#DisabledPeopleAreHot Is Trending on Twitter

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• Xa wayedala i- # DisabledPeopleAreHot, uAndrew wakhetha ngokuthe ngqo olu lwimi kuba abantu abakhubazekileyo bahlala bexhonywe rhoqo kwaye bengabantwana.
• IiHashtag ezinje nge #DisabledPeopleAreHot kunye ne #DisabledAndCute zinamandla kuba zaqalwa ngabantu abakhubazekileyo kuluntu olukhubazekileyo.
• Ayisiyiyo kuphela la mabinzana anciphisayo, ayingozi. Xa sikholelwa ukuba inye kuphela indlela 'yokubonakala ikhubazekile,' sinciphisa umda wokuba ngubani ofumana indawo yokuhlala kunye nonyango.

Sele ingaphezulu kweminyaka emibini okoko uKeah Brown #DisabledAndCute waya kwintsholongwane. Xa kusenzeka oko, ndabelana ngeefoto zam ezimbalwa, uninzi lwenduku yam kunye nezinye ngaphandle.

Kwakusele iinyanga ezimbalwa nje ukuqala kwam ukusebenzisa umsimelelo, kwaye kwakunzima ukuba ndizicingele ndintle kwaye ndinemfashini ngayo.

Ezi ntsuku, akunzima kangako kum ukuba ndizive ndinomtsalane, kodwa ndaye ndavuya kakhulu ndakufumanisa ukuba u-Andrew Gurza uqalile i-hashtag #DisabledPeopleAreHot kwi-Twitter kwaye yayiqala ukuba yintsholongwane.

UAndrew ngumcebisi wokwazisa ngokukhubazeka, umyili womxholo, kunye nomsasazi wepodcast "Ukukhubazeka Emva kobumnyama," ethetha ngesondo kunye nokukhubazeka.

Xa wayedala i- # DisabledPeopleAreHot, uAndrew wakhetha ngokuthe ngqo olu lwimi kuba abantu abakhubazekileyo bahlala bexhonywe rhoqo kwaye bengabantwana.

UAndrew wabhala kuTwitter: "Abantu abakhubazekileyo bahlala bexhatshazwa ngokwesondo kwaye basuswe kwicandelo 'elishushu'. “Andifuni ukuba njalo.”

#DisabledPeopleAreHot igcwele ngabantu abaninzi abakhubazekileyo, kubandakanya abantu bebala kunye nabantu be-LGBTQ +. Abanye bazibuza ngoncedo lokuhamba. Abanye bayakuqonda ukukhubazeka kwabo kwiingcaciso.

Ukuyiqala kwakhe, uAndrew wayethetha ukuba i-hashtag ibandakanye abantu abakhubazekileyo abangabonakaliyo, abanezifo ezinganyangekiyo, kunye nabantu abakhubazekileyo abazaziyo (abanokuthi bangabinaso isifo esisemthethweni). Wayefuna ukuba ibandakanywe kuyilo.

Akayiboni i-hashtag njengothintelo okanye ukucela abantu abakhubazekileyo ukuba bahambelane nemigangatho yobuhle yesiqhelo.

"Ubushushu kunye nokukhubazeka kuza ngazo zonke iindlela," u-Andrew ubhale ku-Twitter. "Ukuba ukhubazekile kwaye unomfanekiso owuthandayo, le hashtag yeyakho!"

IiHashtag ezinje nge #DisabledPeopleAreHot kunye ne #DisabledAndCute zinamandla kuba zaqalwa ngabantu abakhubazekileyo kuluntu olukhubazekileyo.

Ezi hashtag zimalunga nabantu abakhubazekileyo abanamabali ethu kunye nobuntu kuluntu olufuna ukusihlutha loo malungelo. Ayimalunga nabantu abakhubazekileyo abachasayo okanye abafelweyo. Zimalunga nathi zibanga umtsalane wethu ngokwemiqathango yethu.

Umsebenzisi we-Twitter uMike Long ubonise i-hashtag ibalulekile kumanqanaba aliqela, kuba abantu abaninzi- {textend} kubandakanya neengcali zonyango- {textend} bayakhawuleza ukubhala abantu njengabaphilileyo nabangenakoyiswa ukuba banomtsalane.

Abantu abaninzi abakhubazekileyo baxelelwa izinto ezinje "Umhle kakhulu ukuba ungagula" okanye "Umhle kakhulu ukuba ungahamba ngesitulo esinamavili."

Ayisiyiyo kuphela la mabinzana anciphisayo, ayingozi. Xa sikholelwa ukuba inye kuphela indlela 'yokubonakala ikhubazekile,' sinciphisa umda wokuba ngubani ofumana indawo yokuhlala kunye nonyango.

Oku kungakhokelela ekubeni abantu abakhubazekileyo batyholwa ngokwenza amabala okukhubazeka kwaye bahlukunyezwe ngenxa yoko okanye banqatshelwe izinto abazifunayo, njengeendawo zokupaka ezifikelelekayo okanye izihlalo eziphambili. Inokwenza nokuba kube nzima kubantu abakhubazekileyo ukuba bafumane isifo kwaye bafumane unyango olulungileyo.

Inyani yile yokuba abantu abakhubazekileyo bashushu - {textend} bobabini ngokwemigangatho yesiqhelo yobuhle kwaye nangona kunjalo. Kubalulekile ukuba uyamkele loo nto, ayisiyiyo kuphela kuba ixhobisa abantu abakhubazekileyo, kodwa nangenxa yokuba isusa izimvo eziqhelekileyo malunga nokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuba shushu nokuba kuthetha ntoni ukukhubazeka.

Andikathumeli iifoto zam ze- # DisabledPeopleAreHot okwangoku, ubukhulu becala kuba andisebenzi njenge-Twitter njengoko ndandineminyaka emibini edlulileyo, kwaye bendixakekile. Kodwa sele ndicinga ukuba zeziphi endifanele ndizithumele, kuba ndilapha, ndiyala, ndikhubazekile, kwaye ndingu-dammit, ndivumelekile ukuba ndikholelwe oko.

UAlaina Leary UAlaina Leary ungumhleli, umphathi weendaba zosasazo kunye nombhali waseBoston, eMassachusetts. Okwangoku ungumncedisi womhleli we-Equally Wed Magazine kunye nomhleli weendaba zosasazo ezingenzi-nzuzo Sifuna iincwadi ezahlukeneyo.