Yintoni i-Scississing? Izinto ezili-12 zokuzazi malunga neSimo se-Scissor Sex

Umxholo

• 1. Isikere ayisiyonto nje yesiniba okanye abantu abanesini.
• 2. Isikisi sinokuziva silunge ngenene.
• 3. ILube inokwenza indawo yokulala ngesikere ibonakale ingcono.
• 4. Unokwenza isikere ngeempahla.
• 5. I-Scissoing sisiseko sokuzilolonga.
• 6. Ngumbono olungileyo ukuzolula phambi kwesikhundla sesini sesisikere.
• 7. Iindawo ezikungqongileyo (kunye nemiqamelo) zizihlobo zakho ngelixa usisi.
• 8. Unokongeza i-vibrator kwindawo ye-scissor sex.
• 9. Ungazama nento yokudlala yangaphakathi.
• 10. Yongeza into exubileyo kwisini sakho sesini.
• 11. Ukosulela nge-STI kunye nokukhulelwa kusenokwenzeka ngelixa ukrwecwa.
• 12. Isikisi sisenokungasebenzi kuwe.
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Yintoni efana ne-junk drawer yakho kunye negumbi lokulala? Isikere. Ewe, omnye kufuneka abe nezikere ozisebenzisayo ukusika (✂️), kwaye enye kufuneka ibe nesikhundla sokulala ngesondo osisebenzisayo ukuzonwabisa (✂️ ✂️ 😈).

Ngelixa ungalinganisa isikere kunye nesenzo se-vulva-on-vulva, eneneni sisikhundla sokwabelana ngesondo esibanzi kakhulu nesiqukayo kune-porn eqhelekileyo (ukuncwina) unokuba uyakholelwa. Ingcali yolonwabo lomzimba uCarly S., umseki weDildo okanye iDildon't, icacisa ithi, "Ukukrweca ngesondo siso nasiphi na isenzo sokwabelana ngesondo esibandakanya ukuhlikihla okanye ukucolwa kwelungu lobufazi.

Esi sikhundla safumana igama laso kuba sixhaphaza abantu ababini abasasaza imilenze, "njengezikere ezivulekileyo, emva koko badibane phakathi," ngokukaSara Sloane, utitshala wesini nomqeqeshi kwiGood Vibrations nakwiPleasure Chest. Inokufezekiswa ngawo omabini amaqabane alele ngomqolo okanye emacaleni, okanye elinye liwele kwelinye.

Kodwa eso sisiqalo nje. Funda kuyo yonke into ekufuneka uyazi malunga nesikere kunye nendlela yokwenza isikere ngayo nayiphi na indibaniselwano yesini.

1. Isikere ayisiyonto nje yesiniba okanye abantu abanesini.

“Ngokwembali, isikere yayisisenzo sokwabelana ngesondo esasibandakanya abanini-mazi ababini becinezela i-vulva yabo omnye komnye,” utsho uSloane. Igama eliphambili apha: ngokwembali! Kule mihla, yintoni efanelekayo njengokukalika kwandisiwe ukubandakanya nakuphi na ukunxibelelana ngesini sangasese, utshilo uCarly S.

Enkosi kwiindidi ze-PornHub iskississ sidume ngokuba "yiLesbian Sex Act," kodwa bubuxoki obu. "Isikere asiyonto Lesbian isenzo sesondo, "uyavuma uSloane. Kokunye, ayinguye wonke umntu ozama okanye othanda isikisi achaze ukuba ungowesini. ukungazenzi indawo yokulala ngesondo, kwaye le nto ayenzi ukuba babe ngabathandanayo. (Kaninzi: Isikhokelo se-Insider sokulala nomnye umfazi)

2. Isikisi sinokuziva silunge ngenene.

Abanikazi be-Vulva banezicubu ezininzi ze-erectile phantsi kwe-labia (kubandakanywa ne-clitoris), enokuthi ivuselelwe ngokuvuselela ngaphandle," kusho uSloane. ICYDK, ikliti yakho ingaphezulu kwale nub incinci ephezulu yelabhoratri yakho; Izihlunu zeclitoral ezinovakalelo kakhulu zinabela phantsi kwelebhu macala omabini e-vulva yakho, kwaye ke ukuvuselela yonke le ndawo (esikere siyenza ngokuqinisekileyo) inokuziva imangalisa kwaye yongeze ekuvukeni kwakho. Inyani eyolisayo: Iiclitoris ezininzi zabanikazi be-vulva ziya kukhula kwaye i-labia yabo iya kuba nzima kwaye ikhukhumale (ewe, iyinto enzima) ngexesha lokukrazula umbulelo kulo lonke igazi eligxalathelana kuyo yonke indawo kwaye lizalise izicubu ze-erectile ngaphakathi. impendulo ekuvulweni, utsho uSloane.

