Ukukhula: Uya Kude Kangakanani Umntwana Wam?

Umxholo

• Zeziphi izinto ezichaphazela ukukhula komntwana?
• Isini
• Izinto zemvelo
• Imeko yezeMpilo
• Isondlo
• Zeziphi ezinye zeendlela zokuqikelela ukuba angade abe mde kangakanani umntwana?
• Ukuphakama kwiNdlela yokuFikisa
• Umyinge woMama noTata wobude
• Ubudala Bone X-Ray
• Uya kuyeka nini ukukhula umntwana wam?
• Ndifanele Ndixhalabe Nini Ngokukhula Komntwana Wam?
• Ukuthatha

Ngaphambi kokuba azalwe umntwana wakho, kusenokwenzeka ukuba wawuzibuza ngombala weenwele zawo, umbala wamehlo nokuphakama kwawo. Ngelixa ungakwazi ukuqikelela yonke into, kukho imikhondo yokukunceda uxele ukuba mde kangakanani umntwana wakho.

Zeziphi izinto ezichaphazela ukukhula komntwana?

Zininzi izinto eziya kumisela ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuba mde kangakanani. Ezinye zazo zezi:

Isini

Amakhwenkwe athanda ukuba mde kunamantombazana.

Izinto zemvelo

Ukuphakama komntu kudla ngokuqhuba kwiintsapho. Uninzi lwabantu kusapho oluthile luya kukhula ngamazinga afanayo kwaye lube nobude obufanayo. Nangona kunjalo, oku akutsho ukuba abazali abafutshane basenokungabi namntwana mde ngokugqithileyo.

Imeko yezeMpilo

Ukuba umntwana uneemeko ezithile zonyango, inokuchaphazela ukukhula kwabo. Omnye umzekelo yiMarfan syndrome, isifo semfuza esibangela ukuba abo banaso babe mde ngokungaqhelekanga. Iimeko ezinokubangela ukuba umntwana abe mfutshane zibandakanya isifo samathambo, isifo se-celiac, kunye nomhlaza. Kananjalo, abantwana abathathe amayeza athile, njenge-corticosteroids esetyenziswe ixesha elide, abanako ukukhula bade.

Isondlo

Abantwana abatyebe ngokugqithiseleyo baya kuhlala bebade, ngelixa abantwana abatyebe kakhulu okanye abangondlekanga benokuba mfutshane. Nangona kunjalo, oku akusoloko kuqikelela ubude bokugqibela bomntwana.

Zeziphi ezinye zeendlela zokuqikelela ukuba angade abe mde kangakanani umntwana?

Kukho iifomula ezininzi ezinokuqikelela ukuba umntwana angade abe mde kangakanani. Ngelixa kungekho namnye oqinisekisiweyo ukuba unokuqikelela ngokuqinisekileyo ukuphakama komntwana wakho, banokukunceda uqikelelo olubi.

Ukuphakama kwiNdlela yokuFikisa

Kumakhwenkwe, phinda kabini ubude bonyana wakho kubudala be-2. Amantombazana, phinda kabini ukuphakama komntwana wakho kwiinyanga ezili-18.

Umzekelo: Intombazana ine-intshi ezingama-31 kubudala beenyanga ezili-18. 31 iphindwe kabini = 62 intshi, okanye 5 iinyawo, 2 intshi ubude.

Umyinge woMama noTata wobude

Bala ukuphakama kukamama notata nge-intshi kwaye ubadibanise kunye. Yongeza ii-intshi ezintlanu kwinkwenkwe okanye uthabathe ii-intshi ezintlanu kwintombazana, ukuya kule iyonke. Yahlula inani elishiyekileyo ngababini.

Umzekelo: Umama wenkwenkwe zii-5 iinyawo, ii-intshi ezi-6 ubude (i-intshi ezingama-66), ngelixa utata ezi-6 ubude (ii-intshi ezingama-72):

• 66 + 72 = 138 intshi
• I-138 + 5 intshi yenkwenkwe = 143
• 143 yahlulwe ngo-2 = 71.5 intshi

Inkwenkwe iya kuqikelelwa kwii-5 iinyawo, i-intshi ezili-10 ubude. Iziphumo zihlala zii-intshi ezi-4, ukudibanisa okanye ukunciphisa.

