UJameela Jamil urhuqa abantu abadumileyo ngokuKhuthaza iiMveliso zokuLahla kobunzima obungenampilo.
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Xa kufikwa kwiifashoni zokuncipha kobunzima, uJameela Jamil akakho nje apha. I Indawo elungileyo Umdlali weqonga kutshanje uthathe i-Instagram ukugxeka uKhloé Kardashian ngokukhuthaza "iti esiswini esisicaba" kubalandeli bakhe kwisithuba se-IG esisuswe ngoku. “Ndiyayithanda indlela esikhangeleka ngayo isisu sam ngoku nina bafana,” wabhala. "Ndizise [oku] ukutshintshwa kwesidlo endaweni yesiqhelo kwiiveki ezimbini ezidlulileyo kwaye inkqubela ayinakuphikiswa."
U-Jamil, obekhe wavula ngaphambili malunga nendlela amayeza kunye nezongezelelo zokutya ezimbangele ngayo ukwetyisa kwakhe kunye neengxaki zemetabolism, wagqiba kwelokuba akazukuyiyeka le ihambe. "Ukuba awukhathali kakhulu ukuba ... ungowakho kwinto yokuba unomqeqeshi wobuqu, ingcali yezondlo, mhlawumbi umpheki, kunye nogqirha wotyando ukufezekisa ubuhle bakho, kunokuba le mveliso ye-laxative ... ke ndicinga ukuba kufuneka, "Ubhale kumagqabantshintshi ngeposti kaKardashian, esele icinyiwe kwi-Instagram feed yakhe. (Idibeneyo: UJameela Jamil Uveze nje ukuba une-Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome)
Ukuthengisa okukhohlisayo ecaleni, uJamil ukwaphawule ukuba imveliso eyonyuselweyo nguKardashian ayivunywanga yi-FDA kwaye ineziphumo ebezingalindelekanga kubandakanya ukubamba, iintlungu zesisu, urhudo, kunye nokuphelelwa ngamanzi emzimbeni. “Kuyoyikeka kakhulu ukuba eli shishini likungcungcuthekise de ube ulungele inkangeleko yakho,” ubhale watsho uJamil. "Leyo yimpazamo yamajelo eendaba. Kodwa ngoku nceda ungayibeki loo nto kwakhona emhlabeni, kwaye wenzakalisa amanye amantombazana, ngendlela oye walimala ngayo. Ungumfazi okrelekrele. Yiba nengqondo kunale."
Esi ayisosihlandlo sokuqala uJamil eze kusapho lakwaKardashian-Jenner. Kunyaka ophelileyo, wagxeka uKim Kardashian West ngokuthumela i-#ad ye-lollipop "yokuxinzelela ukutya". Inyani yeTV yinkwenkwezi yabelana ngesithombe kwi-Instagram apho yabonwa ifunxa i-Flat Tummy Co lollipop, eyachaza kwi-caption ngokuthi "ngokoqobo ayinyani." (Eyeleleneyo: Ngaba iindlela zokuTya ku-Instagram ziyonakalisa ukutya kwakho?)
I-ICYDK, i-KKW idume kakubi ngeengcebiso zempilo eziphakamisa amashiya ngezithuba ezixhasiweyo-uyakhumbula yonke into elele kwi-corset ngaphambi komtshato wayo? Kodwa okwangoku, yayiyintshukumo emangazayo xa ucinga ukuba inkwenkwezi ibonakala ngathi isukile kulungiso lokwehla kobunzima kwaye yajika yajolisa ekwabelaneni nomsebenzi wakhe onzima kwindawo yokuzivocavoca kunye nomqeqeshi wayo.
Emva kokufumana iitoni zokubuyela umva kubalandeli, isithuba saye sathotywa. Kodwa hayi ngaphambi kokuba uJamil athathe umfanekiso weskrini.
Ufake umfanekiso wakhe ku-Twitter kunye ne-tweet eyosiwe ngomlilo echaza indlela ekungeyompilo ngayo kumntu ofikelela njenge-KKW's ukukhuthaza ukungatyi. UJamil utyhola uKardashian West ngokuba "yimpembelelo eyoyikisayo nenetyhefu kumantombazana amancinci."
