ULili Reinhart wenze iNqaku eliBalulekileyo malunga neDysmorphia yomzimba

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ULili Reinhart, Riverdale Ukutyumza intombazana kunye ne-burgeoning body-positivity-real- talker, isandula ukwenza inqaku elibaluleke kakhulu malunga nokuhlazisa umzimba kwaye sinjalo. Apha. Kuba. It. (Eyeleleneyo: Amantombazana e #AerieREAL yamva nje (kubandakanya i-Reinhart) aya kukunika ukuzithemba kwisinxibo sokuqubha.)

Kwangoko kule veki, uye waya kuTwitter enomyalezo kwiitroli ze-Intanethi. Ndiziva ndidimazekile ngenxa yento yokuba abantu abaninzi besithi 'ulibhityile kwaye uzivalele ukwanga umzimba wakho.' Njengokuba umzimba wam idysmorphia ingabalulekanga ngenxa yendlela endijongeka ngayo kwabanye abantu, "ubhale watsho, ebiza abagxeki abathi akonqeni ngokwaneleyo kwaye akabhityile ngokwaneleyo ukuba anganeempawu zomzimba. HA!

Kwirekhodi: I-dysmorphia yomzimba ibonakaliswa liSiseko se-OCD samanye amazwe njengokulungiswa kweempazamo zakho ezibonakalayo ezibangela iingcinga ezigabadeleyo ngomzimba wakho odlala kwilogo entlokweni yakho. Kodwa njengoko uReinhart ebonisa, ukungakhuseleki komzimba okunciphisayo akucalucalulo ngokusekelwe kubukhulu okanye "iziphene" ezibonwayo. Ngamanye amagama, akukho nto ithi "ulunge kakhulu" okanye nantoni na ukuba ibe nomfanekiso womzimba.

Unxibelelwano lukwasebenza njengesikhumbuzo sokuba ukwenza abantu kwi-intanethi kunye ne-IRL bayeke ukuthetha ngemizimba yabanye abantu akukho lula. (Eyeleleneyo: Abasetyhini abakhuthazayo abaChaza ngokutsha iMigangatho yoMzimba.) Oku kubonisa isizathu sokuba thina ngokobuqu sitshintshe indlela esithetha ngayo ngemizimba yabasetyhini kunye nemiyalezo esemva kwephulo elithi #MindYourOwnShape. Spoiler Alert: Ukuthanda imilo yakho akumele kuthethe ukuthiya komnye umntu. Yenza eyakho indima ukusasaza ubuchule kwi-intanethi, endaweni yoko.

U-Reinhart waphetha ngokubonisa ukuba ukwenza ukungakhuseleki komntu kuyingozi ngokwenene. "Ukugula ngengqondo kuya kusiba mandundu xa abantu besithi awunalungelo lokuziva ngale ndlela uziva ngayo," ubhale watsho kuTwitter. "Usenokungakuqondi ukungazithembi komntu-kodwa uyihloniphe."

Esi ayisosihlandlo sokuqala umdlali weqonga ephoswa kwindawo yokuthetha ngomzimba. NgoMeyi, xa amahemuhemu okuba ukhulelwe aqala ukusasazeka kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo, uReinhart waqhwaba izandla ngendlela enkulu. "Lo ngumzimba wam nje," ubhale ku-Instagram. "Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndiyadumba. Ngamanye amaxesha ifoto engathandekiyo ithathwa kum. Ngamanye amaxesha ndihamba ngamaxesha apho ndityeba khona. Umzimba wam yinto endingasoze ndixolise ngayo. Ke ngoko masingafaki ixesha elininzi kunye nomzamo ukukhathalela umfanekiso womntu ongamaziyo." Amen kulonto.

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