Ungamfundisa njani umntwana wakho omncinci ukuba athethe

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• Uphuhliso lolwimi ukusuka kwiinyanga ezi-0 ukuya kwezingama-36
• Iinyanga ezi-0 ukuya kwezi-6
• Iinyanga ezi-7 ukuya kwezi-12
• Iinyanga ezili-13 ukuya kwezi-18
• Iinyanga ezingama-19 ukuya kuma-36
• Ungamfundisa njani umntwana wakho ukuthetha?
• Fundani kunye
• Sebenzisa intetho yezandla
• Sebenzisa ulwimi nanini na kunokwenzeka
• Yeka intetho yabantwana
• Chaza izinto
• Yandisa kwiimpendulo zabo
• Nika umntwana wakho ukhetho
• Nciphisa ixesha lesikrini
• Kuthekani ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci akathethi?
• Yise kude

Ukususela ngexesha lokuzalwa komntwana wakho uya kwenza izandi ezininzi. Oku kubandakanya ukukhala, ukugcuma, kwaye kunjalo, ukulila. Kwaye emva koko, rhoqo ngamanye amaxesha ngaphambi kokuphela konyaka wabo wokuqala, umntwana wakho uya kuthetha igama labo lokuqala.

Nokuba ligama lokuqala elithi "mama," dada, "okanye enye into, eli lixesha elibalulekileyo kunye nexesha elinomdla kuwe. Kodwa njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula, usenokuzibuza ukuba ingaba izakhono zabo zolwimi zithelekiswa njani nabantwana abakwiminyaka efanayo.

Ukucaca, abantwana bafunda ukuthetha ngezantya ezahlukeneyo. Ke ukuba usana lwakho luthetha kade kunomntakwenu omdala, ngekhe kubekho nto ixhalabisayo. Kwangelo xesha, nangona kunjalo, kuyanceda ukuqonda amanyathelo oqobo olwimi. Ngale ndlela, unokukhetha kwimicimbi yophuhliso kwangoko. Inyani yile, abanye abantwana bafuna uncedo olongezelelekileyo xa befunda ukuthetha.

Eli nqaku liza kuxoxa ngamanqwanqwa olwimi oluqhelekileyo, kunye nemisebenzi embalwa yokonwabisa ukukhuthaza intetho.

Uphuhliso lolwimi ukusuka kwiinyanga ezi-0 ukuya kwezingama-36

Nangona abantwana abasakhulayo bekhulisa izakhono zolwimi ngokuthe ngcembe, banxibelelana kwasekuqaleni kokuzalwa kwabo.

Iinyanga ezi-0 ukuya kwezi-6

Akuqhelekanga ukuba umntwana oneminyaka engama-0 ukuya kwezi-6 ubudala enze izandi zokukhala kunye nezandi zokubetha. Kwaye kule minyaka, banako nokuqonda ukuba uyathetha. Baya kuhlala bejika iintloko zabo kwicala lamazwi okanye izandi.

Njengoko bafunda ukuqonda ulwimi kunye nonxibelelwano, kuya kuba lula kubo ukuba balandele umkhombandlela, baphendule kwigama labo, kwaye ngokwenene, bathethe igama labo lokuqala.

Iinyanga ezi-7 ukuya kwezi-12

Ngokwesiqhelo, iintsana ezineminyaka esixhenxe ukuya kwi-12 iinyanga zinokuqonda amagama alula njengo "hayi." Banokusebenzisa izijekulo ukunxibelelana, kwaye banokuba nesigama esimalunga negama elinye ukuya kwamathathu, nangona bengenako ukuthetha amagama abo okuqala bade bagqibe u-1.

Iinyanga ezili-13 ukuya kwezi-18

Malunga neenyanga ezili-13 ukuya kwezili-18, isigama esincinci singakhula siye kwi-10 ukuya kuma-20 + amagama. Ngeli xesha ke baqala ukuphindaphinda amagama (ke jonga into oyithethayo). Banokuyiqonda imiyalelo elula efana "nokukhetha isihlangu," kwaye banokuchaza ngokuqinisekileyo izicelo ezithile.

Iinyanga ezingama-19 ukuya kuma-36

Kwiminyaka eyi-19 ukuya kwi-24 yeenyanga, isigama esincinci sikhule saya kuma-50 ukuya kumagama ali-100. Banokuthiya izinto ezinje ngamalungu omzimba kunye nabantu abaqhelekileyo. Banokuqala ukuthetha ngamabinzana amafutshane okanye izivakalisi.

