Iindlela ezili-8 zokunceda umntwana wakho oyise ukuba neentloni

Umxholo

• 1. Yazi okusingqongileyo
• 2. Incoko ejonge emehlweni
• 3. Yiba nomonde
• 4. Sukuhlala uthi umntwana uneentloni phambi kwakhe
• 5. Ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo
• 6. Musa ukumbeka emngciphekweni umntwana kwiimeko angazithandiyo
• 7. Kunqande ukuzixakekisa naye okanye ukumqhula
• 8. Kuphephe ukuthethela umntwana

Kuqhelekile ukuba abantwana babe neentloni xa bejamelana neemeko ezintsha kwaye, ngakumbi, xa bekunye nabantu abangabaziyo. Ngaphandle koku, ayinguye wonke umntwana oneentloni oya kuba ngumntu omdala oneentloni.

Into enokwenziwa ngabazali ukunceda umntwana wabo ukuba ayeke ukuba neentloni kukusebenzisa iindlela ezithile ezilula ezinokufumana iziphumo ezilungileyo, ezinje:

1. Yazi okusingqongileyo

Ukuthatha umntwana atyelele isikolo azokuya kuso ngaphambi kokuba kuqale iiklasi kunokunceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo, kumenze azive ezithembile kwaye abe nesibindi sokuthetha nabahlobo. Umbono olungileyo kukubhalisa umntwana kwisikolo esinye nomntu abamthandayo, umzekelo, ummelwane okanye isizalwane.

2. Incoko ejonge emehlweni

Amehlo emehlweni abonisa ukuzithemba kwaye xa abazali bethetha nabantwana babo, bahlala bejonge emehlweni, abantwana bathanda ukuyiphinda le ndlela yokuziphatha nabanye.

3. Yiba nomonde

Ayisiyiyo nje into yokuba umntwana eneentloni, ukuba abe ngumntu omdala oneentloni, into ethe yaqwalaselwa kule minyaka idlulileyo kukuba abantwana abaneentloni, xa befikelela kwinqanaba lokufikisa nolutsha, bathambekele ekukhululeni ngakumbi.

4. Sukuhlala uthi umntwana uneentloni phambi kwakhe

Xa abazali benesi simo sengqondo umntwana angacinga ukuba kukho into engalunganga kuye emva koko arhoxe ngakumbi.

5. Ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo

Nanini na xa umntwana ekhulula ngakumbi kwaye engenazintloni, yixabise imizamo yakho kwaye uncume, umwonge okanye uthethe into efana 'kakuhle kakhulu'.

6. Musa ukumbeka emngciphekweni umntwana kwiimeko angazithandiyo

Ukunyanzela umntwana ukuba adanise esikolweni, umzekelo, kungalonyusa uxinzelelo aluva kwaye aqale nokulila ngenxa yokuba eneentloni kwaye eziva esongelwa.

7. Kunqande ukuzixakekisa naye okanye ukumqhula

Iimeko ezinje zinokumenza umntwana abe nomsindo kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha le meko iphindaphindeka umntwana uya esiya engena ngakumbi.

8. Kuphephe ukuthethela umntwana

Abazali kufuneka bakuphephe ukuphendula abantwana kuba ngale ndlela yokuziphatha abakhuthazwa ukuba boyise uloyiko kunye neembandezelo kwaye bafumane isibindi sokuthetha.

Ukuba neentloni akufuneki kubonakale njengesiphene, nangona kunjalo, xa iqala ukwenzakalisa ubomi bomntwana okanye ikwishumi elivisayo, ukubonisana nogqirha wezengqondo kunokuba luncedo kuba le ngcali inolwazi ngeendlela ezithile ezinokunceda ukoyisa obu bunzima, ukuphucula umgangatho wobomi bakho.

Ezinye izinto ezibonisa ukuba isenokuba lixesha lokuba ubone ugqirha wengqondo kuxa umntwana ehlala eyedwa okanye engenabahlobo kwaye ehlala elusizi. Incoko elungileyo ekhululekile inokunceda ekucaciseni ukuba ngaba umntwana ufuna uncedo lobuchwephesha ngokwenene okanye uhamba nje isigaba apho agcinwe khona ngakumbi.