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Ngaba uhlobo lwakho lufana ngakumbi UArnold Schwarzenegger okanye Zac Efron? Kungcono ujonge kwikhabhinethi yamayeza ngaphambi kokuba uphendule. Okothusayo ngokwaneleyo, ukuthatha izinto zokucwangcisa zomlomo zomlomo kunokutshintsha uhlobo lwamakhwenkwe anomdla kuwo. Ngokutsho kwesifundo esitsha, abasetyhini abenza ipilisi bathambekele ekukhetheni ii-dudes ezingaphantsi "ngobuso obukhangeleka njengamadoda." Ke kutheni abafazi kulawulo lokuzalwa bekhetha amadoda aneempawu zobufazi ngakumbi njengamehlo abanzi kunye nemilebe egcweleyo (sijonge kuwe, ULeonardo DiCaprio)? Uphononongo lwaseScotland lucebisa ukuba impendulo ibandakanya iihomoni, umlinganiso wobuso, kunye nendaleko.

Ngelixa ulawulo lokuzalwa lunezinye izibonelelo ezicacileyo, njengokuthintela ukukhulelwa, kufanelekile ukwazi ukuba inokutshintsha nokukhetha ngokwesondo. Qhubeka ufunda ukuze ufunde ukuba iipilisi zehomoni zinokuba neziphumo ebezingalindelekanga ezingalindelekanga.

Yintoni intengiselwano?

Ayizondaba ncam ukuba amanenekazi athanda amakhwenkwe amahle (uBieber Fever, nabani na?), Mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba iimbono zamadoda nabasetyhini zobuhle azifani zonke. Kodwa iqela labaphandi baseSkotlani lalinganelisekanga seso sigqibo. Bafuna ukwazi ukuba kutheni abantu basetyhini benendawo ezinobuso obubodwa (kwaye beshiya ezinye iimpawu zobuso engqeleni).

Ukufezekisa loo nto, abaphandi baqhuba izifundo ezimbini ezibandakanya iipilisi zokucwangcisa ngomlomo zehomoni kunye nobuso obunemifanekiso obuhambelana nekhompyuter. Abafazi abangama-55 besini esahlukileyo bajonge kwimifanekiso yedijithali yobuso bendoda; Bacelwe ukuba babusebenzise ubuso babo de bafumane ubuso obulungele ulwalamano lwexesha elifutshane kunye nobuso obufanelekileyo bobudlelwane bexesha elide. Nje ukuba benze i-Ken-tastic Dream Man yabo, i-18 yabafazi bagoduka neepilisi zolawulo lokuzalwa kwaye abathathi-nxaxheba abangama-37 bagcina iihormone zabo okanye i-naturale. Emva kweenyanga ezintathu, omabini amaqela abasetyhini abuyile kwaye enza uvavanyo olufanayo lokukhangela umtsalane ebusweni. Abaphandi bafumanise ukuba abasetyhini ababekwipilisi ukusukela kwiseshoni yokugqibela yovavanyo babengekho kwi-dudes enobuso besilisa (njengoko kumiselwe zii-ratios ezintathu: ukuqaqamba kwe-cheekbone, ukuphakama kwemihlathi / ukuphakama kobuso obuphantsi, nobubanzi bobuso / ukuphakama kobuso obuphantsi) kunokuba abafazi ababengathathi izinto zokucwangcisa ngomlomo.

