Ukuba noMntwana kwi-50: Ngaba ama-50 ama-40 amaTsha?

Umxholo

• Kuya kusiba yinto eqhelekileyo
• Zeziphi izibonelelo zokuba nomntwana kamva ebomini?
• Kodwa kukho izinto ezithile ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe
• Ungakhulelwa njani kwi-50
• Sebenzisa amaqanda aqanduselwe
• Sebenzisa umntu ophetheyo okhulelweyo
• Ukwahlula phakathi kweempawu zokukhulelwa kunye nokuyeka ukuya exesheni
• Kuza kuba njani ukukhulelwa?
• Ngaba kukho naziphi na iinkxalabo ezizodwa ezinxulumene nomsebenzi kunye nokuhanjiswa?
• Ukuthatha

Kuya kusiba yinto eqhelekileyo

Ukuba nosana emva kweminyaka engama-35 kuqheleke ngakumbi kunangaphambili, kodwa impunzi ayipheli apho. Uninzi lwabafazi baneminyaka engama-40 no-50, nabo.

Sonke sivile malunga Ukukhathaza, ukukhawula yeloo "wotshi yebhayoloji," kwaye iyinyani- ubudala bungenza umahluko ngokwendlela yendalo yokukhawulwa. Kodwa enkosi kubuchwephesha bokuzala, indalo-yokulinda kunye nokulinda de kube lixesha elilungileyo- nokuba kulapho ukwiminyaka yama-40 okanye emva kokuba ubethe kakhulu ngo-5-0- kunokuba yinto yokwenyani.

Ukuba ucinga ngomntwana kwi-50, okanye ukuba uneminyaka engama-50 kwaye ulindele, mhlawumbi unemibuzo emininzi. Ngelixa ugqirha wakho kufuneka abe ngumntu oya kuye ukufumana iimpendulo, nazi ezinye kufuneka-unolwazi ukuze uqalise.

Zeziphi izibonelelo zokuba nomntwana kamva ebomini?

Ngelixa abantu ngokwesiko babenabantwana abakwiminyaka yama-20 nama-30, abaninzi baziva ngathi kukho izibonelelo ezithile zokulinda - okanye ukongeza omnye umntwana kwiminyaka yosapho emva kokuba uqale ngowakho.

Unokunqwenela ukuhamba, ukuseka okanye ukuqhubela phambili nomsebenzi wakho, okanye ukhululeke ngakumbi ngaphambi kokuba uqale usapho. Zonke ezi zizizathu ezithandwayo zokuyeka ukuba ngumzali wokuqala.

Okanye, unokufumana iqabane kamva ebomini kwaye uthathe isigqibo sokuba ufuna abantwana kunye. Okanye-kwaye oku kusemthethweni! -usenokungafuni abantwana xa umncinci, emva koko utshintshe ingqondo.

Xa ukwiminyaka yama-40 nama-50, mhlawumbi kunokwenzeka ukuba uzinze kwaye ube bhetyebhetye kunokwenza kube lula ukukhathalela abantwana. Uya kuba namava amaninzi obomi. (Ungacingi ukuba oku kuthetha ukuba uya kuba nazo zonke iimpendulo xa kuziwa ekubeni ngumzali-asikadibani nomntu owenzayo!)

Ukuba nabantwana abanesikhewu esikhulu kwiminyaka yabo kukwanazo izibonelelo ezinomtsalane kwiintsapho ezininzi. Umxube wabantwana abadala kunye nabancinci uvumela abantu abadala ukuba bathathe inxaxheba ebonakalayo ekukhathaleleni umntwana omtsha.

Kwaye ukuba sele unabo abantwana xa ukhulelwa kwiminyaka engama-40 okanye engama-50, uya kuluthanda ulonwabo lokuba ngumzali kwakhona - kwaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba ube noxinzelelo oluncinci kunakuqala!

Kodwa kukho izinto ezithile ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe

Ngelixa ukufumana umntwana kamva ebomini kunokuba lula kwezinye izinto, kunokuba nzima ngakumbi ukukhulelwa. Ukukhulelwa kwakho kuya kuthi ngokuzenzekelayo kuthathelwe ingqalelo njengomngcipheko ophezulu.

