Ukubhabha nosana? Nantsi into ekufuneka uyazi

Umxholo

• 1. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, linda de umntwana wakho abeneenyanga ezi-3 ubudala
• Bhabha emathangeni ukuze uphephe ukuhlawula imali yokhwela
• Iintsana ze-Lap kunye ne-FAA
• 3. Yazi umgaqo-nkqubo wenqwelomoya wenqwelomoya kwimithwalo ekhangelweyo, abahambahambayo, kunye nezihlalo zemoto
• Ingcebiso yepro: Jonga isihlalo semoto esangweni
• 4. Yenza utshintsho olukhawulezileyo phambi kokukhwela inqwelomoya
• 5. Khetha amaxesha okubhabha ahambelana nendlela yokulala yosana lwakho
• 6. Jonga kugqirha wabantwana malunga nokuhamba nosana olugulayo
• 7. Yiza neefowuni ezirhoxisa ingxolo
• 8. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, ukondliwa kwexesha lokuhamba kunye nokufika
• 9. Yiza nobungqina bokuba uneminyaka yobudala
• 10. Ukuhamba nomnye umntu omdala ukuba unosana olungaphezulu kwesinye
• 11. Khetha isihlalo esiphakathi kwendlela
• 12. Qeshisa izixhobo zomntwana kwindawo oya kuyo
• 13. Fika kwangoko esangweni
• 14. Zisa izinto ezingaphezulu zosana emva koko uzidinge
• 15. Nxiba usana lwakho kwimaleko
• 16. Bhukisha inqwelomoya engamisiyo
• 17. Okanye, khetha uhambo ngenqwelomoya ngobude obude
• Ukuthatha

Sibandakanya iimveliso esicinga ukuba ziluncedo kubafundi bethu. Ukuba uthenga amakhonkco kweli phepha, sinokufumana ikhomishini encinci. Nantsi inkqubo yethu.

Ukuhamba ngenqwelomoya yenye yeendlela ezikhawulezayo zokufumana ukusuka kwindawo engu-A ukuya kwindawo engu-B, kwaye ukuba uhamba nomncinanana, isenokuba yindlela yakho oyithandayo yokuhamba. Kutheni ugcina usana kwisihlalo semoto kangangeeyure xa ungabhabha kwaye ufike kwindawo oya kuyo ngesiqwengana sexesha?

Kodwa ngelixa ukubhabha nosana kukhawuleza kunokuqhuba, akusoloko kulula. Kuya kufuneka ukhathazeke malunga ne-layovers, utshintsho lwe-diaper, ukutyisa, ukuvalelwa, kwaye ewe umntwana owoyikayo ongxolayo. (Ingcebiso yenkqubo: Sukukhathazeka okanye ube neentloni. Iintsana ziyangxola. Oko akuthethi ukuba ungumzali ombi - hayi nakancinci.)

Yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba novalo oluncinci ngaphambi kwendiza, kodwa inyani kukuba, ukubhabha nosana kuba lula xa usazi ukuba wenzeni. Nazi iingcebiso ezimbalwa zokwenza ukuba ukubhabha nomntwana kube lula - kuni nobabini.

1. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, linda de umntwana wakho abeneenyanga ezi-3 ubudala

Iinqwelomoya yindawo yokuzalela iintsholongwane, ngenxa yoko kusenokwenzeka ukuba ayingombono olungileyo ukubhabha kwakamsinya emva kokubeleka kuba iintsana zinamajoni omzimba abuthathaka. Ngexesha elifanayo, nangona kunjalo, i-airline ayiyi kuvimbela umntwana osanda kuzalwa ukuba ahambe.

I-American Airlines ivumela abantwana ukuba babe neentsuku ezimbini ubudala, kwaye i-Southwest Airlines ivumela abantwana abancinci kangangeentsuku ezili-14 ubudala. Kodwa amajoni omzimba omntwana aphuhliswa ngakumbi ngeenyanga ezi-3 ubudala, ebenza ukuba bangakhuseleki lula ekuguleni. (Ibhonasi yokuhamba oku kwangoko: Iintsana zihlala zilala kakhulu kule minyaka, kwaye azihambelani / zihamba-hambe / zingazinzanga njengabancinci kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezindala.)

