Ukuvumelanisa kwexesha: Ngaba yinyani yokwenyani okanye iNtsomi edumileyo?

Umxholo

• Yintoni ixesha lokuvumelanisa?
• Isiphumo seMcClintock
• Kodwa luthini uphando lwangoku?
• Ukuvumelanisa nenyanga
• Kutheni le nto ukungqinelanisa ixesha kunzima ukubonisa
• Ukuthatha

Yintoni ixesha lokuvumelanisa?

Ukuvumelanisa kwexesha kuchaza inkolelo ethandwayo yokuba abasetyhini abahlala kunye okanye abachitha ixesha elininzi kunye baqala ukuba sexesheni ngosuku olunye ngenyanga.

Ukuvumelanisa kwexesha kukwabizwa ngokuba yi "synchrony yokuya exesheni" kunye ne "McClintock effect." Isekwe kwithiyori yokuba xa unxibelelana ngokwasemzimbeni nomnye umntu osexesheni, iipheromones zakho zinempembelelo komnye nomnye ukuze ekugqibeleni, imijikelo yakho yenyanga ilandelane.

Abanye abantu basetyhini bade bafunge ukuba ezinye “iimazi ze-alpha” zinokuba zezona zinto zichazayo xa onke amaqela abasetyhini esiba namaqanda kunye nokuba sexesheni.

Ngokwe-anecdotally, abantu abaya exesheni bayamkela ukuba ixesha lokuvumelanisa yinto eyenzekayo. Kodwa uncwadi lwezonyango alunayo imeko eqinileyo yokubonisa ukuba iyenzeka. Qhubeka ufunda ukuze ufumane oko sikwazi malunga nemijikelo yokuya exesheni yokuvumelanisa.

Isiphumo seMcClintock

Umbono wexesha lokuvumelanisa udlulisiwe ukusuka koomama ukuya kwiintombi zabo kwaye kwaxoxwa ngazo kwiindawo zokulala nakwizindlu zangasese zabasetyhini kangangeenkulungwane. Kodwa uluntu lwenzululwazi lwaqala ukuyithatha nzulu le ngcinga xa umphandi ogama linguMartha McClintock wenza uphando kwabasetyhini beekholeji abali-135 abahlala kwidorm kunye ukuze babone ukuba imijikelo yabo yokuya esikhathini iyahambelana na.

Olu phononongo aluzange luvavanye ezinye izinto zomjikelo, njengaxa abafazi babephuma ngaphandle, kodwa lwalandelela xa ukuphuma kwegazi ngenyanga kwabafazi. UMcClintock wagqiba kwelokuba amaxesha abantu ababhinqileyo, ayedityaniswa. Emva koko, ixesha lokuvumelanisa lalibizwa ngokuba "sisiphumo seMcClintock."

Kodwa luthini uphando lwangoku?

Ngokuyilwa kwexesha lokulandela umkhondo ii -apps ezigcina iirekhodi zedijithali zemijikelezo yabasetyhini, zininzi ngakumbi iinkcukacha ezikhoyo ngoku ukuqonda ukuba ixesha lokuvumelanisa liyinyani. Kwaye uphando olutsha aluxhasi isiphetho sokuqala sikaMcClintock.

Ngo-2006, uncwadi lwathi "abasetyhini abayihambelani imijikelo yabo yokuya exesheni." Olu phononongo luqokelele idatha ukusuka kubafazi abali-186 abahlala kumaqela kwindawo yokulala e-China. Naliphi na ixesha lokuvumelanisa elibonakala lenzeka, isifundo sigqityiwe, sasikwindawo yokuhlangana kwezibalo.

Isifundo esikhulu esenziwe yiDyunivesithi yaseOxford kunye nenkqubo yokulandela umkhondo yenkampani eyisiKhokelo yeyona nto yayiyeyona ibalulekileyo kwithiyori yokuvumelanisa kwexesha. Idatha evela kubantu abangaphezulu kwe-1,500 ibonakalise ukuba akunakulindeleka ukuba abantu basetyhini baphazamise imijikelezo yokuya exesheni ngokusondelelana.