Eminye yemingcipheko yokuba neentsana kuma-50 akho zibandakanya:

• i-preeclampsia (uhlobo loxinzelelo lwegazi olukhula ngexesha lokukhulelwa olunokuba sengozini yobomi)
• isifo seswekile
• ukukhulelwa kwe-ectopic (xa iqanda liqhotyoshelwe ngaphandle kwesibeleko sakho)
• umngcipheko ophezulu wokufuna ukuhanjiswa kwe-cearean
• ukuphuma kwesisu
• ukuzalwa komntwana oswelekileyo

Kukho iinguqu kwindlela yokuphila ekufuneka uyiqwalasele. Ngelixa abanye abantu basetyhini besamkela ama-50 abo njengethuba lokuphonononga "ixesha lam," ukuba nosana kunokuphazamisa oku. Unokufumana amanye amanyathelo abalulekileyo angaphantsi kwesiko, njengokuthatha umhlala-phantsi okanye ukuhamba.

Ukongeza, kukho umngcipheko ophathelene nosana lwakho. Ekuhambeni kwexesha ebomini unomntwana, umngcipheko ophezulu woku:

• ukukhubazeka ekufundeni
• iziphene zokuzalwa
• Umahluko onxulumene ne-chromosome, njenge-Down syndrome
• ubunzima bokuzalwa obuphantsi

Kububulumko ukuba ufumane iingcebiso ngaphambi kokukhulelwa ukuze uxoxe ngeenjongo zakho zokuzala kunye nogqirha wakho. Bangaya kwiinkcukacha ezithe kratya malunga nomngcipheko kunye nokuqwalaselwa.

Ungakhulelwa njani kwi-50

Ukuthetha ngokwebhayoloji, sizalwe nawo onke amaqanda esiya kuba nawo. Nje ukuba sifike ebusheni kwaye siqale ukuya exesheni, siyakukhupha iqanda eliqolileyo umjikelo ngamnye. Kodwa ukwehla kubalo lwamaqanda kuyamangalisa ngakumbi kunoko, kwaye amanani ethu aya kuncipha unyaka nonyaka de siye kufika exesheni.

Ngapha koko, kuqikelelwa ukuba umfazi oqhelekileyo une-oocyte ezili-1 000 (ekwabizwa ngokuba ziiseli zamaqanda) xa efikelela kubudala beminyaka engama-51. Oku kwehla ngokuqatha ukusuka kuma-500,000 ngexesha lokufikisa kunye nama-25,000 kwiminyaka yakho yama-30.

Ngelixa ukukhulelwa iiseli zamaqanda ezimbalwa kungenzeki, oko kunokuthetha ukuba uya kuba nengxaki encinci ukhulelwe ngokwendalo.

Umgangatho weqanda nawo uyancipha njengoko sikhula, nto leyo enokwenza ukukhulelwa kube nzima okanye yonyuse umngcipheko wokuchaphazeleka kwe-chromosomal, enokwenza ukuba ukulahleka kokukhulelwa kwangoko kube lula.

Ingcebiso ngokubanzi kukubona ingcali yenzala ukuba ukhe wazama ukukhulelwa ngokwendalo iinyanga ezintandathu ngaphandle kweziphumo kwaye ungaphezulu kweminyaka engama-35.

Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uzama ngamandla ukukhulelwa kwi-50s yakho, unokufuna ukuthetha nogqirha wakho malunga nokubona ingcali yenzala kwangoko, ngenxa yokuphela ngokukhawuleza kwee-oocyte.

Ingcali inokuqala ngokucebisa ngokuthatha amayeza okuzala ukuze uqiniseke ukuba uyaphuma. Oku kunokuba luncedo ngakumbi ngexesha lokuphela kwexesha, xa imijikelezo yakho isiya iqikelela.

Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuthatha la machiza kwanele ukukhokelela ekukhulelweni okuyimpumelelo emva kwexesha elincinci. La machiza anokunyusa inani lamaqanda aqolileyo owakhululayo ngexesha lomjikelo, ke oko kudala "iithagethi" ngakumbi zesidoda.

Okanye-ukuba usenengxaki yokukhulelwa-ingcali yakho yokuzala iya kukuxelela ngezinye iindlela onokukhetha kuzo. Banokucebisa nge-in vitro fertilization (IVF), indlela efumana amaqanda emzimbeni wakho emva koko uwafake isidoda ngokwahlukeneyo kwilebhu ngaphambi kokuba ubabuyisele esibelekweni.

