Ungamnceda njani umntwana wakho ukuba aPhuhlise iZakhono eziMnandi zeMoto

Umxholo

• Fine izakhono zemoto intsingiselo
• Imizekelo yezakhono zeemoto ezintle
• Iinyanga ezi-0 ukuya kwezi-3
• Iinyanga ezi-3 ukuya kwezi-6
• Iinyanga ezi-6 ukuya kwezi-9
• Iinyanga ezili-9 ukuya kwezi-12
• Iinyanga ezili-12 ukuya kwiminyaka emi-2
• Iminyaka emi-2 ukuya kwemi-3
• Iminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwemi-4
• Ukuphuculwa kwezakhono zemoto
• Imisebenzi emihle yezakhono zemoto
• Ingxaki ngezakhono ezifanelekileyo zemoto
• Yise kude

Fine izakhono zemoto intsingiselo

Ukuphuhliswa kwabantwana abasaqalayo kubandakanya ukufumana izakhono ezintle nezipheleleyo zezithuthi. Ngelixa zombini ezi zakhono zibandakanya intshukumo, zinomahluko:

• Izakhono zemoto ezintle kubandakanya intshukumo yamaqela amancinci ezihlunu ezandleni zomntwana wakho, iminwe, kunye nezihlahla.
• Izakhono ezigcweleyo zeemoto kubandakanya ukuhamba kwamaqela amakhulu emisipha, njengeengalo nemilenze. Ngamaqela amakhulu ezihlunu avumela iintsana ukuba zihlale phezulu, zijike, zikhase, kwaye zihambe.

Zombini ezi ntlobo zezakhono zeemoto zenza ukuba abantwana bakwazi ukuzimela ngakumbi. Izakhono zeemoto ezintle zibaluleke ngokukodwa, nangona kunjalo, kuba amandla okusebenzisa izihlunu ezincinci ezandleni avumela abantwana ukuba benze imisebenzi yokuzikhathalela ngaphandle koncedo. Oku kubandakanya:

• ukuxukuxa
• ukutya
• ukubhala
• ukunxiba

Imizekelo yezakhono zeemoto ezintle

Iintsana kunye nabantwana abasabhadazayo bakhulisa izakhono zokuqhuba kakuhle kunye nezibi kwisantya sabo. Abanye abantwana bakhulisa izakhono ezithile ngaphambili kunabanye, kwaye oko kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Abantwana bahlala beqala ukufumana ezi zakhono kwinyanga enye okanye ezi-2 ubudala kwaye baqhubeke nokufunda izakhono ezongezelelekileyo kwisikolo sabantwana abasaqalayo nakwisikolo samabanga aphantsi.

Ezona zakhono zibaluleke kakhulu zezithuthi ekufuneka abantwana baziphuhlise zibandakanya oku kulandelayo:

• Iingqameko zesundu vumela iintende ukuba zigobele ngaphakathi. Ukomeleza ezi zinto kunceda ukulungelelanisa ukuhamba kweminwe, efunekayo ukubhala, ukukhulula amaqhosha eengubo kunye nokubamba.
• Uzinzo esihlahleni ikhula ngeminyaka yokuqala yesikolo. Ivumela abantwana ukuba bahambise iminwe yabo ngamandla nolawulo.
• Icala elinobuchule lesandla kukusetyenziswa kobhontsi, isalathiso somnwe, kunye neminye iminwe ngokudibeneyo kokubamba ngokuchanekileyo.
• Ukukhula kwesisipha sangaphakathi sisakhono sokwenza iintshukumo ezincinci ngesandla, apho incam yesithupha, isalathiso somnwe, kunye nokuchukumisa ngomnwe ophakathi.
• Izakhono zezandla ezibini vumela ukulungelelaniswa kwezandla zombini ngaxeshanye.
• Izakhono zesikere phuhlisa ngobudala be-4 kwaye ufundise ukomelela kwesandla kunye nokulungelelaniswa kwamehlo.

Nanku umzuzu omfutshane weemoto ezihamba phambili zeentsana kunye neentsana:

Iinyanga ezi-0 ukuya kwezi-3

• ubeka izandla emlonyeni
• izandla ziyekelele ngakumbi

Iinyanga ezi-3 ukuya kwezi-6

• ubambana ngezandla
• uhambisa into yokudlala ukusuka kwelinye icala ukuya kwelinye
• ubamba kwaye ashukumise into yokudlala esebenzisa izandla zozibini

Iinyanga ezi-6 ukuya kwezi-9

• iqala ukubamba izinto ngoku "raking" ngesandla
• Cudisa into ngezandla zabo
• uthinta iminwe kunye
• ubamba into yokudlala ngezandla zozibini
• usebenzisa umnwe wesalathiso ukuchukumisa izinto
• ndiqhwaba izandla

Iinyanga ezili-9 ukuya kwezi-12

• bazondla ngokwabo ukutya kweminwe
• ubamba izinto ezincinci ngobhontsi kunye nomnwe wesalathiso
• izinto ze-bangs kunye
• ubambe into yokudlala ngesandla esinye

Iinyanga ezili-12 ukuya kwiminyaka emi-2

• yakha inqaba yebhloko
• amagama abhaliweyo ephepheni
• itya ngecephe
• uguqula iphepha libe linye kwincwadi ngexesha
• ubamba ikhrayoni ngeminwe nasesithupheni (pincer grasp)

