Mangaphi amaxesha anokuthi umntu onobufazi angene kumqolo?
Umxholo
- Ukuqaphela?
- Ukuba ne-orgasms ezininzi kwiseshoni enye kuyinto eqhelekileyo
- Kungenxa yokuba uninzi lwabantu abane-vulvas banexesha elifutshane lokuchasana
- Kuxhomekeke kwinto oyithethayo xa usithi 'yiza'
- Kukho umahluko phakathi kokuba nee-Os ezininzi nokuzifumba
- Ukuba ufuna ukuya ngaphezulu kwe-O enye, zama oku
- Nika ukuhlela umfanekiso
- Jonga ezinye izinto ezikhuthazayo
- Zixelele ukuba uza kuvuthwa ngaphezu kwesinye
- Ukuba ufuna ukuya ngaphezulu kwe-ejaculation enye, zama oku
- Ziqhelise Kegels
- Kuphephe ukuphulula amaphambili
- Ukuba ufuna ukuya ku-O oqhubekayo, zama oku
- Ngaba bukhona ubungozi kwi-orgasming okanye kwi-ejaculating rhoqo?
- Umgca wezantsi
Ukuqaphela?
Umntu onelungu lobufazi unakho ukuza naphi na ukusuka kwabahlanu ukuya kwabahlanu kwiseshoni enye kulo naluphi na uhlobo lokukhuthaza.
Abanye abantu bacebisa ukuba eli nani lingangaphezulu.
Unokwazi ukuhlangabezana okanye nokuba ungcono kula manani, kodwa wonke umntu wahlukile. Inokwanela, okanye unganqwenela ezimbalwa.
Nangona kunjalo, i-ejaculation kunye ne-orgasm-ngokuphulula amalungu esini okanye amaqabane esini-akufuneki enzakalise. Ukuba uva iintlungu, mpompe iziqhoboshi.
Funda ukuze ufunde ngakumbi malunga nokuba kutheni abanye abantu benokuba ne-orgasm engaphezulu kwesinye, kutheni le nto ingafaniyo ne-ejaculation, nangaphezulu.
Ukuba ne-orgasms ezininzi kwiseshoni enye kuyinto eqhelekileyo
Kubantu abaninzi, ukufezekisa i-orgasm enye ngexesha lokudibana ngokwesondo kwanele.
Kwabanye, i-romp isenokungagqitywa de kube ngaphezulu kwamanqaku athile ebhodini. Umntu ngamnye wahlukile.
Enye encinci ifumanise ukuba ngaphezulu kwesinye kwisithathu sabathathi-nxaxheba baxele ukuba bane-orgasms ezininzi.
Kunokwenzeka ukuba, kwaye nabantu abaninzi yenza amava, ii-orgasms ezininzi kwiseshoni enye.
Oku kunokufezekiswa ngohlobo olwahlukileyo lokuchukumisa, kubandakanya ukukhuthazeka kunye nokungena kwilungu lobufazi okanye ezimpundu.
Kungenxa yokuba uninzi lwabantu abane-vulvas banexesha elifutshane lokuchasana
Abantu abanelungu lobufazi banokufumana ithuba lokuzivelela kunabantu abanesondo: Banako "ukubuyela" ngokukhawuleza kwi-ejaculation okanye kwi-orgasm.
Eli xesha lokuchacha liyaziwa njengexesha lokuphikisa.
Kwimizuzwana kunye nemizuzu emva kokuphuma okanye i-orgasm, umzimba wakho uthumela ukungxama kwee-neurotransmitters ezikunceda uzinze.
Emva kwelo xesha lokudlula kwexesha, unokukwazi ukufikelela kwi-orgasm okanye kwi-ejaculation kwakhona.
Kubantu abanesini, ixesha elichasayo lihlala likhawuleza- ngamanye amaxesha lihlala nje imizuzwana, ukuba kunjalo.
Oku kukuvumela ukuba ulungele i-orgasm ngexesha elifutshane kunomntu onepenisi.
Kuxhomekeke kwinto oyithethayo xa usithi 'yiza'
Ukuchithwa kwe-ejaculation kunye ne-orgasm zihlala zixubene njengesiganeko esinye, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba i-orgasm ngaphandle kokuphuma okanye ngokuchaseneyo.
