Uluntu lwamaGay lunemiba yezempilo engakumbi, utshilo uphononongo olutsha

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Ukulandela impelaveki ezele likratshi, iindaba ezimnandi: uluntu lwe-LGB lusengozini yokufumana uxinzelelo lwengqondo, ukusela kunye nokutshaya kakhulu, kwaye banempilo enkenenkene ngokwasemzimbeni xa kuthelekiswa noontanga babo, ngokutsho Unyango lwaNgaphakathi lweJAMA funda.

Sebenzisa idatha evela kuVavanyo lweSizwe lwe-2013 kunye ne-2014 yoPhononongo lwezeMpilo, ebandakanya umbuzo malunga nokuziphatha ngokwesondo okokuqala ngqa, abaphandi bathelekisa imiba yezempilo yabantu abathandana nabantu besini esinye nesini, isini kunye nabantu abathandanayo baseMelika. Izifundo ezifanayo zenziwe ngaphambili, kodwa le yayinkulu kakhulu (phantse abantu abangama-70,000 bayiphendula!), Ukuyenza yabamela ngakumbi abantu baseMelika. Abaphenduli besaveyi bacelwa ukuba bachonge njengobungqingili okanye isitabane, ngqo, ulwalamano, enye into, abazi, okanye ukwala ukuphendula. Abaphandi abavela eVanderbilt University School of Medicine kunye neDyunivesithi yaseMinnesota yeSikolo seMpilo yoLuntu bajolise kwabo bachonga kwelinye lamaqela amathathu okuqala emva koko bajonge indlela abayiphendula ngayo imibuzo malunga nempilo yabo yasemzimbeni, impilo yengqondo, kunye notywala kunye nokusebenzisa icuba.

Iziphumo zibonise amadoda angama-gay kunye nabesilisa nabasetyhini ngokukodwa babekho amathuba okuxela ubunzima obukhulu beengqondo (iipesenti ezingama-6.8 kunye neepesenti ezingama-9.8, ngokulandelanayo, xa kuthelekiswa neepesenti ezingama-2.8 zamadoda alungileyo), ukusela kakhulu, kunye nokulinganisela ukutshaya. Xa kuthelekiswa nabasetyhini abathandana besini esinye, abafazi abathandanayo abathandanayo baxela iimeko ezininzi zoxinzelelo lwengqondo, ngaphezulu kwesimo esinye esinganyangekiyo (njengomhlaza, uxinzelelo lwegazi, isifo seswekile, okanye isifo samathambo), utywala obuninzi kunye nokusetyenziswa kwecuba, kunye nokuswela impilo elungileyo. Abasetyhini abesilisa nabasetyhini babekwanakho ukuxela iimeko ezingapheliyo kunye nokusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi. Babenamathuba amaninzi okuxela ukuba balwa noxinzelelo olukhulu lwengqondo (ngaphezulu kweepesenti ze-11 zabasetyhini abathandanayo baxela ukuba kuthelekiswa neepesenti ze-5 zabasetyhini abathandanayo kunye neepesenti ze-3.8 zabasetyhini abathandanayo). Bona: 3 Iingxaki zezeMpilo Abafazi abathandana nabasetyhini bafuna ukwazi ngako.

"Siyazi kuphando lwangaphambili ukuba ukuba lilungu leqela elincinci, ngakumbi elinembali yokufumana ibala kunye nocalucalulo, kunokukhokelela kuxinzelelo olungapheliyo, nto leyo inokukhokelela kwimpilo enkenenkene yengqondo kunye nomzimba," utshilo uCarrie Henning- Smith, Ph.D., MPH, MSW, umbhali-mbhali kwisifundo. UHenning-Smith kunye noogxa bakhe abaphandi baqaphele ukuba ababoneleli bezempilo kunye nabaqulunqi bomgaqo-nkqubo kufuneka bathathele ingqalelo le mahluko ukuqinisekisa ukuba wonke umntu uphathwa ngokufanelekileyo. "Oku kufuneka kuquke ukujongana nokuxhaphaza ezikolweni, ukupasiswa kwemithetho yokulwa ucalucalulo yengqesho kuwo onke amazwe angama-50, kunye nokukhuselwa ekubekweni amabala nakubundlobongela kuzo zonke iindawo zoluntu," utshilo uHenning-Smith. "Ababoneleli bezempilo kufuneka baqeqeshwe kwiimfuno ezizodwa zala bantu kwaye kufuneka bahlawule ngokukodwa kwiingozi zabo eziphakamileyo."

Wena: Zijonge iimpawu zale micimbi yezempilo ukuba ezi zinto zifunyanisiweyo ziyasebenza kuwe, kwaye-nokuba uzikhethelani ngesondo-esi sifundo kufuneka sisebenze njengesikhumbuzo sokwamkelwa kunye nenkxaso zizinto ezibalulekileyo zokuphila ubomi obunempilo. Okukwintsusa? Inkxaso. Yamkela. Uthando.

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