Okuncinci kakhulu kugcina umbono wexesha lokuvumelanisa uphila ngokukhomba ukuba iipesenti ezingama-44 zabathathi-nxaxheba ababehlala nabanye abantu basetyhini banamaxesha e-synchrony. Iimpawu zexesha elifana nokuya exesheni kwemigraine zaziqhelekile nakwabasetyhini abahlala kunye. Oku kuya kubonisa ukuba abantu basetyhini banokuchaphazela amaxesha abo omnye komnye ngeendlela ezingaphaya kwexesha lokuya kwabo exesheni.

Ukuvumelanisa nenyanga

Igama elithi “sexesheni” lidibanisa amagama esiLatini nawesiGrike athetha “inyanga” nenyanga. Abantu kudala bakholelwa ukuba izingqisho zokuzala zabasetyhini zazinxulumene nomjikelo wenyanga. Kwaye kukho uphando oluthile olucebisa ukuba ixesha lakho lixhunyiwe okanye livumelanise kunye nezigaba zenyanga.

Kwisifundo esinye esidala esivela kwi-1986, sabathathi-nxaxheba bafumana ukopha ngexesha lesigaba senyanga. Ukuba le seti yedatha yabasetyhini abangama-826 ibanjelwe bonke abantu, iya kubonisa ukuba umntu om-1 kwaba-4 unexesha labo kwinyanga entsha. Nangona kunjalo, uphononongo lwamva nje olwenziwe ngo-2013 lucebisile.

Kutheni le nto ukungqinelanisa ixesha kunzima ukubonisa

Inyaniso kukuba, asinakuze sikhonkxe indlela eyinyani ngayo ixesha lokuvumelanisa, ngenxa yezizathu ezimbalwa.

Ukuvumelanisa kwexesha kuyimpikiswano kuba asazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba iipheromones apho iihenjisi zethiyori zinokuchaphazela khona xa ixesha lakho liqala.

Iipheromones ziimpawu zemichiza esizithumela kwabanye abantu abasingqongileyo. Babonisa umtsalane, ukuzala, kunye nokuvuka ngokwesondo, phakathi kwezinye izinto. Kodwa ngaba iipheromones ezisuka kwelinye ibhinqa zinokubonisa ukuba kufanelekile ukuba sexesheni? Asazi.

Ukuvumelanisa kwexesha kukwabanzima ukungqina ngenxa yolungiselelo lwexesha lomjikelo wabasetyhini. Ngelixa umjikelo wokuya exesheni oqhelekileyo uqhubeka kangangeentsuku ezingama-28-ukuqala ngeentsuku ezi-5 ukuya kwezi-7 "zexesha" lakho apho isibeleko sakho siphala khona kwaye uva ukopha - abantu abaninzi abafumani maxesha ngaloo ndlela.

Ubude bomjikelo ukuya kwiintsuku ezingama-40 busephakathi kwendawo "yesiqhelo." Abanye abantu basetyhini banemijikelezo emifutshane eneentsuku ezimbini okanye ezintathu kuphela zokopha. Oko kwenza ukuba into esiyicingayo njenge "xesha lokuvumelanisa" i-metric ehambelanayo exhomekeke kwindlela esichaza ngayo "ukuvumelanisa."

I-synchrony yokuya esikhathini inokuthi ivele rhoqo ngenxa yemithetho yokunokwenzeka kunayo nayiphi na enye into. Ukuba unexesha lakho kwiveki enye ngaphandle kwenyanga, kwaye uhlala nabanye abantu basetyhini abathathu, ubuncinci ubuncinci ubuncinci kuni niya kuba sexesheni ngexesha elinye. Oku kunokwenzeka kudibanise uphando nexesha lokuvumelanisa.

Ukuthatha

Njengakweminye imiba yezempilo yamanina, ungqamaniso lokuya exesheni lufanelwe kukuqwalaselwa ngakumbi kunye nophando, ngaphandle kobunzima bokungqina okanye ukuphikisa. Kude kube lelo xesha, ixesha lokuvumelanisa liya kuqhubeka nokuphila njengenkolelo eqinisekisiweyo engaqinisekiswanga malunga nexesha labasetyhini.

Njengabantu, kuyindalo ukudibanisa amava ethu omzimba kunye neemvakalelo zethu, kwaye ukuba nexesha "elingqinelanayo" nelungu losapho okanye umhlobo osondeleyo longeza olunye umaleko kubudlelwane bethu. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ukuba nexesha "elingavumelaniyo" nabasetyhini ohlala nabo akuthethi ukuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo okanye ayilunganga ngomjikelo wakho okanye ubudlelwane bakho.