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Wonke umntu (ewe, nkqu nomfo wakho) uneziphene zakhe-kwaye nokuba uhambelana kangakanani na nomntu, ubudlelwane bunokuba ngumsebenzi onzima. Nobabini ninyanzelekile ukuba niqhubele omnye nomnye rhoqo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ekugqibeleni uthando luthanda inqwaba yezi zinto zicaphukisayo (yile nto bayithethayo, akunjalo?), Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kukho imikhwa ethile esingenakukwazi ukuyiphatha. Enyanisweni, izolo, inkampani ye-e-cigarette Indawo yokuPhuma ikhuphe iziphumo zovavanyo olunomdla olucokise kwinto ebangela ukuba abantu baphawule xa kufikwa kulowo uza kuba liqabane lomtshato.

Emva kokuvota abantu abayi-1,000 XNUMX, uphando lufumanise ukuba iimpendulo zamadoda nabasetyhini zazihambelana. Yeyiphi isiqabu esikhulu, ngaphandle kokuba wena okanye indoda yakho inokuchonga enye okanye ngaphezulu kwezintlanu eziphezulu "iimpawu ezinqwenelekayo" ezichongwe zizo zombini izini. Xa kufikwa kumanenekazi, iipesenti ezingama-83 zathi ukungathembeki yinto enqwenelekayo, elandelwa lucoceko olubi (iipesenti ezingama-68), ukungabikho kwemisebenzi (iipesenti ezingama-64), ukutshaya (iipesenti ezingama-57), kunye nokungakhathali kwezemali (iipesenti ezingama-56). Abathathi-nxaxheba baceliwe ukuba babeke ezi mpawu zinye kweziya kuthi zikhokelele kuqhawulo mtshato. Ezo mpendulo bezihlala zifana, nangona imali yenze ukutsiba okukhulu ukuya kwindawo yesibini. (I-Psst! Nayi iMithetho yeMali eli-16 wonke umntu wasetyhini amele ayazi nge-30 yobudala.)

Ngelixa uluhlu lweempawu ezingalunganga lusenokungothusi, nantsi into ethi: Kubonakala ngathi abafazi banomonde omncinci kunamadoda wezinto ezisikhathaza kakhulu. (Hei, ubuncinci siyayazi into esiyifunayo.) Ngenxa yeempawu ezinqwenelekayo, abasetyhini babengama-13 eepesenti ngakumbi amathuba okuba bazibone ezi zenzo zolwaphulo-mthetho njengabaqhekezi besivumelwano kunamadoda. Zeziphi iimpawu ongenakuma kuzo kwiqabane? Sithathe @Shape_Magazine ngeempendulo zakho!

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