Ngaba Kuyenzeka ukuba Guy Ubudoda Ubukhulu ukuba Too Big?

Umxholo

• Uphengululo lwe

Xa kuziwa ekuthetheni smack kunye nobukhulu be-egos kwigumbi lokutshixa labafana, ubungakanani bepenisi yenye indlela yokuba abafana bazive ngathi bakwindawo ephezulu (okanye ezantsi) yepakethi. Kodwa intetho yakudala ethi "ubungakanani bemicimbi" ayinangxaki xa isiza kwigumbi lokulala-ngapha koko, kunjalo abanokukwenza ngento abanayo, akunjalo?

Nantso indlela Ubume sexpert UGqirha Logan Levkoff uziva-ngakumbi xa kufikwa kumfana ukuba "mkhulu kakhulu." Ukuba uyi Isini kunye neSixeko fan, usenokuba idanyaza emva episode ethile xa Samantha (owayenesabelo sakhe esifanelekileyo sleepovers kunye nabafana bazo zonke iimilo kunye nobukhulu) ayikwazanga ukusingatha ethile "uMnu. Too-Big." Ukuba oko ubunoloyiko lombono wabafana be-monster-size apho isondo besiya kuba njalo hayi sebenza, kukho iindaba ezimnandi: uLevkoff uthi ngenene kuyenzeka ukuba usebenze. (Ukuthetha ngeengxaki zontanga, ubusazi ukuba kunokwenzeka ukwaphula ipipi?)

Kwenye, into enkulu kakhulu kumntu omnye isenokungakulungeli omnye umntu, utshilo uLevkoff.Kwaye, kunye ne-avareji yobungakanani bepipi ebetha malunga ne-5.2 intshi mhlawumbi uyakulunga ngayo nantoni na ezayo ngendlela yakho. Kodwa ukuba incanca yeqabane lakho inkulu kancinane ukuze ukhululeke, kukho amanyathelo amane angundoqo okwenza ukuba isebenze: ukuchitha ixesha kwi-foreplay (kuba xa uvukile, isondo lakho liba lide kwaye libe banzi), usebenzisa ilube (yeyakho. I-BFF kule meko), ubuchule malunga nezikhundla zakho zokwabelana ngesondo, ukuphumla, kunye nokubaluleke kakhulu-ukuthetha neqabane lakho malunga nalo. (Woyikeka? Nasi isikhokelo sikaLevkoff sendlela yokuthetha neqabane lakho malunga nento oyifunayo ebhedini.)

Uphengululo lwe