Amanyathelo ayi-8 yokoyisa iintloni kube kanye

Umxholo

• Ungayibetha njani intloni emsebenzini
• Ungoyisa njani ukuba neentloni ekuthetheni esidlangalaleni

Ukuzithemba kwaye ungafuni ukugqibelela yeyona mithetho mibini ibalulekileyo yokoyisa iintloni, imeko eqhelekileyo echaphazela ikakhulu abantwana.

Ngokwesiqhelo umntu uneentloni xa eziva evezelwe kwaye engaqinisekanga ukuba uyakwamkelwa nokuba akaphumeleli, oku kwenza ukuba umntu aphephe ukuthetha kwaye uthintelwe kakhulu kwiimeko ezinje ngokuhambisa umntu nokwenza umsebenzi esikolweni umzekelo.

Amanyathelo asi-8 onokuwathatha ukuze uyeke ukuba neentloni kwaye ube ngumntu ozithembileyo ngala:

1. Yiba nethemba kwaye uphuhlise ukucinga okuqinisekileyo;
2. Yiba nobuhlobo ngakumbi kwaye uzame ukwenza abahlobo;
3. Qaphela, wamkele kwaye ujongane noloyiko kunye neenkxalabo zakho;
4. Musa ukuzithoba;
5. Jonga abanye abantu emehlweni;
6. Musa ukufuna izinto ezininzi kangaka kuwe;
7. Zithembe;
8. Wazi amandla akho kwaye uwasebenzise.

Iintloni zinokunciphisa umda kubomi, ngakumbi xa zibangela ukubandezeleka kwaye zichaphazela ubudlelwane bakho nosapho lwakho, izihlobo okanye abantu osebenza nabo. Ukwamkela ezi zicwangciso kunokunceda kakhulu, kodwa ukuba akunakwenzeka ukugcina ezi ngcinga kunye nezimo zengqondo ekusebenzeni, kunokuboniswa ukuba kufunwe uncedo kwisazi ngengqondo okanye kwisayikholojikhsenti, umzekelo.

Ungayibetha njani intloni emsebenzini

Ukoyisa iintloni emsebenzini, ezinye iingcebiso umntu anokuzilandela kunokuba zezi:

• Thetha kwaye unxibelelane nomnye umntu osebenza naye ngexesha;
• Qala ngeencoko ezincinci;
• Sondela kubantu osebenza nabo abavusa ukuzithemba;
• Bonisa umdla ekuphulaphuleni nasekufundeni,
• Thatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yeqela.

Emsebenzini, kubalulekile ukuba umntu angoyiki ukuthatha umngcipheko kwaye, ikakhulu, angahlawulisi kangako.

Ungoyisa njani ukuba neentloni ekuthetheni esidlangalaleni

Ukoyisa iintloni ekuthetheni esidlangalaleni, ezinye iindlela zinokunceda njengoku:

• Wazi kakuhle lo mbandela oza kuwuchaza;
• Wufunde kakuhle lo mbandela, ucinga ngemibuzo enokuthi ibuzwe luluntu;
• Hlela umboniso uze ubhale amagama aphambili;
• Qeqesha ngaphambi kwenkcazo-ntetho phambi kwesipili nasemva koko phambi kwabaphulaphuli abancinci abenziwe ngabantu oziva ukhululekile kubo;
• Qalisa intetho ngokubalisa isiqhulo okanye ibali elitsala amehlo;
• Yiba nepeni, incwadi okanye amanqaku ezandleni zakho kwaye ujikeleze iqonga ukuze ungabonisi ukungcangcazela;
• Misa amehlo akho nakweyiphi na indawo kwiholo, ungajonganga nawuphi na umntu kubaphulaphuli;
• Khumbula ukuba uluntu alwazi kangako malunga nesihloko osivezayo.

Ngoqeqesho kunye nobuninzi bokubonisa esidlangalaleni, kunokwenzeka ukuba ufumane ukuzithemba kwaye uphulukane neentloni.

Kwiimeko ezithile, isayikholojisti inokubaluleka ukuba umntu akwazi ukuqonda izizathu zentloni yakhe kwaye ayoyise.