I-orgasm kukunyuka okukhulu kobuntununtunu kunye neemvakalelo.
Imisipha ikhontrakthi, ukubetha kwentliziyo kuyanda, kunye noxinzelelo lwegazi luyenyuka. Ulonwabo lukhulu kakhulu, kwaye luhlala luhamba ngaphambi kokunyuka.
Kubantu abanesini sangasese, i-ejaculation yenzeka xa ulwelo lukhutshwa kwi-urethra ngexesha lokuvuselelwa ngokwesondo.
Ngokungafaniyo nomntu onepenisi, le fluid ayinayo incindi yobudoda. Ikwahlukile kunamanzi aveliswa ngokwendalo xa uvuliwe.
Ukusuka ngo-1984, malunga ne-126 kuma-233 abathathi-nxaxheba abanamava (iipesenti ezingama-54) bathi banamava okuphuma kanye kanye.
Nangona kunjalo, into exhaphakileyo komnye umntu isenokungabi yeyomnye, ke sukuyigxininisa ukuba awuzange ube nakho oku ngaphambili.
Kukho umahluko phakathi kokuba nee-Os ezininzi nokuzifumba
Abanye abantu bafumana ama-orgasms ahlukeneyo kwiseshoni enye. Banokwahlulwa yimizuzu eliqela okanye nangaphezulu.
Abanye banokufumana imeko ye-orgasmic eqhubekayo, ekwabizwa ngokuba yi "stacking orgasms."
Aba bantu bane-orgasm enye, kwaye ngaphambi kokuba i-subsidie iqale, baqala ukunyathela amaza alandelayo. Ngamafutshane, yi-orgasm engapheliyo.
Le meko ye-hyperarousal kunzima ukuyifezekisa, kodwa ukuba uphakame ngokudlala kwaye uzama izinto, kunokuba kufanelekile kumzamo.
Ukuba ufuna ukuya ngaphezulu kwe-O enye, zama oku
Ukufika kwinqanaba apho unokuba ne-orgasms ezininzi kunokuthatha ixesha, kodwa ezi ndlela zinokunceda.
Nika ukuhlela umfanekiso
Eyaziwa ngokuba yindlela yokumisa ukuqala, ukuguqula kukuzisa kwi-brink-okanye edge-of orgasm. Emva koko uyeke lento uyenzayo.
Unokwenza eminye imisebenzi, ukuba ayibangeli ukuba yi-orgasm. Unokulinda imizuzwana embalwa ukuba umzimba wakho uphole, emva koko uqale kwakhona.
Olu hlobo lolawulo lwe-orgasm lunokukunceda ube ne-orgasm eyonwabisayo ngakumbi, kunye nokwandisa amandla akho ukuze ukwazi ukulawula ngcono i-orgasm yakho nakweyiphi na iseshoni.
Kodwa gcinani engqondweni, okukhona ulibazisa, kokukhona usenokuba novakalelo ngakumbi. Oko kunokwenza ukuyeka ixesha kube nzima.
Jonga ezinye izinto ezikhuthazayo
Ngaphandle kwento enokuboniswa ngumabonwakude kunye neminye imithombo yeendaba, bambalwa abantu abakwaziyo ukufikelela kuvuthondaba ngokungena kwilungu lobufazi kuphela. Ukuvuselelwa kobumbano kuhlala kufuneka ukufikelela kumgca wokugqibela.
Unokufumana ukuba kuluncedo ukuphonononga ezinye iindlela ezinobungozi, njengokudlala ingono, ukubetheka kweenyawo, okanye nokungena okungaphakathi ekuvuseleleni okunzulu kwe-A.
Zixelele ukuba uza kuvuthwa ngaphezu kwesinye
Kwilizwe le-orgasms, ngamanye amaxesha ingqondo ibetha into.
Ukuba usondela kwiseshoni nganye ngengqondo ekuvumela ukuba uphumle kwaye wonwabele okwenzekayo, unokufumanisa ukuba ukonwaba kokudlala kunye nokulingwa kukonyusa ukuphumla kwakho kwaye kuphakamisa uvakalelo lwakho.
Ukuba ufuna ukuya ngaphezulu kwe-ejaculation enye, zama oku
It ngu kunokwenzeka ukukhupha ngaphezulu kwakanye. Njengokuba une-orgasm engaphezulu kwesinye, ukufikelela kweli nqanaba kungathatha ixesha-kodwa uhambo lunokuba sisiqingatha solonwabo.