Amaqanda amaninzi athathwa ngexesha, kuba ayingawo onke kulindeleke ukuba achumise ngempumelelo. Unokuphela nge-zero, enye, okanye iimbumba ezininzi emva kokugqiba umjikelo we-IVF.

Ukuba uneminyaka engama-50, ugqirha wakho unokucebisa ukuba ungaphezulu kwesinye kwisibeleko (ukuba sele uzifumene) ukwandisa amathuba okuba enye yazo "inamathele."

Nangona kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba zonke iimbumba ozigqithisileyo ziya kufakelwa-kukhokelela ekukhulelweni ngokuphindaphindeka! Kuba oku kwenza ukuba ukhulelwe ube semngciphekweni omkhulu, qiniseka ukuba uxoxa malunga nokwenzeka nogqirha wakho kunye neqabane.

Asiyi kuyenza iswekile-iminyaka yakho iya kuba sisihloko sengxoxo ngexesha lale nkqubo. (Oku kuyinyaniso nakwabasetyhini abakwi-30s yabo ephezulu.) Ngenxa yomgangatho weqanda osezantsi, unokukhuthazwa ukuba wenze uvavanyo lwemfuza kwiimbungu (ii) eziphuma kwinkqubo ye-IVF.

Oku kunokuba kubiza, kwaye iziphumo azinakuqinisekiswa ngokuchaneka kweepesenti ezili-100. Kodwa ukukhetha ezona mbumba zingcono- ngaphandle kokufumana ukungaqheleki kofuzo kweli nqanaba- kunokukunika elona thuba lokuphumelela ekukhulelweni.

Sebenzisa amaqanda aqanduselwe

Ukukhulula amaqanda akho (cryopreservation) xa umncinci kuyindlela efanelekileyo ukuba ucinga ukuba ungafuna ukongeza kusapho lwakho kamva ebomini. Oku kubandakanya IVF. Umbono kukuba unamaqanda (okanye imibungu) efriziwe de ube ukulungele ukuwasebenzisa, ukuba kunjalo.

I-Cryopreservation ayiqinisekiswanga ukudala ukukhulelwa okuyimpumelelo, kodwa njengoko besesitshilo, umgangatho weqanda lakho uhlala uphakamile xa umncinci. Kwicala leflip, amazinga okuzalwa aphilayo asezantsi ukusuka kumaqanda aqanduselwe.

Sebenzisa umntu ophetheyo okhulelweyo

Ama-50s akho anokuzisa imiba embalwa yokukhulelwa, kubandakanya ukungakwazi ukukhupha amaqanda, ukunqongophala kokuchumisa, kunye nomngcipheko owanda wokukhulelwa kwesisu.

Kule meko, unokuba ujonge kulowo unokuthwala umthambo, elinye ibhinqa elinokukunceda ukuthwala umntwana wakho ukuya kwikota. Buza ugqirha wakho ukuba unokufumana njani umntu oza kummela.

Umntu ophethe izixhobo angakhulelwa nge-IVF esebenzisa imibungu eyenziwe ngamaqanda omnikeli okanye awakho. Izinketho zakho ziya kuxhomekeka kukhetho lwakho kunye nempilo yokuzala.

Ukwahlula phakathi kweempawu zokukhulelwa kunye nokuyeka ukuya exesheni

Uvavanyo lokukhulelwa-olwenziwe ekhaya emva koko luqinisekiswe kwi-ofisi kagqirha wakho-kuphela kwendlela yokuqinisekisa ukuba ukhulelwe ngokwenene.

Awufuni ukuhamba ngeempawu zodwa kuba iimpawu zokuqala zokukhulelwa zinokufana nezo zokuyeka ukuya exesheni. Oku kubandakanya utshintsho lweemvakalelo kunye nokudinwa- okunokubonisa ukuba ixesha lakho lizayo, ngalo mbandela.

Khumbula ukuba yinyani Ukuyeka ukuya exesheni akwenzeki de ube uhamba ngaphandle kwexesha lakho leenyanga ezili-12 zilandelelana. Ukuba amaxesha akho ayabethwa kwaye aphoswe, unokuba kwinqanaba lokuphumla apho usenamaqanda ashiyekileyo.

Njengomthetho wesithupha, ukuba usexesheni, usenamaqanda kwaye unokukhulelwa kakhulu.