Enye into epholileyo malunga nokukrazula kukuba izihlunu zakho zomgangatho we-pelvic zisebenza ngokuzenzekelayo xa uhambisa i-pelvis yakho kwintshukumo yokusila ngokuchasene neqabane lakho, utsho. (Yep, ukugaya ngokusisiseko kufana nokwenza uninzi lwee-pelvic tilts ezincinci kwiiPilates!). Ngenxa yokuba i-orgasms ngokusisiseko luluhlu lwee-contractions ze-pelvic floor, uthi unokuqaphela ukuba i-orgasms yiza ngokukhawuleza ngakumbi ngexesha lesi sikhundla ngenxa yoko.

Ngokubhekisele kubanini beepenisi? "I-Scissoring ivumela ukuba bafumane imvakalelo yokukhuhla incanca yabo kwinto efudumeleyo (kwaye ngamanye amaxesha emanzi) eqhotyoshelwe kumntu abamthandayo okanye ababelana ngamava ngesondo kunye," kusho uCarly S. Ngokwemvelo, oko kuya kuziva kumnandi, uthi. . (Jonga: UkuThatha okushushu: Ukusila Sesona senzo sesondo esiNgaphantsi)

3. ILube inokwenza indawo yokulala ngesikere ibonakale ingcono.

Nangona ii-vaginas ngokwendalo zivelisa ukuthambisa kancinci ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, ngokukodwa lilungu lakho lobufazi (lelo ngumjelo wangaphakathi) ovelisa into yokuthambisa, hayi i-vulva (indawo engaphandle yamalungu obufazi). Ngenxa yokuba i-vulva yakho yeyona nto ihlangabezana nokukhuhlana ngelixa ukrweca, oku kunokubangela ukukrazula (ouch).

Ukulungiswa okulula: "Ukongeza into yokuthambisa esithengiweyo evenkileni kunceda ekunyuseni imvakalelo, kwaye kuncede amalungu esini awele ngokulula komnye nomnye," utshilo uSloane.

4. Unokwenza isikere ngeempahla.

"Ukukrazula kunokuba nzima kunye nempahla," utshilo uSloane. "Unokuba neqabane elinye lishiye ijini yabo ukuze iqabane lesibini libe nokufumana ukungqubana okungakumbi." Okanye nobabini ningagcina impahla yenu niyinxibile.

5. I-Scissoing sisiseko sokuzilolonga.

Ngokwenkcitho yamandla kunye namandla afunekayo kunye ne-stamina, isikere silungile apho phezulu kunye noMkhweli oPhezulu (onokuthi uyazi njenge-cowgirl). Nje ukuba ungene kwesi sikhundla sokuqalisa, uya kufuna ukunyusa amalungu akho obuni phezulu kunye naphantsi ukuze ukhuthaze amalungu akho esini, ucacisa uSloane. Le ntshukumo ifuna iiflethi zakho, isiseko, ii-quads kunye nemisipha yexesha elikhulu.

Ukuba udiniwe, cela iqabane lakho litshintshe ukuba ngubani owenza owona msebenzi, utshilo uCarly S. (Ngokwesiqhelo umntu ongaphezulu wenza umsebenzi ongaphezulu kwalowo ungaphantsi). Ungatshintshela kwisenzo esahlukileyo sesini ngokupheleleyo, utshilo. Unokwenza, umzekelo, uthathe ukuphefumla ngexesha lesipuni sokulalana okanye ukuphulula amalungu esini, emva koko ubuyele kwisisisi emva kokuba uphumle.

