U-Selena Gomez Ukwabelana ngendlela awamkele ngayo amaKrele akhe emva kokuTshintshela

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Abanye abantu basetyhini banxiba izikratshi zasemva kokuphuma kunye neqhayiya, besithanda isikhumbuzo sedabi abasindileyo. (Njengabafazi abane-mastectomy scars tattooed.) Kodwa ukwamkela umzimba wakho ngendlela yawo entsha akusoloko kuza lula, njengoko u-Selena Gomez enokungqina. Le mvumi yahlonitshwa njengo "Mfazi wonyaka" kwiiBhilibhodi zabasetyhini kuMculo ngo-2017 amabhaso izolo ebusuku, kwaye kudliwanondlebe nomag wabonisa ukuba wayengaziva mnandi ngentshontsho lakhe lokufakelwa kwezintso ekuqaleni. (Uhlaziyo: Ngeli hlotyeni, uGomez wafumana uqhaqho lwezintso kumhlobo wakhe uFrancia Raisa, ngenxa yedabi lakhe eliqhubekayo nelupus.)

"Kwakunzima ngokwenene ekuqaleni," uxelele umag. "Ndiyakhumbula ndizijonga esipilini ndize ze ndicinga ngazo zonke izinto endandiqhele ukuziluma ngazo ndibuze nje, 'Ngoba?' Ndinomntu ebomini bam ixesha elide kakhulu owabonisa zonke izinto endandingaziva mnandi ngazo. Xa ndijonga umzimba wam ngoku, ndibona nje ubomi. Kukho izinto ezizigidi endinokuzenza nge-lasers kunye ne-cream kunye nayo yonke loo nto-kodwa ndilungile kuyo. "

UGomez uqhube wathi upholile ngotyando lweplastiki, kodwa akaziva mfuneko yalo ngoku. "Ndicinga nje, kum, inokuba ngamehlo am, ubuso bam obujikeleziweyo, iindlebe zam, imilenze yam, inxeba lam. Andinayo i-abs efanelekileyo, kodwa ndiziva ngathi ndenziwe ngokumangalisayo," uqhubeke. (Inxulumene: IChrissy Teigen iyigcina iyinyani ngokuvuma yonke into ngaye iyinyani)

Mva nje, abasetyhini bebesabelana ngamabali abo okufunda ukuthanda amanxeba, ukolula amanqaku, okanye "iziphene" ngethemba lokukhuthaza abanye ukuba bayeke ukucinga ngabo njengezinto zokuzimela. Njengoko u-Gomez esitsho, ukwamkelwa komzimba kunye nokuzithanda akusoloko kusenzeka kwangoko, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba ufumane ubuhle bokungazithembi kwakho.

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