphela?

Ukulindela i-orgasm kunokumisa njani wena neqabane lakho ekubeni nihlangane.

Uyilo ngu-Alexis Lira

Umbuzo: Ukwabelana nendoda yam yinto encinci ... kakuhle, ngokunyanisekileyo, andiyiva nto. Ndiyazi ukuba ndenze njani ukuba ndize, kungenxa yokuba ndifuna ukufumana amava kunye naye kwaye ndingathathi ngonaphakade ukuya apho. Singasebenza njani koku?

Ziindaba ezimnandi nyhani ezi! Uyazi kakuhle umzimba wakho ngokwaneleyo ukuba uzizise kwi-orgasm. Ngoku kufuneka ufundise kwaye uqeqeshe umyeni wakho ngendlela othanda ukuchukunyiswa ngayo.

Xa kufikwa kumba wokuzonwabisa, abantu baqhela kwindlela ethile yokuphatha. Lixesha lokuba umboniso kanye kanye ngale ndlela. Qhubeka ufumane ibhulorho phakathi kwento oyithandayo kunye nemisebenzi yakho yesondo eqhelekileyo. Zama ukulinganisa into oyithandayo ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, kodwa ungalibali ukunxibelelana notshintsho lwesingqisho kwi-SO yakho. Musa ukuba neentloni. Thetha, unike iinkcukacha. Ufuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni ekususa.

Kunye nokuqeqeshelwa izandla, kufuneka ube nesabelo ekwabelaneni ngefantasy yakho. Yitsho ngokuvakalayo. Ndiyazi ukuba kunokubonakala ngathi kuninzi kakhulu okwenzekayo, kodwa ukukwazi ukubalisa amabali, izandi, kunye nokuchukumisa okukucimayo i indlela ekhawulezayo engu-A ukuya ku-B yokufumana uyolo.

Kuvakala ngathi unokuba nolindelo malunga nokuba uza kukhawuleza kangakanani na. Oku kunokongeza uxinzelelo olufihliweyo kunye nokuphazamisa amandla akho okuphumla ngokupheleleyo xa usabelana ngesondo. Akukho sidingo sokungxama, ngaphandle kokuba ufuna ukufumana i-quickie. Wonke umntu uza ngexesha lakhe, kwaye kulungile.

Xa kuziwa kwi-orgasm, unoxanduva lwakho ngokwakho de ufundise iqabane lakho into evakalelwa kakuhle kuwe nasemzimbeni wakho. Ukuba uziva unyanzelekile ngumyeni wakho, thetha naye. Kuba ude ubonise okanye umxelele indlela, akanakunceda.

Iingcali zethu zinokujongana nemibuzo onayo (njengale ingeniswe ngumfundi) malunga nokhathalelo lolusu, unyango, iintlungu, isini, isondlo, nokunye okuninzi! Thumela umbuzo wakho wezempilo [email protected].

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