6. Ngumbono olungileyo ukuzolula phambi kwesikhundla sesini sesisikere.

Kwelo phepha, njengokuba ungekhe ungene kwindawo yokuzilolonga ngaphandle kokufudumeza kuqala, akufuneki ungene kwisikere ngaphandle kokufudumeza kuqala. "Ukolula izinqe zakho ngaphambi kwexesha kunokunceda ukwenza indawo ikhululeke," utsho uCarly S. I-Runner lunges, i-frog stretch, i-figure 4, kunye ne-90/90 yolula iya kwenza iqhinga. (Unokuthatha iklasi yeyoga yokuvula iqabane kunye.)

Kwakhona, i-H2O idlala indima ebalulekileyo ekuncedeni imisipha yakho isebenze. Ngelixa i-cramp ephakathi kwe-romp yi-NBD ngokwenene - vele uphume kwindawo kwaye uyivuthulule - ukuba unokuziphepha nge-gulps ezimbalwa, unako. (Njengebhonasi, qala ufakwe kakuhle amanzi kunokonyusa amandla akho okuzithambisa.)

7. Iindawo ezikungqongileyo (kunye nemiqamelo) zizihlobo zakho ngelixa usisi.

"Musa ukoyika ukusebenzisa indawo ekungqongileyo ukukunceda ubeke umzimba wakho kakuhle," utshilo uCarly S. Ngaba unentloko? Hlala kuyo. Ukuhla esofeni? Sebenzisa iisofa emva okanye iingalo zokunyusa amandla. Ibhedi igcwele imiqamelo? Yayama kubo.

Ngapha koko, utitshala wezesondo uMarla Renee Stewart, MA, sexpert for Lovers brand yabantu abasempilweni kunye nomthengisi ucebisa ngokutyala imali kumqamelo onjengeLeberator Wedge (Yithenge, $ 110, lovehoney.com). "Ukubeka indawo yokubekwa phantsi kwempundu kunokunceda uqiniseke ukuba amalungu akho esini afikeleleka ngokulula," utshilo.

8. Unokongeza i-vibrator kwindawo ye-scissor sex.

Uhh, yeyiphi indawo yesini engenziwanga ngcono ngokongezwa kwe-vibe ?? (Icebo: Akukho). "Yongeza ukungcangcazela phakathi kwemizimba yakho yomibini ukuze ufumane uvakalelo olongezelelweyo," utshilo uStewart.Uncoma ukubandakanya i-We-Vibe Chorus (Yithenge, i-$ 200, i-lovehoney.com) i-vibrator yezibini ezinxitywayo ezivumela ukuba elinye iqabane libe namava okuvuselela kwangaphakathi nangaphandle, kunye nomnye ukufumana ukuvuselela kwangaphandle. (Bona ngakumbi: Ukuqwalaselwa kwezibini zaso nasiphi na isiCwangciso seSini, uyayifuna i-We-Vibe Chorus)

Enye inketho yi-palm vibrator efana neRomp Wave (Yithenge, $30, amazon.com), Le Wand Point (Yithenge, $130, babeland.com), okanye iDame Pom (Yithenge, $100, babeland.com). I-Ergonomically yenzelwe ukujikeleza i-vulva, uSloane ucebisa ukuba kufakwe i-tag-long-long phakathi kweebhodi zakho, "emva koko unyikime ukuze nobabini nibe namava."

9. Ungazama nento yokudlala yangaphakathi.

Amathuba okudlala ngesondo apha ngokuqinisekileyo akaphelelanga kwizidlidlizi. Yonke into ekummandla we-pelvic idityanisiwe, ke ukugcwalisa ubufazi okanye umva wakho ngento yokudlala engangcangcazeliyo njengeplagi yempundu okanye ubuhlalu belungu lobufazi kunokunyusa uvakalelo kuyo yonke indawo, utshilo uSloane. Ucebisa ukuba ukhethe uhlobo olunobunzima bezinto zokudlala, ezinje nge-b-vibe Snug Plug 1 (Yithenge, $ 48, babeland.com) okanye iLelo Beads Noir Iibhola zeKegel (Yithenge, $ 50, babeland.com) kuba ngayo yonke into , ubunzima buya kutshintsha, buvuselele imithambo-luvo ecaleni komjelo wakho wangaphakathi. UCarly S. uqinisekisa ukuba:

10. Yongeza into exubileyo kwisini sakho sesini.

Inqaku elingenanto: Ukuba wena okanye iqabane lakho linamathambo okanye isinqe esivelileyo okanye amathambo esinqe, isikere sinokuba "ouch" ngaphezulu "oh!" UCarly S. Pass uthi: "Ngenye imini emva kokukrokrela umntu, indawo yam yeengqumbo yagruzuka ngenxa yokusila kwethambo."

