Ubundlobongela baseKhaya: Ukonzakalisa uQoqosho kunye namaXhoba

Umxholo

• Ubundlobongela bamaQabane asondeleyo: UkuYichaza
• Iindleko ngokuthe ngqo nangokungathanga ngqo
• Iindleko zasemsebenzini
• Iindleko zonyango
• Iindleko kuBantwana
• Unokumnceda njani umntu ochaphazelekayo yi-IPV?
• Ndingalufumana Phi Uncedo?

Ubundlobongela basekhaya, ngamanye amaxesha obubizwa ngokuba bubundlobongela phakathi kwabantu (IPV), buchaphazela ngokuthe ngqo izigidi zabantu eMelika minyaka le. Ngapha koko, phantse ibhinqa elinye kwabane, kunye ne-1 kwindoda esi-7, bafumana ubundlobongela obuqatha kumlingane osenyongweni ngexesha elithile ebomini babo, ngokwe-CDC.

Olu qikelelo lusenokwenzeka ukuba lusezantsi. Ngenxa yokugculelwa kwabantu ekuhlaleni okunxulunyaniswa ne-IPV, abantu abaninzi abachaphazeleke ngqo kuyo abanakulindeleka ukuba bayixele, ngenxa yexhoba lokugxeka, ubuhlanga, ubundlobongela, uloyikiso, nolunye ulwahlulo olunxulumene noko.

Uphando, amaxesha ngamaxesha, lufumene unxibelelwano phakathi kweminyhadala ethile kunye neeholide, kunye namaxabiso eengxelo zobundlobongela basekhaya. Isifundo seminyaka eli-11 esijonge phantse kwiziganeko ezingama-25,000 zokuphathwa gadalala kwamaqabane sabona iziqwenga ezibalulekileyo ze-IPV exeliweyo ngeCawa yeSuper Bowl. Amanani ayephezulu nangomhla woNyaka oMtsha kunye nosuku lweNkululeko.

Ngo-2015, iNational Football League yahlangana kunye nephulo lokuNgasenakho ukubonakalisa ubundlobongela basekhaya ngexesha lomdlalo. Ibonakalise umnxeba wokwenyani ku-911 lixhoba le-IPV, ekufuneka enze ngathi uyalela ipitsa xa eneneni ethetha nomphathi wamapolisa wasekhaya.

Oku kwakuyinto enqabileyo, kwaye yayifuneka kakhulu, umzekelo wobundlobongela ekhayeni oboniswe njengomcimbi ekufuneka ujongiwe kwinqanaba lesizwe. I-IPV ihlala ibonakaliswa njengombandela wabucala yimithombo yeendaba kunye nenkqubo yezobulungisa kulwaphulo-mthetho. Ngokwenyani, ubundlobongela obunje-obudinga nokuba bungabikho ngokwasemzimbeni-budala iziphumo ezibi ezifikelela kuluntu luphela nangaphaya. Njengoko sijonge phambili ukukhahlela kwi-Super Bowl 50,

Ubundlobongela bamaQabane asondeleyo: UkuYichaza

Iqabane elisenyongweni namphi na umntu "onobuhlobo obusondeleyo" naye, ngokuka. Oko kunokubandakanya amaqabane ezesondo ngoku kunye nawangaphambili.

Ubundlobongela obusondeleyo kumaqabane ngumzekelo wokunyanzelwa okanye wokuziphatha. Ezi zinokuthatha nayiphi na (okanye nayiphi na indibaniselwano) kwezi fomu zilandelayo:

• ubundlobongela
• ubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo, kubandakanya ukudlwengulwa, ukudibana okungafunekiyo ngokwesondo, amava okungafunwa ngokwesondo (njengokuvezwa kwamanyala), iSexual Harassment kunye nezoyikiso zobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo.
• ukulandela
• Ubundlongondlongo bengqondo, olusebenzisa unxibelelwano lomlomo nolungathethi ngomntu ukulawula omnye umntu, kunye / okanye injongo yokubenzakalisa ngokwasengqondweni nangokweemvakalelo. Oku kunokubandakanya ulawulo olunyanzelekileyo, ngokubahlukanisa nabahlobo kunye nosapho, ukunciphisa ukufikelela kwabo kwimali, ukubathintela ekusebenziseni ulawulo lokuzalwa, okanye ukuxhaphaza ukuba semngciphekweni (njengokubasongela ngokugxothwa)

Iindleko ngokuthe ngqo nangokungathanga ngqo

Xa sicinga ngobundlobongela basekhaya obubiza malini, sihlala sicinga ngokweendleko ngqo. Oku kunokubandakanya ukhathalelo lwezonyango, kunye neendleko zamapolisa, ukuvalelwa, kunye neenkonzo zomthetho.

