Ukutyhafa ebantwaneni: ukuba wenzeni kunye nezizathu ezinokubakho

Umxholo

• Kwenziwe ntoni emva kokuphelelwa ngamandla
• Izizathu ezinokubangela ukuba ufe isiqaqa
• Uya nini kwagqirha

Into ekufuneka uyenzile ukuba umntwana uphume yile:

1. Beka umntwana phantsi kwaye aphakamise imilenze yakhe ubuncinci i-40 cm imizuzwana embalwa de ube ubuyela ezingqondweni;
2. Beka umntwana ecaleni ukuze angakrwitshwi, ukuba akaphulukani nokufa isiqaqa kwaye kukho umngcipheko wokuwa kolwimi;
3. Khulula iimpahla eziqinileyo ukuze umntwana akwazi ukuphefumla ngokulula;
4. Gcina umntwana wakho eshushu, bebeka iingubo okanye iimpahla phezu kwayo;
5. Shiya umlomo womntwana ungatyhilekanga kwaye uphephe ukunika into yokusela.

Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuphelelwa ngamandla kuqhelekile kwaye oko akuthethi ukuba kukho ingxaki enkulu, nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana akabuyeli ezingqondweni emva kwemizuzu emi-3, kubalulekile ukubiza inqwelo yezigulana ukuba ihlolwe ziingcali zempilo.

Kwenziwe ntoni emva kokuphelelwa ngamandla

Xa umntwana ebuyela ezingqondweni kwaye evuka, kubaluleke kakhulu ukumthoba umsindo nokumkhulisa kancinci, ukuqala ngokuhlala phantsi kuqala kwaye, kuphela emva kwemizuzu embalwa, ukuvuka.

Kungenzeka ukuba ngexesha lale nkqubo umntwana azive ediniwe kwaye engenamandla, ke kunokwenzeka ukuba ubeke iswekile encinci phantsi kolwimi ukuze inyibilike kwaye iginye, yonyuse amandla afumanekayo kwaye iququzelele ukubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo.

Ngexesha leeyure ezili-12 ezizayo kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele utshintsho kwindlela oziphethe ngayo kunye nokuya kufela. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kuya kufuneka uye esibhedlele ukuzama ukuchonga unobangela kwaye uqalise olona nyango lufanelekileyo.

Izizathu ezinokubangela ukuba ufe isiqaqa

Eyona ixhaphakileyo kukuba umntwana aphume ngenxa yokwehla koxinzelelo lwegazi, nto leyo eyenza kube nzima ukuba igazi lifike kwingqondo. Olu xinzelelo lwexinzelelo lunokwenzeka xa umntwana engaseli manzi ngokwaneleyo, edlala elangeni ixesha elide, ekwindawo evaliweyo okanye uphakame ngokukhawuleza kakhulu emva kokuhlala ixesha elide.

Ukongeza, ukuphelelwa ngamandla kunokwenzeka ngenxa yokuhla okuphawulekayo kumanqanaba eswekile yegazi, ngakumbi ukuba umntwana kudala engenako ukutya.

Ezona meko zinzima, ezinje ngobukho beenguqu kwingqondo okanye ezinye izifo ezinqabileyo zinqabile, kodwa kufuneka zivavanywe ngugqirha wabantwana okanye ugqirha wemithambo-luvo, ukuba isiqaqa senzeka rhoqo.

Uya nini kwagqirha

Nangona iimeko ezininzi zokuphelelwa ngamandla azikho nzulu kwaye zinokunyangwa ekhaya, kubalulekile ukuba uye esibhedlele ukuba umntwana wakho:

• Unobunzima bokuthetha, ukubona okanye ukuhamba;
• Unesilonda okanye umonzakalo;
• Unentlungu esifubeni kunye nentliziyo engaqhelekanga;
• Unesiqendu sokuxhuzula.

Ukongeza, ukuba umntwana wayekhuthele kakhulu kwaye wadlula ngequbuliso, kubalulekile ukuba wenze uvavanyo kugqirha wemithambo-luvo, umzekelo, ukufumanisa ukuba ngaba lukhona na utshintsho kwingqondo.