"Ndiyabancoma ubuchule boomama bokumakisha, ungumntu oxhaphazayo kodwa okrelekrele," uqhubeke watsho. "Nangona kunjalo, olu sapho lundenza ndizive ndiphelelwe lithemba malunga noko abafazi bancitshiselwa kuko."
Emva kwexesha, uJamil wagxotha enye i-tweet esithi: "KUNGENZEKA ungathathi cinezeli lokutya kwaye utye ngokwaneleyo ukuze uphembelele UBuchopho bakho kwaye usebenze nzima kwaye uphumelele. Kwaye udlale nabantwana bakho. Kwaye wonwabe nabahlobo bakho. Kwaye ube nento yithi ngobomi bakho ekugqibeleni, ngaphandle kokuba 'ndandisisisu esisicaba.'
Emva kweenyanga kuthe cwaka ngokugxekwa nguJamil, usapho lukaKardashian-Jenner luye lwenza njalo ekugqibeleni wavuma impikiswano-uhlobo lwe. Kutshanje bahlala phantsi kudliwanondlebe neqela INew York Times, kwaye xa kwavela ukungqubeka kwincoko, umhlekazi uKris Jenner wathi, "Andihlali kuloo ndawo inamandla amabi. Iipesenti ezingama-90 zabantu ziya konwaba ngokwenene malunga nosapho kunye nohambo kwaye singobani."
U-Khloé wamnika iisenti ezimbini kwinyama yenkomo phakathi kukaJamil kunye nosapho, exelela INew York Times ukuba "akazange abe nompheki" kwaye uhlala ebeka iindlela zakhe zokuzilolonga kubalandeli bakhe kwi-Snapchat. “Mamela, ndikubonisa into omawuyenze, mntu usileyo, ukuphindaphinda izihlandlo ezili-15, kathathu, nantsi intshukumo,” ucacisile, kwaye akucaci ukuba wayebhekisa kubani xa wayesithi “umntu osisidenge.”
I-KKW emva koko yangena ngaphakathi kwaye ishwankathela into ebonakala ngathi iyimbono yosapho lwakhe xa kukhuthazwa ezi ntlobo zeemveliso. " ngamathuba emisebenzi afanayo, ndicinga ukuba bangacinga, "uxelele INew York Times. "Uza kubuyela umva phantse kuyo yonke into ngokude uyithande okanye ukholelwe kuyo okanye kufanelekile ngokwezezimali, nokuba sithini isigqibo sakho, ukuba nje ulungile naloo nto."
Nje ukuba uJamil afunde into ethethwe ngabakwaKardashian-Jenners INew York Times, Uye kwi-Instagram evakalisa ukudana kwakhe ngempendulo yosapho-okanye, eneneni, ukusilela kwayo. “AbakwaKardashians kufuneka bajonge iikhampasi zabo zokuziphatha kuba zibonakala ngathi zaphukile,” wabhala uJamil.
Ngelishwa, iiKardashians ayizizo zodwa uludwe oluneempazamo ekukhuthazeni iimveliso ezilahlekileyo ezinobunzima. Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, rapper Cardi B wabelane ngevidiyo ekhuthaza iti yedetox kwinkampani ethile. Kuyabonakala ukuba, le mveliso yanceda ukuthintela ukutya kwakhe kwaye yehlisa ubunzima emva kokuba ezele intombi yakhe uKulture. Kwiposi, uCardi wabelana ngekhowudi kubalandeli bakhe, ebabongoza ukuba bayisebenzise ukuthenga imveliso yokuphulukana nobunzima ngoLwesihlanu omnyama ngexabiso lesaphulelo, oko kuthetha ukuba kungenzeka ukuba wayehlawulwa ngeposi.
UJamil akazange azibambe ngelo xesha, kwaye wathumela umfanekiso-ngqondweni weposti kaCardi esithi: "Bafumene uCardi B kwityhefu ye-laxative 'detox.' Thixo, ndiyathemba ukuba bonke aba bantu badumileyo baya kuzincama iibhulukhwe zabo esidlangalaleni njengoko benzayo abafazi abangathathi ntweni abathenga obu buvuvu ngokucetyiswa kwabo. Hayi ukuba bayithatha le kaka. Basuka bayibetha kuba befuna imali ethe chatha.