Ngeli xesha umntwana wakho omncinci eneminyaka emi-2 ukuya kwemi-3 ubudala, banokuba nesigama samagama angama-250 okanye nangaphezulu. Banokubuza imibuzo, bacele izinto, kwaye balandele imigaqo eneenkcukacha.

Ungamfundisa njani umntwana wakho ukuthetha?

Ewe iminyaka yobudala apha ngasentla isisikhokelo nje. Inyani yile, abanye abantwana abancinci bathatha izakhono zolwimi kamva kunabanye. Oku akuthethi ukuba kukho ingxaki.

Nangona umntwana wakho eza kuthi abambe izakhono zolwimi ngaxa lithile, kuninzi onokukwenza okwangoku ukukhuthaza intetho kunye nokunceda ukuphucula izakhono zabo zolwimi.

Fundani kunye

Ukufundela umntwana wakho - kangangoko kunokwenzeka yonke imihla - yenye yezona zinto zibalaseleyo onokuzenza ukukhuthaza ukukhula kolwimi. Olunye uphononongo luka-2016 lufumanise ukuba abantwana bavezwa kwisigama esibanzi ngokubafundela iincwadi zemifanekiso kunokuva intetho yabantu abadala.

Ngapha koko, ngophando lwango-2019, ukufunda incwadi enye yonke imihla kunokutolika ukuba abantwana bavezwe amagama angama-1.4 ezigidi kunabo bantwana abangafundelwa enkulisa!

Sebenzisa intetho yezandla

Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ube uyazi kakuhle intetho yezandla ukuze ufundise umntwana wakho iimpawu ezimbalwa ezisisiseko.

Uninzi lwabazali bafundise abantwana babo kunye nabantwana abasabhadabhanya indlela yokutyikitya amagama anjengokuthi "ngaphezulu," "ubisi" nokuthi "kwenziwe konke." Abantwana abancinci bahlala bebamba ulwimi lwesibini ngokulula kunabantu abadala. Oku kunokubavumela ukuba banxibelelane kwaye baziveze besebancinci.

Uza kutyikitya igama "ngaphezulu," ngelixa uthetha igama ngaxeshanye. Yenza oku ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuze umntwana wakho afunde umqondiso, kwaye adibanise igama kunye nalo.

Ukunika umntwana wakho omncinci amandla okuchaza izimvo zakhe ngentetho yezandla kunokubanceda bazive bezithembile kunxibelelwano lwabo. Ukubanceda banxibelelane nonxunguphalo oluncinci kunokunceda ukudala imeko-bume engcono yokufunda ulwimi ngakumbi.

Sebenzisa ulwimi nanini na kunokwenzeka

Ngenxa yokuba umntwana wakho engakwazi ukuthetha akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uhlale uthule yonke imini. Okukhona uthetha kwaye uziveze, kokukhona kuya kuba lula ukuba umntwana wakho afunde ulwimi esemncinci.

Ukuba utshintsha i-diaper yakho encinci, landela okanye uchaze into oyenzayo. Bazise ngemini yakho, okanye uthethe ngayo nayiphi na enye into ethi qatha engqondweni. Qiniseka ukuba usebenzisa amagama alula kunye nezivakalisi ezifutshane xa kunokwenzeka.

Unokukhuthaza kwakhona ukuthetha ngokufundela umntwana wakho omncinci xa usiya kusuku lwakho. Unokufunda iresiphi ngelixa upheka kunye. Okanye ukuba uyakonwabela ukuhamba ujikeleze ubumelwane bakho, funda imiqondiso yesitalato njengoko usondela kubo.

Unokumculela umntwana wakho - mhlawumbi eyona nto bayithandayo. Ukuba abanayo, cula ingoma oyithandayo.

Yeka intetho yabantwana

Ngelixa lithandeka xa abantwana besebenzisa amagama ngokungachanekanga okanye basebenzise intetho yabantwana, bayekele. Sukuziva ngathi ufuna ukuzilungisa, phendula nje ngokusetyenziswa ngokufanelekileyo. Umzekelo, ukuba omncinci wakho ukubuza ukuba "bunnet" ihempe yakhe, unokuthi "Ewe, ndiza kuyicofa iqhosha."