Ke ukuba usafumana amaxesha kwaye uzama ukukhulelwa, qiniseka ukuba ukulandelela imijikelezo yakho kwaye ufumane uvavanyo lokukhulelwa ukuba uphose ixesha. Ukugula kwasekuseni ngomnye umqondiso wokuqala wokukhulelwa ongenzeki xa uyeka ukuya exesheni.

Kuza kuba njani ukukhulelwa?

Njengokuba umzimba wakho ubudala, ukuphatha omnye umntu ngaphakathi kuwe kunokuba ngumceli mngeni ngakumbi. Unokuba sesichengeni sokukhubazeka okukhulelweyo okufana:

• ukudinwa
• iintlungu zemisipha
• intlungu edibeneyo
• idumbile imilenze neenyawo
• ukucaphuka noxinzelelo

Kodwa bonke abasetyhini abakhulelweyo banokungonwabi - ayisiyiyo ukuhamba epakini kumntu oneminyaka engama-25 ubudala, nokuba. Njengokuba konke ukukhulelwa kwahlukile, umntwana ngamnye onaye wenza iimpawu ezahlukeneyo.

Ukuba ubunomntwana ngaphambili ebomini (okanye nangakumbi kutshanje), vula ingqondo malunga nenkqubo yokukhulelwa kwaye ulungele ukuyifumana ngokwahlukileyo ngeli xesha.

Umahluko obalulekileyo kukuba ukukhulelwa kwakho kuya kujongwa ngakumbi xa sele umdala. Unokuva okanye ubone amagama athi "ukukhulelwa kokubeleka" - liphelelwe lixesha, enkosi ngokulunga! - kunye "nobudala obudala boomama" obusetyenziselwa ukubhekisa ekukhulelweni kwakho okusemngciphekweni omkhulu. Musa ukukhathazeka - ezi ilebhile zisetyenziselwa abafazi abakhulelweyo abaqala emva kweminyaka engama-30!

Ngaphezulu kwayo yonke loo nto, gcina i-OB-GYN yakho iluphu malunga nazo zonke iimpawu zakho kunye nokungonwabi ukubona ukuba banokubonelela ngoncedo.

Ngaba kukho naziphi na iinkxalabo ezizodwa ezinxulumene nomsebenzi kunye nokuhanjiswa?

Emva kweminyaka engama-50, kukho imingcipheko eyongezelelweyo yokuqwalaselwa enxulumene nomsebenzi kunye nokuhanjiswa. Kungenzeka ukuba unikezelo lwe-cearean ngenxa yobudala bakho kunye nonyango lwangaphambi kokuchuma, olunokubangela i-preeclampsia.

Esinye isizathu secandelo le-c yi-placenta previa, imeko apho i-placenta igubungela umlomo wesibeleko. Ukuzalwa kwangaphambi kwexesha nakho ukubakho okuphezulu, okunokuthi emva koko kufuna icandelo-c, nalo.

Ukuba ugqirha wakho ukunika inkqubela phambili yokuhanjiswa kwelungu lobufazi, baya kukubeka esweni ngokusondeleyo kumngcipheko wokopha.

Ukuthatha

Ngelixa kunganyanzelekanga ukuba kube lula, ukuba ufuna ukuba nosana kwi-50 yakho kwaye awukabethi ukuya exesheni okwangoku, ngokuqinisekileyo unokukhetha. Ngaphambi kokuba uzame ukukhulelwa, thetha nogqirha wakho malunga nempilo yakho nokuba ngaba kukho naziphi na izinto ezinobungozi ezinokuphazamisa.

Inani lamaqanda oye wehla ngokwendalo ngokubonakalayo kuyo yonke iminyaka engama-40 ukuya kwengama-50. Ke ukuba awuzange ube nethamsanqa lokukhulelwa ngokwendalo kwiinyanga ezimbalwa, cela i-OB-GYN yakho ukuba ithunyelwe kugqirha wezokuzala. Ukuba awunayo i-OB-GYN, isixhobo seHealthline FindCare sinokukunceda ufumane ugqirha kwindawo yakho.

Musa ukucinga ukuba "ixesha lihambile" - siqhubela phambili kulwazi ngalo lonke ixesha, kwaye iintsapho ziza kwiindidi ezininzi. Isigqibo sakho sokongeza kwesakho sesobuqu esinemivuzo emininzi enokubakho!