Iminyaka emi-2 ukuya kwemi-3

• ujika umtya wasemnyango
• uhlamba izandla
• usebenzisa icephe nefolokhwe ngokuchanekileyo
• uziphu kwaye uziphu iingubo
• ibeka ezineziciko kwaye isuse iziciko kwiibhotile
• iintambo ubuhlalu kumsonto

Iminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwemi-4

• amaqhosha kunye namaqhosha iimpahla
• usebenzisa isikere ukusika iphepha
• Khuphela iimilo kwiphepha

Ukuphuculwa kwezakhono zemoto

Izakhono zemoto ezintle zikhula ngokwendalo njengoko umntwana wakho efumana amandla okulawula nokulungelelanisa umzimba wabo. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba abanye abantwana banokuphuhlisa izakhono ezifanelekileyo zemoto kwangaphambi kwexesha kwaye banolungelelwaniso olungcono kunabanye.

Olunye usana lunokufunda ukushukumisa i-rattle kwiinyanga ezi-3, ngelixa usana olukwiminyaka efanayo lusenokungashukumi ukukhwaza kude kube yinyanga kamva. Oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo.

Musa ukothuka ukuba umntwana wakho akakhuli ngokukhawuleza njengomntwana olingana naye ngeminyaka. Khumbula, umzimba womntwana wakho usakhula. Kwiiveki okanye kwiinyanga ezimbalwa, banokwakha amandla omzimba aneleyo ezandleni zabo ukuze bafumane izakhono ezitsha zemoto.

Imisebenzi emihle yezakhono zemoto

Ukubandakanya imisebenzi eyonwabisayo kwinkqubo yemihla ngemihla yomntwana wakho kunokunceda ukuphucula izakhono zabo ezintle zemoto. Isakhono sokufunda kunye nokuziqhelanisa nezakhono ezifanelekileyo zemoto besebancinci kunokubaxhamla ngokwemfundo, ngokwasentlalweni, nangobuqu.

Nazi izinto onokuzenza kunye nomntwana wakho:

• Vumela umntwana wakho ukuba ancedise ngokulungiselela ukutya, njengokuvuselela, ukuxuba, okanye ukugalela izithako.
• Dibanisa iphazili njengentsapho.
• Dlala imidlalo yebhodi ebandakanya ukuqengqa idayisi.
• Iminwe ipeyinti kunye.
• Vumela umntwana wakho abeke itafile yesidlo sangokuhlwa.
• Fundisa umntwana wakho indlela yokuzigalela ngokwakhe iziselo.
• Cela umntwana wakho aqengqele kwaye athambise udongwe ngezandla zakhe, emva koko asebenzise i-cookie cutter ukwenza okusikiweyo.
• Bonisa umntwana wakho ukuba angayisebenzisa njani inqindi emngxunyeni.
• Ziqhelanise nokubeka imitya yerabha ujikeleze itoti.
• Beka izinto kwisikhongozeli kwaye umntwana wakho azisuse nge-tweezers.

Ingxaki ngezakhono ezifanelekileyo zemoto

Nangona izakhono zemoto ezintle zikhula ngokwamazinga ahlukeneyo, jonga kugqirha wabantwana ukuba ngaba bayasokola kwezi zakhono okanye kwizakhono ezigcweleyo zemoto. Ukulibaziseka kunokuba luphawu lophuhliso lokulungelelanisa ukungahambi kakuhle. Ichaphazela malunga neepesenti ezi-5 ukuya kwezi-6 zabantwana abasesikolweni.

Iimpawu zengxaki yezakhono ezifanelekileyo zeemoto zibandakanya:

• ukulahla izinto
• andikwazi ukubopha izihlangu
• ubunzima bokubamba icephe okanye ibhrashi yamazinyo
• ingxaki yokubhala, ukufaka umbala, okanye ukusebenzisa isikere

Olunye ulibaziseko lwezakhono ezintle alufumaneki de umntwana abe mdala. Ukuchonga ukulibaziseka kwangethuba kunokuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho ufumana uncedo aludingayo ekwakheni izakhono zakhe kwaye abancede bakhule.

Ugqirha wabantwana bomntwana wakho unokufumanisa ukuba unengxaki yokulungelelanisa ukuba umntwana wakho:

• izakhono zemoto ezintle ezingaphantsi koko kulindelweyo kwiminyaka yabo
• izakhono ezibi zezithuthi ezenza kube nzima ukugqibezela imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla esikolweni nasekhaya
• Ukulibaziseka kophuhliso lwezakhono zemoto eziqale kwasebuncinaneni

Umntwana wakho unokufuna ukuba asebenze ngomntu ngamnye kunye nonyango lomsebenzi ukuze afunde iindlela zokuphucula ukulungelelanisa kumaqela abo amancinci emisipha.

Yise kude

Izakhono zemoto ezintle zibalulekile ebomini nasekufundeni. Ukuba umntwana wakho unobunzima kwimisebenzi yemihla ngemihla okanye uziva ngathi umntwana wakho ulwa nezi zakhono, thetha malunga nokwenzeka kokulibaziseka kophuhliso kunye nogqirha wakhe.

Ngokuxilongwa kwangoko, imisebenzi yasekhaya, kunye noncedo lwengcali kwezomsebenzi, unokunceda umntwana wakho ukuba aphumelele kwaye afikelele kumanqwanqwa ophuhliso.