UJen Selter uvule malunga nokuba "nohlaselo olukhulu lokuxhalaba" kwiPlani

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Umkhuthazi wokuqina komzimba uJen Selter akadli ngokukwabelana ngeenkcukacha ngobomi bakhe ngaphaya komthambo kunye nokuhamba. Kule veki, nangona kunjalo, unike abalandeli bakhe umbono ocacileyo wamava akhe noxinzelelo.

NgoLwesithathu, uSelter uthumele i-selfie enenyembezi kwiBali lakhe le-Instagram. Apha ngezantsi komfanekiso, ubhale ukuba "wayenengxaki yokuhlaselwa ngoxinzelelo" ngaphambi kokuhamba ngenqwelomoya.

Andiqinisekanga ncam ukuba ibangelwe yintoni (andoyiki ukubhabha), ubhale watsho. "Into endiyaziyo kukuba impilo yengqondo yinto ekufuneka siyithethile NGOKUVulekile." (Idibeneyo: Abadumileyo abayi-9 abaVolayo malunga neMicimbi yeMpilo yeNgqondo)

Ngaphandle kweposi ye-blog ye-2017 malunga nendlela yokuyeka ukukhathazeka kunye ne-tweet ngamaxesha athile malunga nokuxhalaba, u-Selter akafane axoxe ngempilo yengqondo kumaqonga akhe.

Kodwa ngoku, "uyaqonda ukuba [imiba yezempilo yengqondo] ayisiyonto ihlazo, ihlazo, okanye indiphathe kakubi," ubhale kwi Instagram Story yakhe. "Ukuxhalaba yinto endikhe ndajongana nayo." (Inxulumene: Kutheni kufuneka uyeke ukuthi unexhala ukuba awunayo ngokwenene)

USelter uchaze ukuba khange abenalo uhlaselo loxinzelelo "ngexeshana." Kodwa la mava amva ngathi "kukuvuka komnxeba wokuba ndifuna ukufumana uncedo neengcebiso malunga nendlela endinokoyisa ngayo kwaye ndikwazi ukumelana noku," ubhale watsho. "Kwaye KULUNGILE!!! Kulungile ukucela uncedo," wongezelela.

I-ICYDK, uhlaselo loxinzelelo lwenzeka xa ukhathazekile malunga nomsitho wexesha elizayo kwaye "ulindele isiphumo esibi," uRick Warren, Ph.D., unjingalwazi onxulumene nonyango lwezonyango kwiYunivesithi yaseMichigan, ucacisile ngeposi kwibhlog eyunivesithi. "Idla ngokubandakanyeka kunye nokunyanzeliswa kwemisipha kunye nokuziva ngokubanzi kokungakhululeki. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kuza ngokuthe ngcembe."

Nangona uhlaselo lokuxhalaba luvakala lufana nohlaselo loloyiko, alufani ncam. Uhlaselo loloyiko lwahlukile. Inxulunyaniswa nesiqalo esikhulu soloyiko olukhulu ngenxa yoloyiko olwenzekayo ngoku, impendulo yokulwa-okanye-yokubhabha esinzima ukuba nayo ukuze sijongane nengozi kwangoko. Iseta loo alarm, utshilo uGqirha Warren. (Nazi ezinye iimpawu zokulumkisa xa kufuneka uhlaselwe).

USelter wachaza ngeBali lakhe le-IG kwinqaku lamva kokondla kwakhe okuphambili: “Ixhala yinto ebendisokola nayo ukusukela kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo kwaye ngelishwa ngoku lelona libi kakhulu kwakha kwakho,” wabhala. "Amaxesha afana nala andikhumbuza indlela ekubaluleke ngayo ukuba ndisebenzise iqonga lam ukufundisa nokuzisa ingqalelo kwizihloko ezifana nebala elijikeleze impilo yengqondo."

Akululanga ukwabelana ngezi zihlandlo zobomi bakho ziphantse nabantu abazizigidi ezili-13. Enkosi, Jen, ngokusibonisa ukuba sisesichengeni amandla.

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