UShawn Johnson Wavula malunga nokuKhulelwa kwakhe kwiNgxaki

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Uhambo lukaShawn Johnson lokukhulelwa belunemvakalelo kwasekuqaleni. Ngo-Okthobha ka-2017, imbasa yegolide yeOlimpiki kwabelwana ngayo ukuba wakha waphunyelwa sisisu kwiintsuku nje ezimbalwa emva kokufumanisa ukuba ukhulelwe. Uguquko lweemvakalelo lwamthabathela kuye kunye nomyeni wakhe uAndrew East-into ababelana ngayo nehlabathi kwividiyo ebuhlungu kwitshaneli yabo ye-YouTube.

Emva koko, unyaka onesiqingatha kamva, uJohnson wabhengeza ukuba ukhulelwe kwakhona. Ngokwemvelo, yena kunye no-East baye bahlala enyangeni-kude kube kutshanje.

Kwiveki ephelileyo, uJohnson wabelana ngokuba uneengxaki ezinxulumene nokukhulelwa. Ngexesha lokuqeshwa kukagqirha wabasetyhini, yena nomyeni wakhe baxelelwa ukuba izinto zikhangeleka "zilungile," esi sibini sachaza kwivlog yeYouTube. (Related: Nantsi Kanye Into Eyenzekileyo Xa Ndiphunyelwa sisisu)

"Ndaziva ngathi umntu unkqonkqoze yonke into ephuma kum," utshilo uJohnson kule vidiyo. "Izintso [zomntwana] bezingaphuhlanga kodwa bezisanda, ngenxa yoko bebegcina ulwelo oluninzi," utshilo, wongeza ukuba waxelelwa ukuba "angaba mandundu okanye azilungise" ezantsi.

Kuyavela ukuba, uJohnson unenkaba enemithambo emibini, nto leyo eyenzeka kwi-1 pesenti kuphela yokukhulelwa. “Inqabile kakhulu kwaye inokuba neengxaki zayo,” utshilo. "Kukho umngcipheko wokuzala umntwana oswelekileyo kwaye umntwana akafiki ixesha elide kwaye umntwana akafumani izondlo ezaneleyo okanye unetyhefu [eninzi] emzimbeni wabo."

Kwaye ukudityaniswa kwezi ngxaki zimbini kunokukhokelela kwi-Down syndrome okanye ezinye i-chromosomal anomalies, utshilo uJohnson.

Ngaphandle kwengcebiso kagqirha wakhe ukuba enze uvavanyo lwemfuzo ukuze afunde ngakumbi malunga nokukhula komntwana, uJohnson kunye neMpuma bagqiba kwelokuba bakweqe uvavanyo. “Sithe siza kumthanda lo mntwana nokuba sekutheni,” utshilo. (Ngaba ubusazi ukuba umqeqeshi weenkwenkwezi, uhambo lokukhulelwa lukaEmily Skye lwahluke ngokupheleleyo kunokuba wayecebe?)

Egxininiswe yiyo yonke le meko, umdlali oneminyaka engama-27 ubudala wabelana ukuba waphuka emotweni yakhe emva kokuqeshwa. "Kwakungekho ngenxa yosizi kuba sasingenalo ulwazi olungqongqo, yayikukuziva kungenakuzinceda," utshilo. "Siyaluthanda usana lwethu kakhulu kwaye singabinakho ukubenzela nto yayiyeyona nto imbi emhlabeni. Wamkelekile kubuzali. "

Nangona kunjalo, uJohnson kunye neMpuma ekugqibeleniuyenzile isigqibo sokwenza uvavanyo lwemfuzo. Kwividiyo entsha kwimpelaveki, esi sibini sabelane ukuba umjikelo wokuqala wovavanyo "wawungalunganga kuyo nayiphi na i-chromosomal anomaly."

Oku kuthetha ukuba umntwana wabo uphilile ngokwemfuza, utshilo uJohnson. "Izintso zinobungakanani obuqhelekileyo, zithe umntwana ukhula kakuhle," wongeze watsho. "U-Doc uthe yonke into ikhangeleka intle. Azikho iinyembezi namhlanje." (Idibeneyo: Nantsi ingakanani iGymnast yeOlimpiki uShawn Johnson ayazi malunga neMpilo kunye nokuLunga)

Kodwa uJohnson uthe la mava akhokelela kwingxubevange yeemvakalelo. "Ndiyakhumbula ndincokola nomnye wabahlobo bam abasenyongweni ngayo yonke le nto, kwaye ndathi, 'Andazi entliziyweni yam ukuba ndiziva njani, kuba ndiphantse ndaziva ndinetyala lokuba ndithandazela ukuba umntwana wethu aphile. . ' Kwaye wayefana, 'Uthetha ntoni?' Ndaza ndathi, 'Ewe, ndivakalelwa kukuba intliziyo yam iyalugatya usana ekusenokwenzeka ukuba alukho [sempilweni].' Kwaye ayisiyiyo loo nto. Ndithandazela impilo yosana lwethu, "ucacisile.

“Ukuba iimvavanyo zethu zibuyile kwaye umntwana wethu une-Down syndrome, singamthanda lo mntwana ngaphezu kwayo nantoni na emhlabeni,” uqhubeke watsho uJohnson. "Kodwa ezintliziyweni zethu, njengabazali, njengoko wonke umzali ephaya ethandaza kwaye enethemba, unethemba lokuba nomntwana osempilweni. Ke ukufumana ezo ziphumo ibubunzima obukhulu obususwe ezintliziyweni zethu."

Ngoku, uJohnson uthe yena kunye neMpuma "bathobekile, siyathandaza, [kwaye] sithatha usuku olunye ngexesha."

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