Iingcebiso ezi-7 zokukhuthaza umntwana ukuba athethe

Umxholo

• 1. Ukuncokola ngelixa udlala nosana
• 2. Mkhuthaze umntwana ukuba athethe igama lento ayifunayo
• 3. Ukukhetha iithoyi ezenza izandi
• 4. Fundela umntwana
• 5. Mkhuthaze umntwana ukuba abe nabanye
• 6. Bayeke babukele imizobo
• 7. Culela usana

Ukulungiselela ukukhuthaza umntwana ukuba athethe, imidlalo yosapho yokunxibelelana, unxibelelwano nabanye abantwana luyimfuneko, ukongeza ekuvuseleleni umntwana ngomculo kunye nemizobo yexesha elifutshane. Ezi ntshukumo zibalulekile ekukhuleni kwesigama, njengoko ziququzelela ukwahluka kwamagama kunye nezandi, ezikhokelela kwindalo yezivakalisi zokuqala.

Nangona abantwana abangaphantsi konyaka omnye onesiqingatha bengakwazi ukuthetha amagama apheleleyo kwaye unxibelelwano lubonakala lungabuyi, sele bekwazi ukuwaqonda, ke ukubiza ngokuchanekileyo kunye nokunqumama phakathi kwamagama kunceda umntwana ukuba ajonge kwizandi nganye nganye, yiyo loo nto enegalelo ekufundeni. Kuqonde ukukhula komntwana ekukhuleni kwakhe.

Ukukhuthaza umntwana ukuba athethe, imidlalo kunye nemisebenzi inokwenziwa, njenge:

1. Ukuncokola ngelixa udlala nosana

Ukuthetha nokubalisa imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla ngelixa udlala nosana kwenza oko kugxilwe kuko, ukongeza ekuvuseleleni umnqweno wokuphinda amagama, kuba umntwana uya kufuna ukuphendula oko kuthethwayo.

Olunye uncedo lokuthetha neentsana, kukuba ukusukela ekuzalweni sele bekwazi ukuqonda amazwi abazali kunye nosapho, kwaye ukubamamela emini kunokwenza umntwana azole kwaye alale kamnandi ebusuku.

2. Mkhuthaze umntwana ukuba athethe igama lento ayifunayo

Nanini na xa umntwana efuna into yokudlala okanye injongo kwaye enayo, ukuphindaphinda ngokuchanekileyo igama lento ebuziweyo kunceda umntwana aqonde indlela yokubiza amagama.

3. Ukukhetha iithoyi ezenza izandi

Izinto zokudlala ezikhupha izandi ezinjengezilwanyana okanye zendalo, zinokunceda umntwana ahlule into evakalayo isuka emntwini, kwindalo esingqongileyo nakwigama umzekelo, ukongeza ekuvuseleleni imicu yelizwi, njengoko umntwana eza kuzama izandi ozivayo.

4. Fundela umntwana

Ukufundela iintsana, xa kwenziwe ngamagama abizwe ngokuchanekileyo nangokunxibelelana, ukunika amazwi kunye nobuso kubalinganiswa, kuyakwazi ukutyebisa isigama sabantwana, ukuvusa umdla kunye nomdla, ukongeza ekusebenzeni ekwamkeleni iimvakalelo.

5. Mkhuthaze umntwana ukuba abe nabanye

Ukudlala nokunxulumana nabanye abantwana abakwiminyaka efanayo nabo badala kunceda ekuvuseleleni intetho ngenxa yesidingo sokunxibelelana, ukongeza ekusebenzeni kuphuhliso lovelwano, njengoko kule mizuzu iithoyi kunye nokuqwalaselwa kwabantu abadala kuya kwahlulwa .

6. Bayeke babukele imizobo

Ixesha lokuvezwa kwizikrini, xa zilawulwa ngabazali, zibonelela umntwana ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuthetha kunye nendlela yokuthetha aqhele ukuyisebenzisa ekhaya.

Konke oku kuya kunceda ukwandisa isigama, kwenza ukuba kube lula emntwaneni ukwenza izivakalisi zokuqala, ukongeza ekunikezeleni imizekelo yeemilo kunye nemibala, ebalulekileyo kuphuhliso loxinzelelo lwendalo.

7. Culela usana

Ilizwi labazali kunye nezalamane ezisondeleyo sisandi sokuqala umntwana akwaziyo ukusibona, kwaye ukwenza oko umntwana anako ukukuva amagama amatsha kwiithoni ezahlukeneyo, kumazwi asele ewazi, kunceda umntwana ukuba afane ngokulula oko kuthethwayo, ukongeza ekunikezeleni imvakalelo yokuthuthuzela kunye nokhuseleko.