Ukuba ufuna ukubhabha nosana oluncinci, akukho zinkxalabo. Qiniseka ukuba uhlamba izandla rhoqo okanye usebenzise isicoci sezandla ukukhusela umntwana kwiintsholongwane, kwaye ugcine umgama okhuselekileyo phakathi kwabantwana bakho nabanye abahambi.

Bhabha emathangeni ukuze uphephe ukuhlawula imali yokhwela

Isibonelelo esinye sokubhabha nosana kukuba awunjalo unayo ukubhukisha isihlalo esahlukileyo kubo, nangona nguwuphi umzali ongakwazanga ukusebenzisa isithuba esongezelelweyo? Kungenxa yoko iinkampani zeenqwelo moya zinikezela ngeendlela ezimbini zokuhlala iintsana: Ungathenga itikiti okanye isitulo esahlukileyo kubo kwaye usebenzise isihlalo semoto esivunyiweyo yiFederal Aviation Administration (FAA), okanye ungalubamba usana emathangeni ngexesha lohambo.

Iintsana ze-Lap akufuneki zihlawule kwiinqwelomoya zasekhaya, kodwa kuya kufuneka uzibekele itikiti. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba iintsana zamathanga ziyahlawula ukubhabha kwiinqwelomoya, kodwa ayisiyiyo imali epheleleyo. Iyakuba yintlawulo ethe tyaba okanye ipesenti yendleko yabantu abadala, kuxhomekeke kwinqwelo moya.

Iintsana ze-Lap kunye ne-FAA

Qaphela ukuba i-FAA "ikukhuthaza ngamandla" ukuba ukhusele umntwana wakho kwisihlalo senqwelomoya nakwisihlalo semoto esivunyiweyo se-FAA okanye isixhobo esinjengokubopha kwe-CARES (xa umntwana wakho emdala, enobunzima obungama-22 eepawundi).

Inkxalabo kukuba kwimeko engalindelekanga, yesiphithiphithi esinamandla, usenokungakwazi ukubamba umntwana wakho ngokukhuselekileyo ezingalweni zakho.

Oko kwathethi, yazi ukuba ukuhamba nosana olusemathangeni ekugqibeleni kuxhomekeke kuwe - sifuna nje ukukunceda wenze ukhetho olunolwazi, kwaye hayi lusekwe kwinto enye kuphela.

3. Yazi umgaqo-nkqubo wenqwelomoya wenqwelomoya kwimithwalo ekhangelweyo, abahambahambayo, kunye nezihlalo zemoto

Uyakonwabela ukwazi ukuba uninzi lweenqwelo moya lukuvumela umkhweli ngamnye onetikiti ukuba ajonge istroller esinye kunye nesitulo esinye semoto simahla kwikhawuntara yetikiti, nokuba yeyiphi enye yabahambi okanye isihlalo esinye semoto esangweni (kodwa hayi zombini). Oku akukhathaleki nokuba uhamba nomntwana osethangeni okanye uhlawule imali yokhwela. Molo!

Ukuba ujonga istroller okanye isihlalo semoto esangweni, ungalibali ukucela ithegi yokujonga isango kwikhawuntara yesango ngaphambi kokukhwela inqwelomoya.

Ngaphandle koko, imigaqo-nkqubo yemithwalo ixhomekeke ekubeni umntwana wakho unesihlalo esihlawulelweyo okanye hayi.

Imigaqo-nkqubo yeenqwelomoya iyahluka, kodwa umntwana osesinqeni akafumani sibonelelo semithwalo sinye njengosana olunesihlalo. Ke ukuba ujonga ibhegi eyahlukileyo yomntwana osethangeni, le ngxowa iya kubalela eyakho isibonelelo semithwalo. Iinqwelo-moya ziyavuma ukuba ibhegi enye ithwalwe ngumntwana ngaphandle komrhumo ongezelelweyo (ukongeza kukuqhubeka kwakho).