Ziqhelise Kegels
Yenza oku amaxesha ngamaxesha ngemini. Ungaqala ukuqaphela umohluko kuwo omabini amandla, uvakalelo, kunye nolawulo lokuphuma njengoko izihlunu zikhula ngakumbi.
Ukomeleza izihlunu zomgangatho we-pelvic kunokuba nezibonelelo ezininzi ezilungileyo, ekukuncedeni ukulawula ukuchama ekunyuseni uvakalelo ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo.
Imisipha yomgangatho we-pelvic eyomeleleyo inokukunceda ukunciphisa ixesha lakho lokuphikisa, kananjalo. Oku kunokunyusa inani lamaxesha onokuthi u-ejaculate okanye i-orgasm.
Umsebenzi osisiseko weKegel ufuna ukuba uguqule izihlunu zakho ngokungathi uzama ukubamba umchamo okanye uwunqumle phakathi komjelo, emva koko ubambe esi sithintelo ubuncinci imizuzwana emi-5.
Ngokuthe ngcembe yandisa ukuba ungabamba ixesha elingakanani kule contraction-ukuya kuthi ga kwimizuzwana engama-20 okanye njalo-ukonyusa amandla.
Kuphephe ukuphulula amaphambili
Okude ukuba uhamba ngaphandle kokuphulula amalungu esini okanye amaqabane esini, kokukhona uya kuba novakalelo ngakumbi ekulingiseni.
Ukonyusa ukonyusa kunokwenza kube lula ukukhupha ngaphezulu kwexesha elinye.
Tsiba iintsuku ezimbalwa zokwabelana ngesondo okanye ukuzidlalela, kwaye uxinzelelo lunokwanela ukukunceda wandise amanani akho.
Ukuba ufuna ukuya ku-O oqhubekayo, zama oku
Ukugcwala ii-orgasms kungathatha isenzo esikhulu, kwaye ayinguye wonke umntu oya kuba nakho ukwenza. Kulungile!
Konwabele ukukhwela kwaye ubone apho ikusa khona.
- Yiya phambili kwaye ube ne-orgasm yokuqala, kodwa endaweni yokugcoba emva kokukhanya ixesha elide, lungiselela enye.
- Qalisa ukuvuselela kwakhona njengoko ukukhawuleza kokuqala kwe-orgasm kuqala ukuhla. Ungadinga ukwahluka kubuchwephesha okanye indawo yokukhuthaza. Qhubeka njengoko usondela kunyango olulandelayo lokuvuka.
- Ngomxholo ngamnye, ukunciphisa ubuntununtunu kwimizuzwana embalwa, kodwa ungavumeli. Isitshixo sokubekwa kwe-orgasms kukugcina ukukhuthaza okanye ukungena ngaphakathi ukuze ukhwele amaza e-orgasms eqhubekayo.
Ngaba bukhona ubungozi kwi-orgasming okanye kwi-ejaculating rhoqo?
Hayi!
Ukuba ne-orgasms ezininzi okanye ukuchama amaxesha amaninzi emgceni akunabungozi, kodwa unokucaphukisa i-vulva yakho okanye i-clitoral hood ngokurabha kakhulu okanye ukukhuhlana. Izihlunu zakho zangasese zinokuba buhlungu kukungena kwakhona.
Ukwahlula iindlela zakho zokukhuthaza ukunciphisa ukungqubana, kwaye usebenzise i-lube ukuthintela ukungonwabi.
Musa ukuba neentloni nge lube nokuba! Sebenzisa kangangoko kuthatha ukunciphisa nakuphi na ukungqubana.
Umgca wezantsi
Ukuba ne-orgasms ezininzi okanye ii-ejaculations kunokuba yinto emnandi, kodwa ayisiyiyo kuphela kwendlela yokwandisa iiseshoni zakho zesondo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba iiromps zakho zimfutshane kakhulu, jonga ezinye iindlela zokwenza ukuba isondo lihlale ixesha elide.
Ngaphezulu kwayo yonke enye into, vula ubuchule kunye novakalelo lomzimba wakho. Mamela kuyo yonke le nkqubo, kwaye wonwabe!