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Umxholo

• Isishwankathelo
• Yintoni ubundlobongela basekhaya?
• Ngubani ochaphazeleka kubundlobongela basekhaya?
• Yeyiphi imiqondiso yokuba umntu ulixhoba lobundlobongela basekhaya?
• Ndingenza ntoni ukuba ndilixhoba lobundlobongela basekhaya?
• Ndingamnceda njani umntu olixhoba lobundlobongela basekhaya?

Isishwankathelo

Yintoni ubundlobongela basekhaya?

Ubundlobongela basekhaya luhlobo lokuxhatshazwa. Isenokuba kukuphathwa gadalala kweqabane okanye iqabane, ekwabizwa ngokuba bubundlobongela phakathi kwamaqabane. Okanye inokuba kukuxhatshazwa komntwana, isizalwane esidala, okanye elinye ilungu losapho.

Ubundlobongela basekhaya bunokubandakanya iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuxhatshazwa, ezinje

• Ubundlobongela emzimbeni oko kunokukhokelela ekonzakaleni okunje ngemivumbo okanye ukwaphuka (amathambo aphukileyo)
• Ubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo, kubandakanya ukuhlaselwa ngokwesondo
• Ukuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo, ezibandakanya izoyikiso, ukuthukwa, ukubeka ezantsi kunye nokuthotywa isidima. Inokubandakanya ukulawula indlela yokuziphatha, njengokuxelela ixhoba indlela emayenze okanye enxibe ngayo kwaye ingabavumeli babone usapho okanye abahlobo.
• Ukuphathwa gadalala kwezoqoqosho, ebandakanya ukulawula ukufikelela kwimali
• Ukulandela, ephindaphindwayo, unxibelelwano olungafunekiyo olwenza uloyiko okanye inkxalabo ngokhuseleko lwexhoba. Oku kunokubandakanya ukubukela okanye ukulandela ixhoba. I-stalker inokuthumela iminxeba ephindaphindiweyo, engafunekiyo okanye imiyalezo.

Ngubani ochaphazeleka kubundlobongela basekhaya?

Kunzima ukwazi ngokuthe ngqo ukuba buxhaphake kangakanani ubundlobongela basekhaya, kuba akusoloko kuchazwa.

Kodwa siyazi ukuba nabani na unokuchaphazeleka yiyo. Ubundlobongela basekhaya bunokwenzeka emadodeni okanye kubafazi bayo yonke iminyaka eyahlukeneyo. Ichaphazela abantu kuwo onke amanqanaba emivuzo kunye nemfundo.

Yeyiphi imiqondiso yokuba umntu ulixhoba lobundlobongela basekhaya?

Ukuba ucinga ukuba umntu omthandayo angalixhoba lobundlobongela basekhaya, funda ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuxhatshazwa kwaye ubukele le miqondiso:

Ngaba umhlobo wakho okanye umntu omthandayo

• Ngaba usikeka okanye unemivumbo engachazwanga?
• Gwema abahlobo, usapho, kunye nezinto ozithandayo?
• Yenza izizathu zokuziphatha kweqabane labo?
• Ujonge ukungonwabi okanye uloyiko malunga neqabane labo?

Ngaba umhlobo wakho okanye iqabane lomntu omthandayo

• Ukubangxolisa okanye ukuhlekisa ngabo?
• Zama ukubalawula ngokwenza zonke izigqibo?
• Jonga kubo emsebenzini okanye esikolweni?
• Banyanzele ukuba benze izinto zesondo abangazifuniyo?
• Ngaba usongela ukuzenzakalisa okanye ukuzilimaza ukuba iqabane lifuna ukwahlukana?

Ndingenza ntoni ukuba ndilixhoba lobundlobongela basekhaya?

Ukhuseleko lwakho yeyona nkxalabo ibalulekileyo. Ukuba usengozini ngokukhawuleza, tsalela umnxeba ku-911.

Ukuba awukho sengozini kwangoko, unako

• Fumana unyango ukuba wonzakele okanye wahlaselwa ngokwesondo
• Tsalela umnxeba woncedo simahla, uncedo olungaziwayo. Ungaqhakamshelana nomnxeba osetyenziswayo kwiNombolo yaMazwe yoBundlobongela baseKhaya ku-800-799-SAFE (7233) okanye 800-787-3224 (TTY).
• Khangela ukuba ungalufumana phi uncedo kwindawo ohlala kuyo. Nxibelelana nemibutho yasekuhlaleni enokukunceda.
• Yenza isicwangciso sokhuseleko sokuhamba. Ubundlobongela basekhaya ngokwesiqhelo abubi ngcono. Cinga ngendawo ekhuselekileyo onokuhamba kuyo kunye nazo zonke izinto oza kuzidinga xa ushiya.
• Gcina ubungqina. Gcina ubungqina bokuxhatshazwa, njengemifanekiso yokwenzakala kwakho okanye isoyikiso ngeimeyile okanye izicatshulwa. Qiniseka ukuba ikwindawo ekhuselekileyo umxhaphazi angenakho ukufikelela kuyo.
• Thetha nomntu omthembileyo, njengelungu losapho, umhlobo, umntu osebenza naye, okanye inkokheli yokomoya
• Cinga ngokufumana umyalelo othintelayo ukuzikhusela

Ndingamnceda njani umntu olixhoba lobundlobongela basekhaya?

Yazisa umntu omthandayo ukuba ukuphathwa ngale ndlela akunampilo kwaye abanatyala. Kufuneke u

• Tsalela umnxeba ku-911 ukuba kukho ingozi ekhawulezileyo
• Jonga iimpawu zoxhatshazo. Funda malunga neempawu kwaye ugcine umkhondo wazo ozibonayo.
• Fumana ngezixhobo zasekuhlaleni. Fumana iidilesi kunye neenombolo zefowuni zezixhobo ezithile kwindawo ohlala kuyo. Emva koko uya kuba nakho ukwabelana ngolwazi ukuba umntu ukulungele.
• Cwangcisa ixesha lokuthetha. Qiniseka ukuba unokuba nengxoxo yakho kwindawo ekhuselekileyo, eyimfihlo. Umlingane wakho omthandayo unokufikelela kwiselfowuni okanye ikhompyuter, ke lumka malunga nokwabelana ngolwazi malunga nesicatshulwa okanye i-imeyile.
• Cacisa malunga nokuba kutheni ukhathazekile. Chaza iindlela zokuziphatha ezikukhathazayo. Cacisa kangangoko kunokwenzeka xa uchaza ukuba kutheni ukhathazekile.
• Cwangcisa ukhuseleko. Ukuba umhlobo wakho ukulungele ukushiya iqabane lakho elihlukumezayo, nceda wenze isicwangciso sokuphuma kubudlelwane ngokukhuselekileyo kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Umcebisi ngobundlobongela basekhaya unokunceda ekwenzeni isicwangciso sokhuseleko.
• Yiba nomonde ungagwebi. Kuya kufuneka uthethe ngezinto ezikuxhalabisayo nomntu omthandayo, kodwa kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba basenokungakulungeli ukuthetha ngayo. Bazise ukuba uyafumaneka ukuba ungathetha nanini na, kwaye uya kumamela ngaphandle kokubagweba.