Chaza izinto

Abanye abantwana abaselula baya kwalatha kwinto abayifunayo endaweni yokuyicela. Into onokuyenza kukusebenza njengomtoliki womntwana wakho kwaye ubancede baqonde amagama ezinto ezithile.

Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci ukhombe kwikomityi yejusi, phendula ngokuthi, “Ijusi. Ufuna ijusi? ” Injongo kukukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba athethe igama elithi "ijusi." Ke kwixesha elizayo xa befuna into yokusela, endaweni yokwalatha nje, bakhuthaze ukuba bathethe elona gama.

Yandisa kwiimpendulo zabo

Enye indlela yokwandisa isigama somntwana wakho kukwandisa iimpendulo zabo. Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho ubona inja kwaye athi igama "inja," ungaphendula ngokuthi, "Ewe, inja enkulu, emdaka."

Ungasebenzisa le ndlela xa umntwana wakho ewisa amagama kwisivakalisi. Umntwana wakho unokuthi, "inja inkulu." Unokwandisa oku ngokuphendula, "Inja inkulu."

Nika umntwana wakho ukhetho

Unokukhuthaza unxibelelwano ngokunika umntwana wakho ukhetho. Masithi uneejusi ezimbini kwaye ufuna ukuba umntwana wakho akhethe phakathi kwencindi yeorenji kunye nejusi yeapile. Ungabuza umntwana wakho omncinci, "Ufuna iorenji, okanye ufuna iapile?"

Ukuba umntwana wakho ukhomba okanye ushukumisa impendulo yakhe, bakhuthaze ukuba basebenzise amagama abo.

Nciphisa ixesha lesikrini

Kufunyenwe ukuba ukwanda kwexesha lescreen kwizixhobo zemithombo yeendaba eziphathwayo kunxulunyaniswa nokulibaziseka kolwimi kwiinyanga ezili-18 ubudala. Iingcali zibonisa ukusebenzisana nabanye-hayi ukujonga kwiscreen-yeyona nto ilungele ukukhula kolwimi.

IAmerican Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) ayikhuthazi ngaphezulu kweyure e-1 yexesha lesikrini ngemini kubantwana abaneminyaka emi-2 ukuya kwemi-5, kunye nexesha elincinci labantwana abancinci.

Kuthekani ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci akathethi?

Kodwa nokuba wenza le mizamo yokwenza ukuba umntwana wakho athethe, banokuba nobunzima kunxibelelwano lomlomo. Iimpawu zokulibaziseka kolwimi kunokubandakanya:

• andithethi ngeminyaka emi-2
• unengxaki ekulandeleni umkhombandlela
• ubunzima bokuhlanganisa isivakalisi
• Isigama esilinganiselweyo kwiminyaka yabo

Ukuba unenkxalabo, thetha nogqirha wabantwana bomntwana wakho. Izinto ezinokubangela ukulibaziseka kolwimi kunokubandakanya ukukhubazeka kwengqondo kunye nokungeva kakuhle. Ukulibaziseka kolwimi kunokuba ngumqondiso we-autism spectrum disorder.

Umntwana wakho unokufuna uvavanyo olubanzi ukunceda ukufumanisa unobangela. Oku kunokubandakanya ukudibana nengcali yezifo zentetho, ugqirha wezengqondo womntwana, kwaye mhlawumbi ugqirha wezandi. Ezi ngcali zinokuchonga ingxaki zize zicebise izisombululo zokunceda umntwana wakho ahlangane neziganeko eziphambili zolwimi.

Yise kude

Ukuva igama lokuqala lomntwana wakho lixesha elinomdla, kwaye njengoko bekhula, usenokuba nemincili efanayo kubo ukuba balandele umkhombandlela kwaye babeke izivakalisi kunye. Ewe ewe, kuyadimaza xa umntwana wakho omncinci engafiki kwezi zibalulekileyo njengoko ubulindele.

Kodwa nokuba umntwana wakho uhlangabezana nokulibaziseka kolwimi, oku akusoloko kubonisa ingxaki enkulu. Khumbula, abantwana bakhulisa izakhono zolwimi ngezantya ezahlukeneyo. Ukuba unayo nayiphi na inkxalabo okanye uziva ukuba kukho umba osisiseko, thetha nogqirha wabantwana njengothintelo.