Indlela yokuziva unamandla ngokwasengqondweni kwaye ukhuthazwa

Umxholo

• Zeziphi ezinye zeendlela zakho eziphambili zokunceda abantu ukuba bafumane amandla, ubuchule kunye nokwoneliseka ebomini babo?
• Ndiyayithanda loo nto. Ngaba zikho ezinye iimijelo zengqondo ezinobuqhophololo esinokuzikhupha?
• Kuthekani ngawe, Marianne? Ngowuphi owona mthambo uluncedo kakhulu othanda ukuzenza nabantu?
• Ngaba unawo nawaphi na amacebiso okugcina amandla emini?
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Nangona ufumene iiyure zakho ezisibhozo (kulungile, ezilishumi) zokulala ngobuhle kwaye ukhuphe i-latte edutyulwe kabini ngaphambi kokuya eofisini, umzuzu wokuhlala phantsi edesikeni yakho, ngequbuliso uziva ndidiniwe.Yintoni enika?

Kuyavela ukuba, ukuphumla ngokwasemzimbeni akuthethi ukuba ingqondo yakho inamandla kwaye ikulungele ukuthatha usuku. Kulapho uMarianne Aerni kunye no-Dev Aujla beza khona. U-Aerni, umseki we-Wild NYC, odala iiseshoni zokufunda nokukhula, kunye no-Aujla, umbhali we Iindlela ezingama-50 zokufumana umsebenzi kunye ne-CEO yeKhathalogu, ifemu yokugaya kunye neyokuququzelela, iindibano zocweyo ezikhokelayo ukunceda abantu ukuba bafumane amandla engqondo kwaye bangene kwizakhono zabo zokwenyani empilweni kunye nesitudiyo sokuqeqesha. Lungisa kwakhona kwisiXeko saseNew York.

Apha, i-duo ichaza iindlela ezintsha zokuzinika ingqondo-kunye nenkuthazo-yonyuso.

Zeziphi ezinye zeendlela zakho eziphambili zokunceda abantu ukuba bafumane amandla, ubuchule kunye nokwoneliseka ebomini babo?

Aujla: Ndiyathanda ukusebenza nabantu ukukhulula indawo yengqondo, ethi yona ibenze bazise amandla ngakumbi kubo bonke ubomi babo. Kukho umthambo omnye olula endiwuthandayo. Ndenza uludwe lwento endiyibiza ngokuba kukunyamezelana—ezo zinto zincinane zikruqulayo kodwa ongaze utshintshe. Njengokuphelelwa kweetawuli zamaphepha ngaphandle kokufumana ngaphezulu. Okanye ucango lwakho lokulala olunqabileyo. Okanye i-zipper encangathi kwi-jeans yakho oyithandayo. Dwelisa zonke, emva koko ubeke usuku oza kuzisusa ngalo. Thenga itoni yeetawuli zamaphepha, thambisa umnyango, ulungise uziphu.

Kuvakala bubudenge, kodwa oko kuthatha umthwalo omkhulu engqondweni yakho, kukhulula onke la mandla engqondo obungazange wazi ukuba alahlekile. Yenye yezinto endizenza kathathu ngonyaka. (Idibeneyo: Ngaba umsebenzi wamandla unokukunceda ukuba ufumane ukulinganisela?)

Ndiyayithanda loo nto. Ngaba zikho ezinye iimijelo zengqondo ezinobuqhophololo esinokuzikhupha?

Aujla: Ukuzibophelela kukhulu. Elinye icebiso endilinika abantu kukuqaphela zonke izibophelelo ozenzayo kuwe okanye komnye umntu kangangeentsuku ezintathu. Oku akukona ukugcina umkhondo weshedyuli yakho. Imalunga nokuqaphela indlela ozibophelela ngayo ungakhange uyiqonde. Usandula ukudibana nomntu, kwaye ngaphandle kokucinga uthi, "Masihlangane kwakhona kungekudala" okanye "Mandikuthumelele le ncwadi bendithetha ngayo." Izibophelelo zithatha indawo yengqondo. Ukugcina ilog kukukhuthaza ukuba ube nengqiqo malunga namazwi akho kunye noko ukhetha ukukwenza.

Enye indlela elula yokomeleza amandla okanye inkuthazo kukwenza uluhlu lwazo zonke izinto ofuna ukuzifunda. Ungabhala phantsi nayiphi na imibuzo engacacanga eza kuwe emini kwaye ungaphendulwa ngokukhangela ngokukhawuleza kuGoogle-Kutheni ubona izigqubuthelo? -Kunye nezinto eziza kuthatha umzamo ongakumbi wokuzifunda, njengobuchule obutsha bomsebenzi. Uluhlu lunokuveza umdla onokuthi uluhlolisise, likukhuthaze ukuba wakhe icala, okanye likuncede ufumane intsingiselo entsha emsebenzini wakho wangoku. (Eyeleleneyo: Iingcebiso zokuguqula uxinzelelo lwakho lube ngamandla alungileyo)

Kuthekani ngawe, Marianne? Ngowuphi owona mthambo uluncedo kakhulu othanda ukuzenza nabantu?

Aerni: Enye yezinto ndihlala ndizisa ingxelo. Kuyanceda kakhulu buqu kunye nomsebenzi, kodwa amaxesha amaninzi silinda ixesha elide ukuba siyifumane. Emsebenzini unokuba nohlolo olunye kuphela okanye zibe mbini ngonyaka-kwaye ivakala ngathi iyinto embi le. Ndifundisa abantu ukuba bayicele rhoqo kwaye ndiyibuze kule mibuzo mibini: “Ngaba kukho into ocinga ukuba bendinokuyenza ngokwahlukileyo koku? Ngaba ikho into ocinga ukuba ndenze kakuhle? ” Oku kukhuthaza abantu ukuba bahambise ingxelo engakhethi cala kunye nezimvo, ezigcina ziluncedo ngakumbi.

Ngaba unawo nawaphi na amacebiso okugcina amandla emini?

Aerni: Ndingumlandeli omkhulu wekhefu. Iintshayi ziyaphuma ngaphandle ziphumle rhoqo. Ngenxa yokuba ungatshayi akuthethi ukuba akufuneki uthathe ikhefu. Phuma ngaphandle, hamba uhambe, ufumane ikofu. Kunika amandla kakhulu. (Eyeleleneyo: Eyona ndlela inemveliso yokuthatha ikhefu emsebenzini)

Aujla: Kudala ndisebenzisa le app ibizwa ngokuba yiNaturalist. Uthatha umfanekiso waso nasiphi na isityalo okanye isilwanyana uze usithumele kwi-app, apho uluntu olukhulu lwezendalo lunokuyichonga kwaye luthethe ngayo. Ndiyayithanda. Inika isizathu sokuphuma ngaphandle kwaye indipakishe kwindawo engqongileyo, entle ngengqondo. (Oku kutya kuya kukunika amandla owadingayo ukuze ubenamandla osuku lwakho.)

Shape Magazine, ngoJanuwari / Februwari 2020 umba

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