Kodwa masijongane nayo- kwanobona buso bucwebezelayo, obona buhle bedijithali ayenzi iintliziyo zabasetyhini abaninzi zibe pitter-patter. Ke abaphandi bathatha uvavanyo lwabo kwilebhu kwaye bangena kubomi bokwenyani. Bafumene izibini ezithandana nesini esahlukileyo ezingama-85 ezadibana ngelixa owasetyhini wayethatha iipilisi zoqingqo-nzala, kunye nama-85 amabini angamadoda nabasetyhini abaqala ukuva iintlantsi zibhabha xa eli nenekazi lingasebenzisi uqingqo-nzala lwehomoni. Apha kulapho ifumana khona isayensi-fiction freaky-abaphandi bathatha iifoto zamadoda kwaye bayiguqula ngokwedijithali imifanekiso ukuba ijonge ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi kobudoda. Ke abathathi-nxaxheba kwi-Intanethi bagwebe iifoto zoqobo kunye neefoto ezikhohlisayo ngendlela "abayindoda" ngayo. Amadoda awayethabathe iipilisi zokuthintela inzala ayenobuso babafazi ngakumbi kunamadoda athanda intsholongwane yokuthintela ukukhulelwa.

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Wena betcha! Kuyaphambana ukuba kuyinyani. Nangona isifundo sasingenkulu kwisikali, sasinoyilo olwahlukileyo. Umphandi u-Anthony Little uyacacisa, "Ubungakanani besampulu kwisifundo sethu bincinci (eneneni iqela lokulinga ibingabafazi abali-18 kuphela) [kodwa] uvavanyo lusenamandla kuba sivavanye abantu basetyhini amatyeli amabini, kwakanye kunye nakanye ipilisi ukuze naluphi na utshintsho esilubonayo lunokubangelwa kukusetyenziswa kwepilisi kuphela. " Kwaye uphononongo lwangaphambili lufumanise ukuba ucwangciso lokukhulelwa ngomlomo lunokuchaphazela umgangatho wobudlelwane phakathi kwamadoda nabasetyhini, kunye nokukhetha iqabane lokuqala.

Yintoni engaqinisekanga ukuba kutheni. Abaphandi kolu phononongo lwamva nje bacinga ukuba ukuthanda indaleko kudlala indima enkulu. Olunye uphando lufumene amadoda anobuso obukhangeleka njengamadoda ngokubanzi kubonwa ngathi bomelele ngokomzimba kodwa amancinci. Kwiqabane lexesha elide, abafazi bathanda ukukhetha amadoda anobuso obufazi ngakumbi ngenxa yokuba i-doll-face dudes inxulumene nokuziphatha ngokubambisana. Kwaye nantsi into eyothusayo-xa uthatha iipilisi zokulawula ukuzalwa ngomlomo, abantu basetyhini bayafana ngokufana nabasetyhini abakhulelweyo. Ke ngoko, ngekhe bajonge izakhi zofuzo ezomeleleyo (kuba sele benayo i-bun kwi-oveni) kodwa kwiqabane elinenkxaso, elingenaburhalarhume ukubanceda ngezo nyawo zidiniweyo kunye nemiqolo ebuhlungu.

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Ngaba sonke kufuneka silahle iipilisi zethu zokulawula ukuzala kwaye silandele amadoda angamadoda? Hayi ngokukhawuleza! U-Little ucacisa, "Ngokwendalo, silumke kakhulu ekutolikeni idatha yethu. Kunokubakho izinto ezilungileyo nezingalunganga kusetyenziso lwayo nayiphi na i-hormone yokwenziwa kunye nophando olungaphezulu ekufuneka lwenziwe ukuvumela abantu ukuba baziswe ngazo naziphi na iziphumo ezinokubakho kwi-physiology okanye indlela yokuziphatha. Olu phando aluzange luhlolisise indlela abasabela ngayo abantu basetyhini ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zolawulo lokuzalwa (ipilisi, ipilisi encinci, isiziba, iringi, njl.njl. Qonda indlela iihomoni zokwenziwa ezichaphazela ngayo ukuthanda kwabasetyhini xa bekhangela iqabane.

Ngaphandle koko, kukho amakhulu (ukuba ayingamawaka) izinto ezinegalelo kwimpumelelo, ubudlelwane obuphilileyo ngaphaya komtsalane wokuqala. Kubafazi abaninzi, iingenelo zokuthintela inzala zisenokodlula imiqobo nemida yako. (Kwaye ngokwenene, ngaba isoka elijongene nomntwana libi ngolo hlobo?)

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