Ingcebiso yepro: Jonga isihlalo semoto esangweni

Ukuba uza kujonga isihlalo semoto usana olusemathangeni, kulungile ukwenza njalo esangweni kunokuba kwikhawuntara yokungena kwempahla esemgangathweni.

Ukuba inqwelomoya ayigcwelanga okanye ukuba kukho isihlalo esingenanto ecaleni kwakho, unokuvunyelwa ukuhlalisa usana lwakho ngaphandle kwentlawulo. Ngena kwikhawuntara yesango ngaphambi kokuba ukhwele ukubuza malunga nokufumaneka.

4. Yenza utshintsho olukhawulezileyo phambi kokukhwela inqwelomoya

Ukutshintsha kwetafile kuyafumaneka ebhodini kwizindlu zangasese, kodwa indawo iqinile. Yenza utshintsho olukhawulezileyo lwe-diaper ngaphambi kokuba ukhwele-siyaqinisekisa ukuba uya kuba negumbi elininzi lokuhamba kwigumbi lokuhlala langasese!

Ukuba uhamba ngenqwelomoya, usana lwakho lusenokungafuni olunye utshintsho kude kube semva kohambo. Okona kuncinci, ukutshintsha kwe-diaper kwangaphambili kunciphisa inani lamaxesha oya kuyidinga ukutshintsha umntwana wakho ebhodini.

5. Khetha amaxesha okubhabha ahambelana nendlela yokulala yosana lwakho

Ukuba kunokwenzeka, khetha ixesha lokuhamba elihambelana ngokusondeleyo nendlela yokulala yosana lwakho. Oku kunokubandakanya ukukhetha inqwelomoya phakathi kwemini xa usana lwakho lulala okanye uhambo ngenqwelomoya kamva ngokuhlwa kufutshane nexesha labo lokulala.

Kwiinqwelomoya ezinde, usenokucinga ukuba iliso elibomvu kuba umntwana wakho uza kulala lonke uhambo ngenqwelomoya-nangona kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo ukuba uya kuba nakho, ngokunjalo.

6. Jonga kugqirha wabantwana malunga nokuhamba nosana olugulayo

Utshintsho kuxinzelelo lomoya ngexesha lokuhamba kunye nokufika kungenza iindlebe zosana zibuhlungu, ngakumbi ukuba zijongana nengqele, i-aleji, okanye ukudumba kwempumlo.

Ngaphambi kokuba ubaleke, thetha nogqirha wabantwana bakho ukuze ubone ukuba kukhuselekile na ukuba umntwana wakho ahambe xa egula. Ukuba kunjalo, buza malunga nento onokwazi ukuyinika umntwana wakho ngayo nayiphi na intlungu yendlebe enxulumene nayo.

7. Yiza neefowuni ezirhoxisa ingxolo

Ingxolo enkulu yeinjini yenqwelomoya kunye nokuncokola okuvela kwabanye abakhweli kunokwenza ukuba kube nzima ukuba umntwana wakho alale, nto leyo enokubangela ukuba umntwana adinwe kakhulu, abe nengxubakaxaka. Ukwenza ubuthongo bube lula, cinga ngokuthenga ii-headphone ezincinci zokucima isandi ukuze uthulise izandi ezijikelezileyo.

8. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, ukondliwa kwexesha lokuhamba kunye nokufika

Siyazi ukuba oku akusoloko kusenzeka. Kodwa kwihlabathi elifanelekileyo, umntwana wakho angatya olo tshintsho luphakamileyo. Isenzo sokuncancisa esivela kwi-feedings sinokuvula iityhubhu zomntwana wakho ze-Eustachian kwaye lilinganise uxinzelelo ezindlebeni zabo, ukunciphisa iintlungu nokulila.