Kodwa i-IPV ikwangenisa kwinkcitho yeendleko ezingathanga ngqo. Ezi ziziphumo zexesha elide zobundlobongela ezichaphazela umgangatho wobomi bexhoba, imveliso, kunye namathuba. Ngokwe-World Health Organisation (i-WHO), ezi zinokubandakanya iindleko zengqondo, ukunciphisa imveliso, ukulahleka kwemivuzo, kunye nezinye iindleko ezingezizo ezemali.

Ngokophando luka-2004 oluvela ku, iindleko zizonke ze-IPV ngokuchasene nabasetyhini e-United States zingaphezulu kwe-8.3 yezigidigidi zeedola minyaka le.

Olu phando luxhomekeke kwidatha ye-1995, ke kwiidola ze-2015, eli nani linokuphakama kakhulu.

Ehlabathini lonke, ngokweCopenhagen Consensus Centre kunye nokusebenzisa idatha ka-2013, iindleko zonyaka ze-IPV kwihlabathi liphela ziyi- $ 4.4 trillion, emalunga neepesenti ezi-5.2 ze-GDP yehlabathi. Abaphandi baqaphela ukuba elona nani liphezulu lingaphezulu kakhulu, ngenxa yokuxelwa.

Iindleko zasemsebenzini

Ukuqonda ukuba iziphumo ze-IPV zinwenwela ngaphaya kwekhaya, akufuneki sijonge ngaphesheya kokurhafiswa kwe-IPV kwindawo yokusebenzela. Idatha evela kuVavanyo loBundlobongela boLuntu kuLuntu (i-NVAWS) epapashwe ngoqikelelo lokuba abasetyhini e-United States baphulukana neentsuku ezizizigidi ezisi-8 zomsebenzi ohlawulelweyo minyaka le ngenxa ye-IPV.

Oko kulingana nemisebenzi yexesha elipheleleyo engama-32,114. Kwaye i-IPV ichaphazela nomsebenzi wasekhaya, kuqikelelwa ezongezelelweyo 5.6 yezigidi zeentsuku ezilahlekileyo.

Ukongeza kwiintsuku zokusebenza ezilahlekileyo, i-IPV yenza kube nzima kumaxhoba ukugxila emsebenzini, onokuthi uqhubeke ngakumbi nefuthe kwimveliso. I-poll kazwelonke eyenziwa yi-Corporate Alliance to End Partner Violence (CAEPV) ngo-2005 yafumanisa ukuba ama-64 eepesenti amaxhoba e-IPV avakalelwa kukuba amandla abo okusebenza ayengunobangela wobundlobongela basekhaya.

Iindleko zonyango

Iindleko zempilo ebonakalayo ezenziwe yi-IPV zombini ngokukhawuleza kunye nexesha elide. Ngokusekwe kwidatha ka-2005, uqikelelo lwe-IPV lubangela ukonzakala kwabasetyhini abazizigidi ezi-2, kunye nokufa kwabantu abayi-1,200.

Unyango lokulimala okunxulumene ne-IPV kuhlala kuqhubeka, oko kuthetha ukuba amaxhoba kufuneka afune iinkonzo zonyango rhoqo. Ngokophando lukazwelonke lowama-2005, abasetyhini abafumana ukonzakala okunxulumene ne-IPV kuya kufuneka batyelele igumbi likaxakeka amatyeli amabini, jonga ugqirha umndilili wamaxesha e-3.5, undwendwele ugqirha wamazinyo umndilili wamaxesha e-5.2, kwaye wenze utyelelo lwe-19.7 kunyango lomzimba.

Nokuba yeyomzimba okanye yengqondo, i-IPV ibuhlungu. Idatha evela ku-1995 ibonisa ukuba ama-1 kumaxhoba ama-3 okudlwengulwa kwabasetyhini, ngaphezu kwe-1 kuma-4 amaxhoba okuhlaselwa ngokomzimba, kwaye phantse i-1 kuma-2 amaxhoba ahlaselayo afuna iinkonzo zonyango lwezengqondo. Inani lotyelelo kumyinge ophakathi ukusuka kwithoba kuye kwi-12, kuxhomekeke kubunzima obufunyenweyo.

Kunzima ukubeka isixa sedola kolu tyelelo kunikwe ubunzima benkqubo yokhathalelo lwempilo yase-U.S, kodwa uqikelelo lubonisa ukuba i-IPV inokubiza naphi na phakathi kwe- $ 2.3 ukuya kwi-7 yezigidigidi zeedola "kwiinyanga zokuqala ezili-12 emva koxinzelelo."

Ngaphandle konyaka wokuqala, i-IPV iyaqhubeka nokunyusa amatyala ezonyango. Amaxhoba obundlobongela basekhaya anepesenti ephezulu ye-80 yokuba nesifo sokufa icala, iipesenti ezingama-70 zomngcipheko wesifo sentliziyo, iipesenti ezingama-70 zomngcipheko wokusela kakhulu, kunye neepesenti ezingama-60 zomngcipheko wokuba nesifuba.

