Amandla okuba neSizwana soBulunga, ngokutsho koMqeqeshi 'oyena mkhulu uLahlekileyo' uJen Widerstrom

Umxholo

• 1. Iqala nge-nudge.
• 2. Kwaye loo nto yenza indawo yokuncoma.
• 3. Into elandelayo, ukwi-roll.
• 4. Kulapho ke ijika ibe lipati.
• 5. Hlala uthatha umjikelo wakho woloyiso.
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Ukuthatha umceli mngeni wokuba sempilweni yinto esondeleyo. Ewe kunjalo, nokuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba uza kuqala ngokuphila usempilweni ngokubanzi uhlasela ikhaya kwinqanaba eliphezulu lomntu. Konke ngaxeshanye, uzenzele izibonda eziphakamileyo ngokubhekisele kwimpumelelo kwindawo apho kulula khona ukukhubeka-kwaye amathuba okuba uya (wonke umntu wenza!). Okwangoku, ndibona uninzi lwabasetyhini luhamba lodwa. Kodwa khawucinge ngomzuzu ukuba yintoni enokutshintsha ukuba uzibeka emngciphekweni wokuzivula kwaye ubandakanye abanye abantu kwimishini yakho: Usete isiphumo sedomino esigcina amandla akho. (Apha, ezinye izizathu zokusebenza zingcono nabahlobo.)

1. Iqala nge-nudge.

Loo ntshukumo incinci yokukhetha umntu ozithembayo okanye ababini yinto ekhuthazayo. Mna, bendihlala ndisoyika ukubaleka, kwaye kangangeminyaka andixeleli mntu. Ndacinga ukuba indenza ndibonakale ndibuthathaka. Ndandingumntu ophosa isando, ndigxile ekuphakamiseni ubunzima kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ndingabaleki naphi na. Nawuphi na umgama ongaphezulu kweemitha ezingama-400 wabonakala ungafikeleleki kwaphela. Ndaziva ndomelele kodwa ndicotha kwaye ndinentembelo xa kufikwa kulo naluphi na uhlobo loqeqesho lokunyamezela. Imbali iyakungqina oku nangaliphi na ixesha ndizama ukudlula kulaa khilomitha yekota, xa kufuneka ndihambe ngokulihlazo. Kodwa ekugqibeleni ndaye ndabelana nolunye uloyiko lwam kwindawo yokuzivocavoca. Ukusukela ngoko ukuya phambili, nanini na xa endibona ndibaleka, ebendikhuthaza ngokunqwala kunye neefives ezintlanu-bezanele ukuba ndiqhubeke.

2. Kwaye loo nto yenza indawo yokuncoma.

Le nto isezantsi isitshixo sokuphendula inokutshintsha ingqondo yakho ukuba ityhalele ngaphambili naluphi na uloyiko okanye ukuthandabuza kwaye ubethe ukubaluleka kokunika injongo yakho. Olo tshintsho luncinci lude lukuncede wenze izinto ezinje ngokunxiba iimpahla zokuzilolonga ezikwenza uzive unamandla. Uya kubona-apho ingqondo iya khona, umzimba uya kulandela.

3. Into elandelayo, ukwi-roll.

Xa usabelana ngosukelo lwakho nabantu abaqhutywa ngokufanayo, ngequbuliso imiqobo ojongana nayo (njengokubaleka okokuqala) ayibonakali isoyikeka kwaye loo miqobo ayicinezeli kangako. Ngoku uyinxalenye yomzamo weqela elikhulu kwaye uyayiqonda indlela ekungumntu ngayo ukukhubeka nokuwa kwaye uqale kwakhona. Kwimeko yam, umhlobo wam wokuzivocavoca waqala ukundilinda ekupheleni kweembaleki, ngamanye amaxesha ebaleka ecaleni kwam. Ngaphandle kokuyicela, ndiye ndafumana inkxaso kanye endandiyidinga-kwaye konke oko kuba ndandikulungele ukubonisa amakhadi am.

4. Kulapho ke ijika ibe lipati.

Xa ufumana isizwe sakho, uyondla ngokuqhuba kunye nomdla. (Ngokwenene-abahlobo bakho banempembelelo kwimikhwa yakho yokuzilolonga ngaphezu kokuba ucinga). Ngamanye amazwi, inkuthazo yabo iyosulela, njengawe. Ngoku elo qela lincinane lenu liqala ukuvelisa amandla, kwaye wonke umntu uyaphumelela kulo. Kwaye kokukhona ucofa amandla esizwe sakho, kokukhona uya kuba nakho ukusebenzisa la mandla mhle, nokuba anikho kunye. Ngaba ungatyhala kancinci nje? Ewe Unga.

5. Hlala uthatha umjikelo wakho woloyiso.

Olona loyiso lukhulu luvela ekubekeni usukelo lwakho kuvavanyo. Olwam: ukuqhuba imayile ngaphandle kokuma. Ndavumela umhlobo wam owayelapho kum ngalo lonke ixesha kuyo, kwaye wayengowokuqala endabelana naye ngeendaba ezimnandi zokuba ndibaleke imayile leyo kwimizuzu engaphantsi kwe-10 ngaphandle kokuhamba inyathelo. Ndivile ukuba uloyiso belungangolwakhe njengoko bekungolwam; indibonisile ukuba akukho nto inokukugcina womelele njengempumelelo. Vumela isizwe sakho ukuba singene kuloyiso lwakho ngalo lonke ixesha uwela umgca wokugqibela ukungqiyama kuloo mvakalelo impompozayo. Into elandelayo uyazi, uphupha ngeentaba ezinkulu oza kuzoyisa.

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