Uncumo lwakhe lunokugqiba ukuba ungumhlobo wezinto eziphathekayo

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Amakhwenkwe amabi, ulumke-abafazi bakholelwa ukuba abantu ababengezelayo ngoncumo oluqaqambileyo babonakala bekulungele ubudlelwane bexesha elide kunabo bazalayo, isifundo esandula ukwenziwa Evolutionary Psychology iingxelo.

Ke ngoku yintoni ngoncumo olusenza sitshixe emntwini njenge-boyf kungekudala? Abaphandi baseYurophu naseAsia babenamanqanaba abantu ababhinqileyo njengezinto ezinokuthanani nesoka okanye ulwalamano oluthe kratya-konke kusekwe kubuso babo. Amadoda awayekhazimlisa abelungu bawo abamhlophe abona ngathi onwabile yaye ethembeke ngakumbi kunalawo athetha ngokungathabathi cala, awayetyekele ekubeni ajongwe njengamadoda naqolileyo, ewabeka kudidi oluqhelekileyo.

Oku kuwela ngokungqinelana neenkolelo eziqinisekileyo zemfundo esihlala sithambekele kumadoda aneyona mizila yemfuza ilungileyo (funda: ukubukeka okuhle) xa ujonge ulwalamano olungaqhelekanga, kuba ingqondo yethu iyenzelwe ukuvelisa kwakhona. (Ukuba ukule nqanawa, jonga endikufundileyo kwiminyaka eli-10 yobusuku obunye.)

Kodwa ngelixa yonke into eyimfihlakalo yendoda eyindoda inokubonakala inomtsalane kubusuku obunye okanye kwiintsuku ezimbalwa, abasetyhini kolu phando lutsha baxele ukuba bafuna ukuthembeka kunye nokufikeleleka kubuhle babo bexesha elide (nangona ubuso obuhle ngokuqinisekileyo abuzange buhlungu). Abafana beGrinning bahlala bedlulisa olu khuseleko, abathi iingcali ngezengqondo zendalo zisithi ziyathandeka kuba zibonisa ukuba ukulungele ukukhulisa usapho kunye nawe.

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