Omnye uMama wacinga ukuba kulungile ukungcungcuthekisa umqeshwa we-Cold Stone Creamery

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UJustine Elwood wayecinga ukuba lusuku nje oluqhelekileyo emsebenzini kwiCold Stone Creamery, de kwangena umthengi waqala ukuthuka uhlobo lomzimba wakhe kunye nobunzima. Kuya kusiba kubi ngakumbi: amagqabantshintshi ajolise kulo mfazi abantwana. "Ukuba unayo i-ayisi khrim eninzi, uzakufana naye," utshilo lo mfazi ngelixa esolatha kuJustine.

Ukuba isimilo esikrwada besingonelanga, umthengi uthathe isigqibo sokushiya uphononongo olungenanceba lukaYelp malunga nomqeshwa oneminyaka eli-19 osuselelweyo. Uphononongo olothusayo lufundeka ngoluhlobo: "Omnye wabafazi babo uJessie? UJennifer? J into ethile, utyebe ngokucekisekayo, kwaye sihlandlo ngasinye singena, nangona esenza umsebenzi wakhe, kwaye enembeko kakhulu, ngoko nangoko undenza ndinyamalale."

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UJustine, ongumfundi wasekholejini ofundela ukuba ngugqirha wotyando, wathi ukubona la magqabaza mabi kwamophula intliziyo.

"Ayikhe ilunge ukuva loo nto ngawe, ngokuqinisekileyo ayindenzanga ndaziva ndikulungele ngokuqinisekileyo," uxelele KTRK. "Ndothukile nje kuba ndiziva ngathi ayisiyonto ekufuneka uyithethile phambi kwabantwana. Kwaye ibingentle kakhulu. Ndiva ngathi ayisiyonto intle leyo ukufundisa abantwana bakho, kodwa kuyenzeka ndiqikelele."

Ngelishwa, ayikokokuqala uJustine egxekwa kanobom ngomzimba wakhe, esithi "Luhlobo oluthile lwento endikhe ndayenza ubomi bam bonke, ngoko ke ndiyayisebenzisa, nto leyo yoyikekayo, kodwa yinto nje endijongene nayo ubomi bam bonke. "

Kodwa ngesi sihlandlo izinto zazahlukile. Endaweni yokujongana neentloni kunye nokugculelwa eyedwa, uJustine wamangaliswa kukubona abahlali bendawo bema kwaye babonisa inkxaso yabo ngokuzisa iibhaluni kunye neentyatyambo.

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Ubelonwabile kakhulu kukuziva uthando oluninzi kwaye ujike into engathandekiyo ukuba ibe yinto elungileyo, ubhale kuFacebook. "Ndidlulile ukubulela ngothando loluntu. Ndisikelelekile."

Ngaphandle kwalo lonke uthando kunye nokuzithemba, bekukho iitroli ezimbalwa ezizama ukumhlazisa ukuze athule, esithi uzama nje ukuhoywa. Ukulwa nabazondayo, kwakhona, lo mfana waya kuFacebook ukuba achaze ukuba eli bali alikho nje ngaye. Imalunga nabo bonke abantu abanentloni zomzimba kwaye benziwe bazive belusizi ngeziqu zabo ngenxa yendlela abajongeka ngayo. (Funda: Abafazi abali-10 be-Badass abenze ngcono i-2016 ngokubetha umva kwi-Body-Shading Haters)

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“Nangona ndonwabile ukuba ndifumene inkxaso engako, bayasilela esona sizathu sokuba bendibalisa ngebali lam,” ubhale watsho.

"Andizami ngandlela zonke ukubanga ukuba 'ndandineentloni,' okanye ndizama ukufumana uvelwano kule nto. Endaweni yoko ndizama ukukwazisa ngengxaki ENKULU amadoda amaninzi, amabhinqa nabantwana abajongana nayo yonke imihla. Ubundlobongela bunegalelo kweminye imiba emininzi abantu abajongana nayo.Amagama kunye nokuxhatshazwa abantu abajamelana nako kubangela ukuba abantu bazibulale. "

“Ndibalise ngebali lam ukubonisa abanye ukuba ababodwa,” uqukumbele watsho. "Olu hlobo lwezinto lwenzeka mihla le kwabanye abantu kwaye andifuni nto yimbi ngaphandle kokunceda abantu abajongana nale nto."

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