Iindleko kuBantwana

I-IPV ikwachaphazela ngokuthe ngqo abantwana ababonakaliswe kuyo, kwaye ngeendlela ezininzi. I-IPV kunye nokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana kwenzeka-kwiipesenti ezingama-30 ukuya kuma-60 zamatyala ase-US, ngokwengxelo ka-2006 evela kwiZiko lezoBulungisa leSizwe.

Ngowama-2006, iUNICEF yaqikelela ukuba ngama-275 ezigidi abantwana ehlabathini jikelele abebekhe baboniswa ubundlobongela emakhaya; elo nani kungenzeka ukuba lonyukile. Iziphumo zabo zibonisa ukuba abantwana abasesichengeni sobundlobongela banokuba neengxaki zeemvakalelo okanye zokuziphatha, babe semngciphekweni omkhulu wokuhlaselwa ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwesondo, kwaye banokuba nakho ukulingisa indlela yokuziphatha kakubi. (Qaphela: Ukuphathwa gadalala kuhlala kukhetho olwenziwa ngumenzi wobubi; ayingabo bonke abantwana abakubonayo ukuxhatshazwa abaya kuqhubeka nokuphatha gadalala.)

Ezi zinto zifunyanisiweyo zigxininisa into yokuba ubundlobongela abuyongxaki yabucala, kodwa enyanisweni umjikelo ochaphazela abantwana, oontanga babo, indawo yokusebenzela, kwaye, ngokongeza, sonke.

Kubalulekile ukuphinda-phinda ukuba iindleko zobundlobongela kunzima ukuzichitha ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, kwaye uqikelelo olunikezwe apha lusenokwenzeka ukuba lusezantsi. Ithathiwe ngokudibeneyo kunye nokuhlawulwa ngokweemvakalelo nangokwasemzimbeni kwiintsapho zamaxhoba, abahlobo, kunye noluntu, indleko ze-IPV eUnited States ngumthetho oyilwayo esingenakukwazi ukuwuhlawula.

Unokumnceda njani umntu ochaphazelekayo yi-IPV?

Ukuba umhlobo okanye umntu omkhathaleleyo uxhatshazwa liqabane labo, ezi ngcebiso zilandelayo zingenza umahluko omkhulu:

• Thetha nabo. Yazisa umhlobo wakho ukuba umkhathalele kwaye ukhathazekile ngentlalo-ntle yabo. Umhlobo wakho unokukhanyela ukuba uyaxhatshazwa. Bazise nje ukuba ukhona ngenxa yabo.
• Wuphephe umgwebo. Yithembe into ethethwa ngumhlobo wakho ngamava abo; amaxhoba amaninzi oyika ukuba abayi kukholelwa. Qonda ukuba abantu abafumana ukuxhatshazwa bangazibeka ityala ngako okanye bazame ukuthethelela ukuxhatshazwa ngezinye iindlela. Qonda nokuba abantu abaphethwe gadalala banokumthanda umxhaphazi wabo.
• SUKUBAGXEKA. Ukuphathwa gadalala ayisosiphoso sexhoba, nangona umxhaphazi wabo angathi Yazisa umhlobo wakho ukuba ayilotyala lakhe; akukho mntu ufanele ukuxhatshazwa.
• SUKUbaxelela ukuba bahambe. Nokuba kunzima kanjani, umhlobo wakho uyakwazi okona kulungileyo kubo. Xa amaxhoba eshiya umxhaphazi wawo, umngcipheko wokufa; isenokungakhuselekanga into yokuba umhlobo wakho ahambe, nangona ucinga kufanelekile. Endaweni yoko banike amandla okuzikhethela.
• Bancede baphonononge ukhetho lwabo. Amaxhoba amaninzi aziva elilolo kwaye engenamandla, okanye evakalelwa kukuba akukhuselekanga ukujonga izixhobo kumakhaya abo. Cela ukujonga ii-hotline kunye nabo okanye ugcine iincwadana.

Jonga iZiko lokuLumkisa ngokuSetyenziswa gwenxa kobudlelwane namanye amacebo ngokuxhasa umhlobo (okanye umntu osebenza naye) oxhatshazwayo.

Ndingalufumana Phi Uncedo?

Zininzi izixhobo ezikhoyo kumaxhoba okuphathwa gadalala. Ukuba ufumana ukuxhatshazwa, qiniseka ukuba kukhuselekile kuwe ukufikelela kwezi zixhobo kwikhompyuter yakho okanye kwifowuni.

• Inombolo Yeselfowuni Yobundlobongela Basekhaya: izixhobo zawo onke amaxhoba e-IPV; I-hotline yeeyure ezingama-24 ngo-1-800-799-7233, 1-800-787-3224 (TTY)
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