Ubudala Bone X-Ray

Ugqirha unokuthatha iX-reyi yesandla somntwana wakho kunye nesihlahla. Le X-reyi ingabonisa amacwecwe okukhula kwamathambo omntwana. Njengomntwana mdala, iipleyiti zokukhula ziye zinciphe. Xa umntwana egqibile ukukhula, iipleyiti zokukhula ziya kunyamalala. Ugqirha unokusebenzisa isifundo seminyaka yobudala bethambo ukumisela ukuba lingakanani ixesha, kwaye mde, umntwana angakhula.

Uya kuyeka nini ukukhula umntwana wam?

Amantombazana kunye namakhwenkwe aya kuba namava okukhula okubonakalayo ekufikiseni.

Oku kwenzeka kwiminyaka eyahlukeneyo kwisini ngasinye. NgokukaNemours, amantombazana ahlala efikisa phakathi kweminyaka esi-8 ukuya kweli-13. Ngeli xesha, baya kuqala ukukhula amabele kwaye baqale ukuya exesheni. Amakhwenkwe aya kuqala ukufikisa phakathi kweminyaka eli-9 ukuya kweli-14.

Kuba amantombazana athanda ukubetha kuqala ukukhula kwabo, bathambekele ekuyekeni ukukhula besebancinci, bahlala ke beneminyaka eli-16. Amakhwenkwe aya kuhlala ekhula ade abe neminyaka eli-18.

Nangona kunjalo, abantwana bakhula ngamazinga ahlukeneyo. Ukuthi umntwana angakhula ixesha elingakanani kunokuxhomekeka kuye xa efikisa. Ukuba umntwana uyaphuma ebusheni kamva kunakubantwana abaninzi abakwiminyaka yabo, banokukhula de kube mvanje nabo.

Ndifanele Ndixhalabe Nini Ngokukhula Komntwana Wam?

Ukuba unenkxalabo yokuba umntwana wakho angakhuli ngezinga elilindelekileyo, thetha nogqirha wakhe.

Banokubonisa itshathi yokukhula komndilili, inikwe ubudala bomntwana wakho kunye nesini. Ugqirha womntwana wakho unokusebenzisa itshathi ukuceba ukukhula kwabo. Ukuba ngequbuliso umntwana wakho ubonakala ngathi uyacotha ekukhuleni okanye ungaphantsi komndilili wokukhula, ugqirha womntwana wakho unokukuthumela kwi-endocrinologist. Lo gqirha ugxile kwiihomoni, kubandakanya ukukhula kwamahomoni adlala indima kubude bomntwana wakho. Ukuba ugqirha womntwana wakho ukhathazekile ukuba umntwana wakho unokuba nemeko yemfuza, banokukuthumela kwingcali yemfuza.

Imizekelo yezinto ezichaphazela ukukhula komntwana wakho zibandakanya:

• imiba yokufunxa ngokutya
• ukuphazamiseka kwezintso
• Ukutya kakhulu kunye nenqanaba lesondlo
• iingxaki zedlala lengqula
• Ukukhula kwengxaki yehomoni
• ukuphazamiseka kwentliziyo okanye kwemiphunga

I-endocrinologist inokuvavanya igazi lomntwana wakho kwaye yenze ezinye iimvavanyo ukumisela ukuba zeziphi izinto ezinokuchaphazela ukukhula kwabo.

Ukuthatha

Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokukhula komntwana wakho, kubalulekile ukuba ufune unyango ngaphambi kokuba bagqibe ukufikisa, njengoko baya kuyeka ukukhula emva kwelo xesha. Unyango lunokufumaneka kubantwana abangakhuli njengoko kulindelwe. Ukuba unenkxalabo, ugqirha wabantwana womntwana wakho yindawo efanelekileyo yokuqala.