Ke ukuba kunokwenzeka, yeka ukondla umntwana wakho de uyeke okanye ufike emhlabeni. Ungabanika ibhotile okanye ukuncancisa, oko kulungile.

Inxulumene: Ukuncancisa esidlangalaleni

9. Yiza nobungqina bokuba uneminyaka yobudala

Zilungiselele ukubonisa uhlobo oluthile lwamaxwebhu xa uhamba nosana, nokuba baya kuba lusana okanye babe nesihlalo sabo. Iimfuno zamaxwebhu ziyahluka ngenqwelomoya, ke nxibelelana nenqwelomoya yakho kwangaphambili ukuze ungabinangxaki yokukhwela kwinqwelomoya.

Umzekelo, iwebhusayithi yeAmerican Airlines ithi: “Kungafuneka ubonise ubungqina beminyaka yobudala (njengesatifikethi sokuzalwa) kubo bonke abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka eli-18.” Ukwenza iziseko zakho zigutyungelwe, nokuba yeyiphi na inqwelo moya ohamba kuyo, phatha ikopi yesatifikethi sokuzalwa somntwana wakho.

I-American Airlines ikwaphawula ukuba ukuba ubhabha nosana olungaphantsi kweentsuku ezisi-7 ubudala, kuya kufuneka unikezele ngohlobo lwezonyango olugcwaliswe ngugqirha wabantwana esithi kukhuselekile ukuba umntwana wakho abhabhe. I-airline ingathumela le fomu ngqo kugqirha wakho.

Xa uhamba kwilizwe liphela, ungalibali ukuba zonke iintsana zifuna iipaspoti ezifunekayo kunye / okanye iivisa zokuhamba. Kwaye ukuba umntwana ulishiya ilizwe ngaphandle kwabazali bobabini, umzali (nabazali) ongahambiyo kufuneka atyikitye ileta yokuvuma enika imvume.

Ukuba umntwana wakho uhamba amazwe aphesheya ngomzali omnye, kodwa hayi omnye, umzali ohambahambayo unokucelwa ukuba abonise ubungqina bobudlelwane babo, kulapho ikopi yesatifikethi sokuzalwa somntwana wakho ingena khona.

10. Ukuhamba nomnye umntu omdala ukuba unosana olungaphezulu kwesinye

Qaphela ukuba umntu omdala kunye nomntu ongaphezulu kweminyaka eli-16 ubudala angabamba kuphela usana emathangeni abo.

Ke ukuba uhamba namawele okanye iintsana ezimbini zodwa, ungabamba enye ethangeni lakho, kodwa kuyakufuneka uthengele omnye imali yokhwela.

Ngokwesiqhelo, iinqwelomoya ziyavumela kuphela umlenze omnye wosana kumqolo ngamnye. Ke ukuba unamawele kwaye uhamba neqabane lakho, awuyi kuhlala kumqolo omnye-nangona inqwelo moya izakuzama ukukuhlalisa kufutshane.

11. Khetha isihlalo esiphakathi kwendlela

Amatikiti oqoqosho olusisiseko abiza ixabiso eliphantsi. Kodwa ingxaki ikwezinye iinqwelomoya awuzokwazi ukukhetha isihlalo sakho-esinokuba yingxaki enkulu xa uhamba nosana.

I-airline inikezela isihlalo sakho xa ungena, kwaye oku kunokuba sisihlalo esiphakathi, isihlalo esiphakathi, okanye isihlalo sefestile.

Ukuba uhamba nosana, cinga ukubhukisha imali yokuhamba evumela ukhetho lwangaphambili lwezihlalo. Ngale ndlela, ubuncinci unokukhetha ukukhetha isihlalo esikuvumela ukuba uvuke unyuke ngokukhululekileyo.

Oko kwathethi, siyakholelwa nakwintle yabantu abaninzi, kwaye ukuba ukhetho lwezihlalo alunakulungiswa, unokufumana umntu oza kutshintshela nawe.

