Unyango lwamakroza osapho: luyintoni, luyintoni kwaye lwenziwa njani

Umxholo

• Yenzelwe ntoni
• Unyango lwenziwa njani

Ukuqokelelana kosapho luhlobo lonyango lwengqondo olujolise ekuqhubeni unyango lweengxaki zengqondo, ngakumbi ezo zinokuvuselelwa ngamandla osapho kunye nobudlelwane, ngokuchonga imeko yoxinzelelo kunye nonyango lwabo.

Obu bubuchule obaphuhliswa ngugqirha wengqondo waseJamani u-Bert Hellinger, ugqirha oyingcali kunyango losapho oluchonge ubukho bamandla aqinisekileyo kunye nabi kwiibhondi zosapho. Ukujonga iipateni zolu lwalamano, kunye neenkxalabo kunye neemvakalelo ezibangelwa luhlobo ngalunye lobudlelwane, uBert wavelisa indlela engeyiyo eyokungenelela ukwenzela ukuba umntu abone umhlaba ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, amkhulule kwizinto ezininzi zoxinzelelo, enokuba ngunobangela wokuphazamiseka engqondweni.

Ukwenza obu buchule kubalulekile ukuba uqhagamshelane nonyango oluchanekileyo ekusebenziseni obu buchule, njengoko inemigaqo ethile kunye neendlela zokusebenza, ekufuneka zihlonitshwe ukuze kuvezwe iziphumo ezilindelekileyo.

Yenzelwe ntoni

Ngokwethiyori ethi isisiseko sonyango lweenkwenkwezi zosapho, iiseshoni zinokunceda ukusombulula iingxaki zemvelaphi yosapho, ubudlelwane phakathi kwabazali nabantwana, kunye nemiceli mngeni kubudlelwane obusondeleyo.

Ke, abantu abaqhele ukubhenela kwiqela leentsapho ngabo:

• Bafuna ukusombulula iingxaki zentsapho;
• Kufuneka bajongane neepatheni zobudlelwane ezingalunganga;
• Bafuna ukoyisa isiphithiphithi sangaphakathi;
• Ngubani owafumana umonzakalo okanye ilahleko ebalulekileyo.

Ukongeza, unyango lwamakroza osapho lukwabonakala sisixhobo esihle nakubani na ojonge ukufezekisa inqanaba eliphezulu lempumelelo yobungcali okanye yobuqu.

Unyango lwenziwa njani

Ngokubanzi, kolu hlobo lonyango, iqela labantu abangazaniyo lisetyenziselwa ukuthatha indawo kunye nokuthatha indima yamanye amalungu osapho lomntu lowo ufuna ukufumana isisombululo kubunzima okanye inkxalabo abayibonisayo. .

Emva koko, i-Therapist ikhuthaza ukusebenzisana nala "malungu osapho" kwaye ibuze umntu ngamnye ukuba azame ukufumanisa ukuba zeziphi iimvakalelo ezisemva kwamabinzana kunye nokuziphatha komntu ofuna isisombululo. Kubalulekile, ke ngoko, ukuba kungabikho namnye wabantu abamele usapho abazi umntu owenza unyango okanye ingxaki ekufuneka inyangwe, njengoko ezi zinto zingenakuba nefuthe kwindlela yokutolika iimvakalelo.

Ngeli xesha, i-Therapist ime ngaphandle kwendibano kwaye izama ukuvavanya zonke iimbono, emva koko, kunye neemvakalelo ezichazwe ngumntu ngamnye, bonisa umntu zonke iinyani malunga nokunxibelelana kwabo "nosapho", echonga amanqaku oxinzelelo olukhulu, kufuneka usetyenzwe.

Kuba unyango oluntsonkothileyo, iqela leentsapho alisoloko lizisa iziphumo ezikhawulezileyo, kwaye iiseshoni ezininzi zinokufuneka de umntu aqale ukufumanisa ukuba zeziphi izinto ekufuneka zitshintshile kunxibelelwano lwabo namanye amalungu osapho. Ukusuka kwiseshoni enye ukuya kwesinye, kuqhelekile ukuba i-Therapist itshintshe iindima zamalungu "osapho" ahlukeneyo de bafumane umbutho / inkwenkwezi encedisa umntu lowo ukuba achonge izithintelo zakhe.