Yintoni omele uyenze ukuze uphile ngcono nabantu abadala abanokudideka kwengqondo

Umxholo

• Ungathetha njani nabantu abadala ngokudideka kwengqondo
• Ungalugcina njani ukhuseleko lwabadala ngokudideka kwengqondo
• Ungayinyamekela njani impilo yabantu abadala ngokudideka kwengqondo
• Yintoni enokuyenza xa abantu abadala behlasela
• Jonga olunye unonophelo ekufuneka unalo kubantu abadala e:

Ukuhlala nabantu abadala kunye nokudideka kwengqondo, ongaziyo ukuba uphi kwaye uyala ukusebenzisana, abe ndlongondlongo, umntu makazole kwaye azame ukungamphikisi ukuze angabi ndlongondlongo nangakumbi.

Abantu abadala abanokudideka engqondweni, okunokubangelwa sisifo sengqondo esifana ne-Alzheimer's okanye ngenxa yokuphelelwa ngamanzi emzimbeni, umzekelo, abanokuyiqonda into ethethwayo kwaye bayichase imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla enjengokuhlamba, ukutya okanye ukuthatha amayeza. Fumanisa ukuba zeziphi izizathu eziphambili: Ungazinyanga njani ezona zinto zibangela ukudideka kwengqondo kubantu abadala.

Ubunzima bokuhlala imihla ngemihla nomntu okhulileyo odidekileyo kungakhokelela kwiingxoxo phakathi kwakhe nalowo umgcinayo, kubeka ukhuseleko lwakhe emngciphekweni.

Bona into onokuyenza ukuququzelela ukhathalelo kunye nokuhlalisana kule meko:

Ungathetha njani nabantu abadala ngokudideka kwengqondo

Umntu omdala odidekileyo usenokungafumani magama okuzibonakalisa okanye angaqondi nokuba kuthethwa ntoni, engalandeli imiyalelo, kwaye ke, kubalulekile ukuba ube noxolo ngelixa unxibelelana naye, kwaye kufuneka:

• Ukusondela kwaye ujonge isigulana emehlweni, ukuze aqonde ukuba bayathetha naye;
• Ukubamba isandla somguli, ukubonisa uthando nokuqonda kunye nokunciphisa ubukrakra;
• Thetha uzolile kwaye uthethe amabinzana amafutshane anje ngala: "Masitye";
• Yenza izijekulo ukuze uchaze into oyithethayo, umzekelo ukuba kunyanzelekile;
• Sebenzisa izithethantonye ukuthetha kwinto enye ukuze isigulana siyiqonde;
• Yiva into efunwa sisigulana, nokuba iyinto esele ithethwe kaninzi, njengoko kuyinto eqhelekileyo kuye ukuphinda izimvo zakhe.

Ukongeza, umntu okhulileyo unokuva kwaye abone kakuhle, kunganyanzeleka ukuba athethe kakhulu kwaye ajonge isigulana ukuze eve ngokuchanekileyo.

Ungalugcina njani ukhuseleko lwabadala ngokudideka kwengqondo

Ngokubanzi, abantu abadala abadidekileyo, abanako ukubuchonga ubungozi kwaye banokubeka ubomi babo nobabanye abantu emngciphekweni. Ke, kubalulekile ukuba:

• Beka isacholo esinegama, idilesi kunye nenombolo yomnxeba yelungu losapho kwingalo yesigulana;
• Yazisa abamelwane ngemeko yesigulana, ukuba kukho imfuneko, sincedise;
• Gcina iingcango kunye neefestile zivaliwe ukunqanda abantu abadala ukuba bangashiyi ikhaya kwaye balahleke;
• Ukufihla izitshixo, ngakumbi endlwini kunye nemoto kuba umntu osele ekhulile angafuna ukuqhuba okanye ukushiya indlu;
• Musa ukuba naziphi na izinto ezinobungozi ezibonakalayo, njengeiglasi okanye iimela, umzekelo.

Ukongeza, kunokuba yimfuneko kwisondlo ukubonisa ukutya okulula ukukuginya ukunqanda ukukrwitshwa kunye nokungondleki kubantu abadala. Ukufumana indlela yokulungisa ukutya, funda: Kukutya ntoni xa ndingakwazi ukuhlafuna.

Ungayinyamekela njani impilo yabantu abadala ngokudideka kwengqondo

Xa abantu abadala bedidekile, kuqhelekile ukufuna uncedo lokwenza ucoceko, njengokuhlamba, ukunxiba, okanye ukukama umzekelo, kuba, ukongeza ekulibeleni ukuzinyamekela, bekwazi ukuhamba emdaka, bayayeka uqaphele umsebenzi wezinto kunye nendlela owenziwa ngayo umsebenzi ngamnye.

Ke, ukuze isiguli sihlale sicocekile kwaye sonwabile, kubalulekile ukuba sisincede ekufezekiseni, sibonise ukuba kwenziwa njani ukuze sikwazi ukuphinda simbandakanye kwimisebenzi, ukuze lo mzuzu ungabangeli ukudideka kwaye uvelise ubundlongondlongo.

Ngamanye amaxesha, njengakwisifo i-Alzheimer's advanced, abantu abadala abasakwazi ukusebenzisana kwaye, kwiimeko ezinjalo, kufuneka babe lilungu losapho lokunyanga abantu abadala. Jonga ukuba kungenziwa njani kule: Ukujonga njani umntu olele ebhedini.

Yintoni enokuyenza xa abantu abadala behlasela

Ubundlongondlongo luphawu lwabantu abadala abadidekileyo, bazibonakalisa ngokusongela ngamazwi, ubundlobongela ngokwasemzimbeni kunye nokutshabalalisa izinto, ukukwazi ukuzenzakalisa okanye ukuzenzakalisa.

Ngokubanzi, ubundlongondlongo buvela ngenxa yokuba isigulana singayiqondi imiyalelo kwaye singabaqapheli abantu kwaye xa siphikisiwe, uyaphazamiseka kwaye abe ndlongondlongo. Ngala maxesha, umnakekeli kufuneka ahlale ezolile, ekhangela:

• Sukuphikisana okanye ugxeke abantu abadala, uyijongele phantsi imeko kwaye uthethe ngokuzolileyo;
• Musa ukumchukumisa umntu, nokuba uza kwenza isilwanyana sasekhaya, kuba ungalimala;
• Sukubonisa uloyiko okanye ixhala xa umntu okhulileyo enobundlobongela;
• Kunqande ukunika iiodolo, nokuba zilula ngalo mzuzu;
• Susa izinto ezinokujulwa kwindawo yesigulana;
• Guqula umxholo kwaye ukhuthaze isigulana ukuba senze into eyithandayo, njengokufunda iphephandaba, umzekelo, ukuze ulibale ukuba yintoni ebangele ubundlongondlongo.

Ngokubanzi, amaxesha obundlongondlongo ayakhawuleza kwaye ayadlula kwaye, ngesiqhelo, isigulana asiwukhumbuli umsitho, kwaye ukuphela kwemizuzwana embalwa unokuziphatha ngendlela eqhelekileyo.

Jonga olunye unonophelo ekufuneka unalo kubantu abadala e:

• Ungathintela njani ukuwa kwabantu abadala

• Ukuzolula imithambo yabantu abadala