Andizithandi iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga zamayeza am oxhalabileyo. Ndingenza ntoni?

Umxholo

• Umbuzo: Ugqirha wam undinike amayeza woxinzelelo lwam, kodwa andiyithandi indlela iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga ezindenza ndizive ngayo. Ngaba lukhona olunye unyango endinokulwenza endaweni yoko?

Ukuba iziphumo zakho zecala azinyamezeleki, ungakhathazeki - unokhetho oluninzi.

Umzekeliso kaRuth Basagoitia

Umbuzo: Ugqirha wam undinike amayeza woxinzelelo lwam, kodwa andiyithandi indlela iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga ezindenza ndizive ngayo. Ngaba lukhona olunye unyango endinokulwenza endaweni yoko?

Amayeza oxinzelelo eza neziphumo ebezingalindelekanga ezahlukeneyo, kwaye umntu ngamnye usabela ngokwahlukileyo. Kodwa, ukuba iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga azinyamezeleki, ungakhathazeki - {textend} unokhetho oluninzi. Okokuqala, zama ukuthetha nogqirha wakho kwaye banokukunika amayeza ahlukileyo.

Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuzama enye into, uphononongo lucebisa ukuba unyango lokuziphatha kwengqondo luyindlela efanelekileyo yokunyanga uxinzelelo.

Ngokusebenza nengcali yengqondo eqeqeshiweyo, uya kufunda indlela yokuhluza iingcinga zakho, iimvakalelo kunye nokuziphatha ngendlela evelisa ngakumbi. Ukuqala, unokufunda indlela yokujongana neengcinga zakho ezixhalabisayo, kwaye ugqirha wakho unokukufundisa neendlela zokuphumla ukuze uncede uqulethe uxinzelelo lwakho.

Kwakhona, uphando lubonisa ukuba ukusebenza komzimba kunokunciphisa iimpawu zoxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo, ngakumbi xa zisetyenziswa ngokudibeneyo nonyango lwengqondo.

Ukuzivocavoca okunjengeyoga kunye nokuhamba kunokuba luncedo ngakumbi kuba bayaziwa ukunceda kulawulo loxinzelelo ngokuzola inkqubo yeemvakalelo yomzimba.

Ukuphulaphula umculo nako kunokunceda. Umculo lolunye lweendlela ezindala zamayeza, kwaye kuyo yonke le minyaka abaphandi bafumanise ukuba ukudlala isixhobo, ukumamela umculo, kunye nokucula kunokunceda ekunyangeni izifo zomzimba kunye neemvakalelo ngokunyusa impendulo yomzimba yokuphumla.

Ngokufana nonyango lwengqondo, unyango lomculo luza ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kunye nobukhulu. Abanye abantu bakhetha iminyhadala yonyango lomculo weqela, ebanjelwa kwizitudiyo zeyoga nakwiicawe ekuhlaleni. Abanye banokusebenza umntu nomnye nonyango lomculo oluqeqeshiweyo. Ukuvela nje kwii-earbuds zakho kunye nokumamela ii-tunes zakho ozithandayo kunokunceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo.

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