Njani uSharna Burgess "wokuDanisa ngeenkwenkwezi" Ekugqibeleni wafunda ukuthanda umzimba wakhe

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Ndandijikeleze i-14 okokuqala ndandihlazekile emzimbeni. Kwisitudiyo sam sokudanisa, umqeqeshi wethu wayesiya kuthi asilayishe asilinganise phambi komnye ngoLwesibini ngamnye. Rhoqo ngeveki, ndandiza kufika kwisikali, kwaye veki nganye wayendixelela-phambi komntu wonke-ukuba kufuneka ndinciphise umzimba. Ke ngolwe-Lwesibini bendizilambisa yonke imini, ndixelelwe ukuba ndinzima kakhulu, kwaye ndilile ekhaya kuba andiwuthandi umzimba wam kwaye bendinexhala lokuba uza kubamba amandla am okudanisa.

Ngaphandle kwamaxhala am, mna wayenjalo uphumelele ngokwaneleyo ukuba enze ikhono lokudanisa. Okwangoku, kuyo yonke iminyaka yam yokufikisa kunye ne-20s, ukungaqiniseki komzimba wam kunamathele kum. Bendi ngawuthandi umzimba wam; Ndivele ndabeka ubuso obukhaliphileyo ndenza ngathi ndihleli kamnandi nam.

Xa ndajoyina Ukudanisa neenkwenkwezi, ndandinamehlo amaninzi kum, kwaye ngaloo ndlela abantu abaninzi balungele ukuphawula ngomfanekiso wam. Ngexesha lonyaka wam wesibini kumdlalo, ndenze impazamo yokuzibandakanya ngokwam kwaye ndazifumana ndikwindawo emnyama emnyama kwiwebhu. Ndifumene iqonga labantu ababengengabo abalandeli bam-kwaye abakhange nje bakrazule inqanaba lam lobuchule. Babhala ukuba andikhange ndibe nomtsalane ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndingahlala DWTS, wandithelekisa namanye amantombazana awayekulo mboniso, ndaza ndathi kufuneka nditye kancinci. Ukufunda izimvo zabo kwandibuyisela kwiintloni zokuma kwisikali kwi-14. (Related: U-Anna Victoria Unomyalezo kuye Nabani na othi "Ukhetha" uMzimba wakhe ukujonga indlela ethile)

Ukubona loo mazwi kwandenza ndanentembelo-kwaye kwachaphazela ukuziphatha kwam. Ndiqale ukunxiba iimpahla ze-baggier ukuzilolonga kuba bendikule khamera. Kwaye xa ndifunda amagqabantshintshi ukuba umzimba wam ubudoda kakhulu-useyinto eqhelekileyo-ndinamathele kwi-treadmill kwindawo yokuzivocavoca kuba ndicinga ukuba nantoni na enye iya kundenza ndibe nemisipha. Bendityiwa ziingcinga ezinje abantu bacinga ukuba andinomtsalane, kwaye abantu bacinga ukuba kufuneka nditye kancinci, endaweni yokujonga kule nto ndiyenzayo. Kuba kuzo zonke i-100 ezintle, izinto ezintle ezibhalwa ngabantu ngawe, izimvo ezimbi zizo ezihlala zihleli kuwe. (Idibeneyo: Kutheni ukuhlazeka komzimba kuyingxaki enkulu kunye nento ongayenza ukuyiyeka)

Kwakungekade ndide ndifike kwi-30s kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo apho ndakwazi ukwamkela isimo sam somzimba nangona abantu bathetha ntoni ngayo. Nokuba ndiziva ngathi ndifuna ukubuyela umva xa ndifumana amagqabantshintshi, abandoyiki ukuzithemba ngendlela ababeqhele ukwenza ngayo. Ndifundile ukuqonda ukuba yomelele intle kwaye ndiyayithanda into endabelana ngayo noXena iQhawe loMzimba weNkosazana.

Akululanga ukutshintsha indlela ojonga ngayo kunye nendlela osabela ngayo kumagqabantshintshi ngomzimba wakho, kodwa ekugqibeleni ndikwazile ukuyenza. Ndiyonwaba abantu kwaye ndibenza bonwabe, kwaye akukho ntiyo ye-intanethi inokuthatha loo nto.

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