Ucebisa ukugoba imizimba yakho ngento efana nePelle Whim Silicone Grinding Toy (Yithenge, $ 98, feelpelle.com) okanye iTrojan Tantrix Masturbation Sleeve (Yithenge, $ 6, amazon.com). "Unako kwakhona ukugubungela intloko ye-wand vibrator nge-Tenga Egg (Yithenge, i-$ 9, babeland.com), evumela ukuba udibanise imizimba yakho ngelixa ujabulela i-vibrator."

11. Ukosulela nge-STI kunye nokukhulelwa kusenokwenzeka ngelixa ukrwecwa.

"Isikissingumsebenzi ophantsi onomngcipheko ophantsi kwezesondo, kodwa ayisiyongozi eyingozi," utshilo uSloane. Zombini ii-STIs zisasazeka ngokudibana kwesikhumba kunye ne-STIs ezisasazeka ngolwelo lomzimba zinokusasazeka ngexesha lokuhlala, utshilo. (Jonga: Indlela yokwabelana ngesondo ngokuKhuselekileyo ngalo lonke ixesha)

Ukuba aniyazi nobabini imeko yenu ye-STI, okanye omnye okanye nobabini okwangoku une-STI, unokuwunciphisa umngcipheko wokosulela ngokusebenzisa ukhuseleko, utsho uSloane. Ukuba kubandakanyeke ilungu lobudoda, oko kuthetha ikhondom yangaphakathi okanye ikhondom yangaphandle, ngelixa kubanikazi ababini be-vulva oko kuthetha idama lamazinyo. (Idibeneyo: Masifumane ezinye izinto ngokuthe ngqo malunga namadama amazinyo)

Ungayigcina iblukhwe yakho okanye ipanty yakho ivuliwe. “[Azinabungqina] bolwelo kodwa ukunxiba umzantsi kuyawunciphisa umngcipheko,” utshilo. "Olunye ukhetho kukuya kusila esinqeni ngesinqeni kunokuba kugaywe amalungu okuzala."

Ngaba ukujikeleza kwakho kwisikere kubandakanya ipeni ehamba kwilungu lobufazi? Ukuba kunjalo, ukukhulelwa kunokwenzeka. Thatha amanyathelo okhuseleko ayimfuneko ukuba ukudala umntu omncinci ayisosiphumo osilungiseleleyo. (Idibeneyo: Ulufumana njani olona lawulo lubalaseleyo lokuzalwa kwakho)

12. Isikisi sisenokungasebenzi kuwe.

"Kumava am kunye nophando lwam, abantu abaninzi abayithandi isikere," utshilo uStewart. Abantu abane-vulvas ebonakala kancinci, ejonge ngasemva-intsingiselo, i-vulva yabo i-angled ngakumbi ngasemva komzimba-ngakumbi, bathambekele ekungonwabelweni sisini sesini. Ijiyometri yetyala: I-engile iyenza ibe trickier ukubavuselela ukusuka kwindawo yesiko yokutshixa ngesondo. (Ukuqonda ngcono ii-angles ze-vulva ezahlukeneyo, chitha ixesha usebenzisa i-Great Wall Of Vagina.)

UCarly S. uyavuma ukuba ukunqunqa akusoloko kunokwenzeka okanye kukhululeka ngokwasemzimbeni; Ukuhamba, amandla, kunye nokumila komzimba kunokuba nefuthe nokuba ngaba umntu ofuna ulonwabo ngumlandeli.

"Ndingummeli wokuzama izinto nokuba kukathathu," utshilo uStewart. "Ukuba emva koko awukasonwabeli eso sikhundla, kusenokufuneka uzinze ukuba asiyonto yakho kwaye oko kulungile. Zininzi ezinye iindlela onokukhetha kuzo, kubandakanywa ukuhlikihla izitho zakho zangasese ethangeni leqabane lakho, ukugoba iindawo ezahlukeneyo zabo. umzimba, nokunye okuninzi. "

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