Ii-Accumulators ezinyanzelekileyo: Ziyintoni, Iimpawu kunye nonyango

Umxholo

• Iimpawu eziphambili zesifo
• Ukohlula njani isihlanganisi kumqokeleli
• Yintoni ebangela esi sifo
• Unyango lwenziwa njani
• Iingxaki ezinokwenzeka

Abaqokeleli abanyanzelekileyo ngabantu abanobunzima obukhulu bokulahla okanye ukushiya impahla yabo, nokuba ayisasebenzi. Ngesi sizathu, kuqhelekile ukuba ikhaya kunye nendawo yokusebenza kwaba bantu babe nezinto ezininzi eziqokelelweyo, ukuthintela ukuhamba nokusetyenziswa kwemimandla eyahlukeneyo.

Ngokwesiqhelo izinto eziqokelelweyo azenzeki kwaye zinokufumaneka nakumgqomo wenkunkuma, kodwa umntu uyazibona ziyimfuneko kwixesha elizayo okanye unokuba nexabiso eliphezulu lemali.

Esi sifo sinokubonwa lula ngamalungu osapho okanye ngabahlobo, kodwa ngokubanzi, umntu ngokwakhe akanakuchonga ukuba unengxaki kwaye ke, akafuni nyango. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuphazamiseka kubumnene kwaye, njengoko kungachaphazeli imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla, ayiqatshelwa, kwaye ayinyangwa. Nangona kunjalo, ngalo lonke ixesha kukho urhano, kubalulekile ukuba uqhagamshelane nesazi ngengqondo ukuze uqinisekise isifo kwaye uqalise ngonyango olufanelekileyo.

Iimpawu eziphambili zesifo

Ngokwesiqhelo, abahlanganisi abanyanzelekileyo babonisa iimpawu ezinje:

• Kunzima ukuphosa izinto kwinkunkuma, nokuba azisebenzi;
• Kunzima ukuhlela izinto zakho;
• Ukuqokelela izinto kuzo zonke iindawo zendlu;
• Uloyiko olugqithisileyo lokungabikho kwento;
• Bavakalelwa kukuba abanakuphosa into emgqomeni, njengoko beya kuyidinga kwixa elizayo;
• Khangela izinto ezintsha, nokuba sele zininzi zazo.

Ukongeza, abantu abanyanzelekileyo ukuba baziqokelelele ngokwabo bayahlukaniswa ngakumbi, ngakumbi kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu, njengoko beneentloni ngemeko yabo kunye nokubonakala kwekhaya labo. Ngesi sizathu, aba bantu kunokwenzeka ngakumbi ukuba baphuhlise ezinye izifo zengqondo, ezinje ngoxinzelelo, umzekelo.

Ezi mpawu zisenokubonakala ebuntwaneni, kodwa zihlala zisiya zisiba mbi xa sele umdala, xa umntu eqala ukuzithengela izinto zakhe.

Ngamanye amaxesha, umntu oqokelela kakhulu unokuqokelela izilwanyana, ade abe neshumi okanye ikhulu lezilwanyana ezinokuhlala ngaphakathi kwendlu kwaye zibe neemeko ezimbalwa.

Ukohlula njani isihlanganisi kumqokeleli

Rhoqo isihlanganisi sinokuphazanyiswa ngumqokeleli, okanye sinokusebenzisa isingxengxezo sokwenza ingqokelela, kuphela ukuba abanye abayiboni ngendlela engaqhelekanga.

Nangona kunjalo, indlela elula yokwahlula zozibini ezi meko kukuba, ngesiqhelo, umqokeleli unebhongo lokubonisa kwaye alungelelanise ingqokelela yakhe, ngelixa isihlanganisi sikhetha ukugcina imfihlo kwaye sifihle izinto esiziqokelelayo, ukongeza kubunzima obukhulu ekuzilungiseleleni .

Yintoni ebangela esi sifo

Oyena nobangela wokuqokelelwa kwezinto ngokugqithileyo komntu akaziwa, nangona kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba inxulumene nezinto zemfuza, ukusebenza kwengqondo okanye iziganeko zoxinzelelo kubomi bomntu.

Unyango lwenziwa njani

Unyango lwabaqokeleli abanyanzelekileyo lunokwenziwa ngokunyanga ngokuziphatha, kwaye isayikholojisti ifuna ukufumanisa unobangela woxinzelelo obangela umnqweno wokugcina izinto. Nangona kunjalo, olu nyango lunokuthatha iminyaka eliqela ukuba luqale ukusebenza njengoko lufuna ukuzinikela okuninzi kumntu.

Unyango lwe-anti-depressant lunokusetyenziselwa ukuxhasa unyango, ukunceda isigulana ukuba siphephe umnqweno wokuqokelelwa okunyanzelekileyo, kodwa kule meko, kufuneka siboniswe ngugqirha wezifo zengqondo.

Ngokwesiqhelo, izihlanganisi ezinyanzelekileyo azilufuni unyango kuba zingaqondi ukuba imeko yazo sisifo, ngenxa yoko usapho kunye nabahlobo badlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu ekuncedeni umntu aphile.

Iingxaki ezinokwenzeka

Nangona ingqokelela inokubonakala ngathi kukuphazamiseka okuncinci, inyani kukuba inokuba nemingcipheko emininzi kwezempilo, ngakumbi enxulumene nokwaliwa kunye nokusuleleka rhoqo, kuba ukugqithisa kwezinto kwenza ukuba umsebenzi wokucoca indlu ube nzima ngakumbi, ukuququzelela ukuqokelelwa kweentsholongwane , ukungunda kunye neentsholongwane.

Ukongeza, kuxhomekeke kwinqanaba lokuqokelelwa kwezinto, kunokubakho umngcipheko wokuwa ngengozi okanye nokungcwatywa, njengoko izinto zinokuwela ngaphezulu komntu.

Kwinqanaba leengqondo, abaqokeleli abanyanzelekileyo banamathuba okuba babekwe bodwa kwaye banokuphuhlisa uxinzelelo olunzulu, ngakumbi xa beqonda ingxaki kodwa bengafuni, okanye bengakwazi, ukufumana unyango.