Ndifunde Njani Ukuthanda Iintsuku Zokuphumla

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Ibali lam lokubaleka liqhelekile: Ndikhule ndiyithiyile kwaye ndiphepha usuku oloyikisayo lokubaleka kwiklasi yokuzivocavoca. Zange kube ziintsuku zam zokuphuma ekholejini apho ndaqala khona ukubona isibheno.

Emva kokuba ndiqalise ukubaleka nokubaleka rhoqo, ndakhe ndadinwa. Amaxesha am aqala ukwehla, kwaye lonke uhlanga lwaba lithuba elitsha lokubeka irekhodi lobuqu. Ndandisiya ndisiya ndikhawuleza kwaye ndiqina, kwaye okwesihlandlo sokuqala kubomi bam obudala, ndandiqala ukuthanda nokuwuxabisa umzimba wam ngawo onke amandla awo amangalisayo. (Esinye nje isizathu sokuba kube kuhle ukuba yimbaleki entsha-nokuba ucinga ukuba uyanya.)

Kodwa okukhona ndandiqalisa ukubaleka, kokukhona ndandiyeka ukuphumla.

Ndihlala ndifuna ukwenza ngaphezulu. Iimayile ezininzi, iintsuku ezininzi ngeveki, rhoqo Kaninzi.

Ndifunde iiblogi ezininzi eziqhubayo-kwaye ekugqibeleni ndaqalisa eyam. Kwaye onke loo mantombazana abonakala esebenza yonke imihla. Ke ndinako-kwaye kufanele-ndiyenze lonto nam, akunjalo?

Kodwa okukhona ndibalekayo, kokukhona ndiziva ndothusile. Ekugqibeleni, amadolo am aqala ukuba buhlungu, kwaye yonke into yayihlala iqinile. Ndikhumbula ndikhe ndaqubuda phantsi ukuze ndikhethe into phantsi, kwaye amadolo am abuhlungu kakhulu kangangokuba andinakukwazi ukuphakama. Endaweni yokukhawuleza, ngesiquphe ndaqala ukucotha. WTF? Kodwa andizange ndicinge ukuba ndonzakele ngokobugcisa, ngoko ke ndaqhubeka ndiphumelela.

Xa ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiziqeqeshele umdyarho wam wokuqala, ndaye ndaqala ukusebenza nomqeqeshi, owayenomfazi (naye imbaleki, ngokwendalo) ebambelele kwinto yokuba bendikopela kwisicwangciso sam soqeqesho ngokungazithathi iintsuku zokuphumla njengoko kuyalelwe. Xa umqeqeshi wam wathi makathabathe usuku lokubaleka, ndiza kubetha iklasi yokujikeleza kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, okanye ndibandakanyeke kwibhokisi ekhatywayo.

"Ndiyayithiya imihla yokuphumla," ndiyakhumbula ndimxelela.

“Ukuba awuzithandi iintsuku zokuphumla, kungenxa yokuba awusebenzi ngokwaneleyo ngezinye iintsuku,” waphendula ngelitshoyo.

Yhu! Kodwa ngaba wayenyanisile? Intetha yakhe indinyanzele ukuba ndibuye umva ndijonge lento bendiyenza nokuba kutheni. Kwakutheni ukuze ndizive ndifuna ukubaleka okanye ndibandakanyeke kuhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi we-cardio yonke imihla? Ngaba kungenxa yokuba wonke umntu wayesenza? Ngaba kwakungenxa yokuba ndandisoyika ukuba ndiza kuphelelwa ngamandla xa ndiphumla usuku? Ngaba ndandisoyika OMG ukufumana ubunzima ukuba ndiyazivumela ukuba ndiphola iiyure ezingama-24?

Ndicinga ukuba yayiyindibaniselwano yoku kungentla, idityaniswe nenyani yokuba bendonwabile ngokwenyani ukubaleka okanye ukusebenza. (Jonga isikhokelo sakho sokugqibela sokuthatha usuku lokuphumla ngendlela elungileyo.)

Kodwa kuthekani ukuba ndityhala kanzima iintsuku ezimbalwa evekini, kwaye ndizivumele ukuba ndibuyele umva ngezinye iintsuku? Umqeqeshi wam kunye nenkosikazi yakhe babenyanisile. (Kakade babenjalo.) Kwathabatha ixesha, kodwa ekugqibeleni ndafumana ulungelelwano oluvuyisayo phakathi kokuzilolonga nokuphumla. (Ayizizo zonke iintlanga eziza kuba yi-PR. Nazi ezinye iinjongo ezintlanu ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe.)

Kuyavela, ndiyazithanda iintsuku zokuphumla ngoku.

Kum, usuku lokuphumla alusilo "usuku lokuphumla ukubaleka" apho ndithatha ngokufihlakeleyo iklasi yokujikeleza kunye neklasi yeVinyasa eshushu yemizuzu engama-90. Usuku lokuphumla lusuku lokuvila. Usuku lwemilenze-eludongeni. Usuku lokuhamba kancinci-ne-puppy. Lusuku lokuvumela umzimba wam ukuba ubuye, wakhe kwakhona, kwaye ubuye womelele.

Kwaye ucinga ntoni?

Ngoku ukuba ndithathe usuku olunye okanye ezimbini veki nganye, iindlela zam ziye zaphinda zehla. Umzimba wam awubuhlungu ngendlela owawuqhele ukwenza ngayo, kwaye ndijonge phambili ekubalekeni kwam kuba andizenzi yonke imihla.

Wonke umntu-kunye nawo wonke umzimba-wahlukile. Sonke siyachacha ngokwahlukileyo kwaye sifuna izixa ezahlukeneyo zokuphumla.

Kodwa iintsuku zokuphumla azindenzanga ndaphelelwa ngumzimba. Khange ndityebe ngokuthatha usuku olunye evekini. Ekuqaleni, ndichithe iintsuku zam zokuphumla ndingafakwanga, ngoko ke andizukungena kwiStrava kwaye ndibone konke ukusebenza okumangalisayo kwe-OMG okwenziwa ngabahlobo bam ngelixa ndandikwisiqendu 8 sexesha elide IOrenji nguMnyama oMtsha imarathon. (Imidiya yoluntu inokuba ngumhlobo wakho ohamba phambili okanye utshaba lwakho olubi.)

Ngoku, ndiyazi ukuba ndenza okona kulungileyo kum.

Kwaye ukuba ndinokubuyela umva ndimxelele nantoni na endiyithethayo kwibanga lam lesihlanu, inokuba kukuhamba umgama omde ndingazifihli phantsi kweebleachers. Kuya kuvela, ukubaleka kunokuba mnandi kakhulu-ukuba nje uphatha umzimba wakho yonke imayile yendlela.

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