Ungamfundisa njani umntwana ukuba achame kwindlu yangasese

Umxholo

• Inyathelo nenyathelo ukushiya ilweyile
• Nokuba kuqhelekile ukunxiba amanabukeni

Ukukhuthaza umntwana ukuba achame kwaye akhuphe kwigumbi lokuhlambela ayeke ukusebenzisa i-diaper, kubalulekile ukuba kwamkelwe amanye amacebo okunceda umntwana aqhelane nombono wokusebenzisa imbiza okanye imbiza ukwenza iimfuno endaweni yelothe .

Obu buchule bunokwamkelwa kwakamsinya nje ukuba kubonwe ezinye iimpawu ezibonisa ukuba umntwana sele ekwazi ukulawula umnqweno wokuchama kakuhle, xa sele beyiqonda imiyalelo enikwe ngabazali naxa sele benokubonisa ngandlela thile ukuba bafuna I-pee okanye i-poop, edla ngokwenzeka ukusuka kwiinyanga ezili-18 ukuya kwiminyaka emi-2, kodwa iyahluka ukusuka kumntwana kuye emntwaneni. Ke, xa ezi mpawu zibonwa, umntu unokuzama ukuqala inkqubo yokuncipha.

Inyathelo nenyathelo ukushiya ilweyile

Ukusukela mzuzu apho iimpawu ziqala ukuqaphela ukuba umntwana ukulungele ukushiya ilweyile, kubalulekile ukuba uqale ngokuqhela embizeni, ekuqaleni, kwaye wamkele iindlela ezithile zokwenza ukuba kusetyenziswe i-diaper kungafuneki kwaye, ke umntwana Ungasebenzisa imbiza kunye nendlu yangasese ngaphandle kwengxaki.

Ke, inyathelo ngenyathelo lokuba umntwana ashiye i-diaper yile:

1. Mqhelanise umntwana neembiza okanye imbiza. Umbiza unomdla kuba unika umntwana ukhuseleko ngakumbi ngenxa yokuba emfutshane, nto leyo eyenza ukuba umntwana akwazi ukuhlala kamnandi, kodwa kukwakho nezihlalo ezivumela ukuba zisetyenziswe kwaye, kule meko, kubalulekile ukubonelela isitulo ukuze umntwana anyuke kwaye aphumle iinyawo zakhe kuso xa usisebenzisa. Kukwabalulekile ukuba abazali bathethe nomntwana ngenjongo yembiza kunye nembiza, Oko kukuthi, yenzelwe ntoni kwaye kufuneka isetyenziswe nini;
2. Yenza umntwana wakho aqhelane nokuhamba ngaphandle kwamanabukeni, ebeka ipanty okanye iimpahla zangaphantsi emntwaneni kwangoko xa evuka;
3. Qaphela iimpawu ezivezwe ngumntwana ababonisa ukuba kufuneka baye kwigumbi lokuhlambela kwaye bathathe kwangoko, baqinise umbono wokuba kwakamsinya nje xa beziva ngathi bayachama, mabaye kwigumbi lokuhlambela kwaye mabasuse iipanty zabo okanye iimpahla zabo zangaphantsi ukwenza iimfuno;
4. Chazela umntwana ukuba abantu abadala abanxibi manapukeni kwaye ngubani owenza iimfuno embizeni kwaye, ukuba kunokwenzeka, myeke umntwana abukele ngelixa esenza iimfuno. Emva koko, bonisa ucacise ukuba iya phi i-pee kunye ne-poop, kuba oku kuyanceda umntwana ukuba aqonde isizathu sokusebenzisa ivazi;
5. Ncoma ngalo lonke ixesha umntwana esiya embizeni okanye embizeni ukwenza iimfuno, njengoko oku kunceda ukuqinisa ukufundisa kwaye kukhuthaza umntwana ukuba aqhubeke nesenzo;
6. Yiba nomonde, uqonde, unyamezele kwaye uthathe ixesha lokwenza olu tshintsho kunye nomntwana. Ngokwesiqhelo kuthatha abantwana ngeveki ukuziqhelanisa nokusebenzisa imbiza kunye nokushiya amanabukeni emini;
7. Kuphephe ukunxiba iimpahla ekunzima ukuzikhulula. Ngokulula ngakumbi ukususa iimpahla zodwa, kokukhona kunokwenzeka - kwaye kuyakhawuleza - kuya kuba kukusebenzisa igumbi lokuhlambela;
8. Kuphela kusemva kokuba ushiye ilweyile lomntwana apho uqala khona ukutshintshwa kobusuku.

Inkqubo yokufundisa umntwana ukuba asebenzise ivazi inokuba nde, nangona kunjalo kubalulekile ukuba ube nomonde kwaye ungalwi nomntwana ukuba uyayifuna ibhlukhwe. Ukongeza, inokwenza ukuba ixesha libe mnandi ngakumbi emntwaneni, ukubanokufundela umntwana ibali okanye ukunika into yokudlala, umzekelo.

Nokuba kuqhelekile ukunxiba amanabukeni

Akukho budala baneleyo bokuyeka ukusebenzisa amanabukeni, nangona kunjalo abantwana banokufumana ukuqala kokurhoxa phakathi kweenyanga ezili-18 ukuya kwiminyaka emi-2, nangona kunjalo abanye abantwana banokufuna ixesha elingakumbi lokuqalisa le nkqubo.

Kubalulekile ukuba abazali baqwalasele umntwana ukuba azi ukuba ingaqala nini inkqubo yokushiya i-diaper, ukujonga ezinye iimpawu zokuba umntwana angabonisa ukuba angakwazi njani ukuchama izixa ezikhulu ngaxeshanye, i-diaper ayimanzi ngayo kwiiyure ezimbalwa, umntwana sele eqala ukubonisa imiqondiso yokuba kufuneka enze iimfuno, njengokugoba, umzekelo, kwaye sele eqala ukuqonda imiyalelo enikezwe ngabazali.

Kwaye, okokugqibela, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ngaphandle kokulandela zonke ezi ngcebiso, kunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana akazilungiselelanga kwaye i-unalde ayiguquki. Nika umntwana ikhefu kwaye emva kwenyanga okanye ezimbini, qalisa ngaphezulu.