Kungekudala ngaphambi kokuba uCardi abambe umoya we-tweet kaJamil kwaye wakhawuleza waphendula. "Andisoze ndayihlutha iblukhwe yam ibangela ukuba kubekho izindlu zangasese zikawonke-wonke .... ooo namatyholo, utshilo kwingxelo eyabelwe iakhawunti yabalandeli. Kodwa akazange akhanyele ukuba iti, eneneni, inokukhokelela ekubeni abantu bachithe iiyure kwigumbi lokuhlambela-into ephawulwe nguJamil nayo.
"Ngokubhekisele kwimpendulo yakhe: akasokuze akoyike ibhulukhwe yakhe, hayi ngenxa yamatyholo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ngekhe athathe iimveliso azikhuthazayo," utshilo uJamil kwitwitter elandelayo. Uye wachaza ukuba kusenokwenzeka ukuba uCardi wayengazange ave ngemveliso ngaphambi kokuba enze ividiyo. "Ngexesha levidiyo yakhe yokuthengisa, uhlala ejonge igama lemveliso kwindebe ... phantse ngathi akazange ayibone," wabhala uJamil. Indawo efanelekileyo. (I-intanethi yindawo eyoyikisayo namhlanje, bantu.)
Kubonakala ngathi ubundlongondlongo phakathi kukaCardi noJamil buphele apho, kodwa zonke ezi ngxoxo zikhathazayo kunye nezomlilo ziye zavelisa into entle ngakumbi. UJamil uhlala ekhuthaza abantu basetyhini ukuba babhiyozele into yokuba ubomi babo kunye nokuzithemba kwabo kunesisindo esingaphezulu kunalo naliphi na inani kwisikali-isibongozo esifumene isixa esikhulu sempendulo. (Idibeneyo: UJameela Jamil Ufuna ukuba wazi ukuba ungaphezulu nje kokuba sisiThuthi soVavanyo lokuTya kwabaDumileyo)
Kukho ngoku i-akhawunti yonke ye-Instagram enikezelwe kwintshukumo ebizwa ngokuba yi-i_weigh, ebonisa abafazi ukwabelana ngendlela abalinganisa ngayo ixabiso labo. Umchithi: Ayinamsebenzi nokuba bangakanani ubunzima ngokobungakanani, okanye ubungakanani bejee yabo. (Idibeneyo: UKatie Willcox Ufuna ukuba wazi ukuba uninzi kakhulu kunoko ubona kwi-Mirror)
Kunye noJamil, abanye abantu abadumileyo kunye nabaphembeleli bathethe ngokuchasene nokunyusa kukaKim K, ngakumbi. UKatie Willcox, umyili we-Healthy Is a New Skinny movement, wenyusa isithuba esinempikiswano ngelixa wayethetha nabafundi eCal Poly Pomona, isikolo sobugcisa. Ngexesha lentetho yakhe, waqhula malunga nendlela uKim K ambethe ngayo ukuze abhengeze i-lollipop yakhe ekhethekileyo ezisa ukunyamezela kwakho ubuvuvu ukuya kuthi ga kwi-zero. (Uphinde wathetha nathi mva nje malunga nendlela "iimodeli ezinobungakanani obuphakathi" ezishiywe ngaphandle kwentshukumo yomzimba.)
"Ndisebenza neengcali ndisungula i-lollipop entsha yokucinezela inkunzi," ubhale watsho ku-Instagram ecaleni kwevidiyo athetha ngayo. "Kuyamangalisa! Akugcini nje ukuzisa ukunyamezela kwakho i-bullshit ephantsi ngokwenene, kukuvumela ukuba uzicingele ngokwakho endaweni yokulandela ngokungaboniyo abantu kumajelo angenamdla wakho entliziyweni!"
Uqhubekile ngokwabelana ngendlela ekubaluleke ngayo ukuba neengxoxo ezinzulu malunga neendaba "kunye nefuthe layo eliyingozi kwingqondo yethu, injongo, kunye nempilo yethu yonke kunye nokuphila kakuhle."
Ekupheleni kosuku, xa kufikwa kuKhloe Kardashian, KKW okanye uCardi B, into wonke umntu anokuvumelana ngayo kukuba isikali esisisiyali akufuneki sinyanzelise iimvakalelo zakho zokuzixabisa.