12. Qeshisa izixhobo zomntwana kwindawo oya kuyo

Le yimfihlo encinci engaziwayo, kodwa unako ukurenta izixhobo zabantwana kwindawo oya kuyo-kubandakanya nezitulo eziphakamileyo, ii-cribs, iiplaypens, kunye neebhasethi.

Ngale ndlela, awunyanzelekanga ukuba uzitsale ezi zinto kwisikhululo seenqwelomoya kwaye uhlawule imirhumo yemithwalo ekhangelwe ngakumbi. Iinkampani eziqeshisayo zingahambisa izixhobo kwihotele yakho, kwindawo ekuchithelwa kuyo iiholide, okanye kwindlu yesihlobo.

13. Fika kwangoko esangweni

Isibonelelo esinye esikhulu sokuhamba nosana kukuba iinqwelomoya zikuvumela ukuba ungene ngaphambili kwaye uzinze esihlalweni sakho ngaphambi kokuba abanye abakhweli bakhwele. Oku kunokwenza kube lula kuwe nakwabanye.

Kodwa ukuze uthathe ithuba lokubhoda kwangaphambili, kufuneka ubekhona esangweni xa kuqala ibhodi, ke fika kwangethuba - ubuncinci imizuzu engama-30 ngaphambi kokubhoda.

14. Zisa izinto ezingaphezulu zosana emva koko uzidinge

Ngomzamo wokupakisha ukukhanya, unokuzisa kuphela oko kufunwa ngumntwana wakho ngenqwelomoya. Nangona kunjalo, ukulibaziseka kwenqwelomoya kunokwandisa ubude bohambo lwakho ngeeyure ezininzi.

Ke qiniseka ukuba uzisa ukutya okungaphezulu kosana, amashwamshwam, ubisi olungumgubo okanye ubisi lwebele, iimpuphu, kunye nezinye izinto kunokuba ufuna ukunqanda umntwana olambileyo.

15. Nxiba usana lwakho kwimaleko

Umntwana obandayo okanye ofudumeleyo unokuba ngumsindo kwaye abe nomsindo, naye. Ukuthintela ukunyibilika, nxiba usana lwakho kumaleya kwaye ukhulule iimpahla xa luba shushu kakhulu, uze nengubo xa kunokubanda.

Pakisha nezinye iimpahla, xa kunokwenzeka. (Ukuba ubungumzali ngaphezu kweentsuku ezimbalwa, siyazi ukuba awuyi kuzikhathaza ngokubuza, "Inoba yintoni?" Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha sonke siyakudinga ukukhunjuzwa.)

16. Bhukisha inqwelomoya engamisiyo

Zama ukubhukisha uhambo ngenqwelomoya engamisiyo. Unokuhlawula ngakumbi ngezi nqwelo moya, kodwa eyona nto iphambili kukuba uya kudlula kwinkqubo yokubhoda kube kanye, kwaye kuya kufuneka ujongane nenqwelomoya enye kuphela.

17. Okanye, khetha uhambo ngenqwelomoya ngobude obude

Ukuba ukuhamba ngenqwelomoya okungamisiyo akwenzeki, khetha uhambo lwakho kunye nokuhamba ixesha elide phakathi kweenqwelo moya. Ngale ndlela, awunyanzelekanga ukuba ukhawuleze usuke kwelinye isango uye kwelinye nosana kwi-tow - umntwana wakho angakufumanisa kunika umdla, kodwa siyathandabuza ukuba ungakwenza oko.

Kwaye ixesha elininzi phakathi kweenqwelo moya, lixesha elininzi lokutshintsha kwe-diaper kunye nokwelula imilenze.

Ukuthatha

Musa ukoyikiswa ngumbono wokubhabha nosana. Iinqwelomoya ezininzi zinobuhlobo bosapho kwaye ziyahamba iimayile ezongezelelweyo ukwenza amava onwabele wena kunye nomncinci. Ngokucinga kwangaphambili kunye nokulungiselela, ukuhamba ngenqwelomoya kuya kuba lula ngakumbi, kwaye mhlawumbi yenye yeendlela zakho ozithandayo zokuhamba.