Ukwakhiwa kwakhona kwebele okanye 'ukuya kwiFlethi'? Yintoni 8 Abasetyhini Abakhethileyo

Umxholo

• ‘Le kuphela kwento endandinolawulo kuyo’
• ‘Ngokuqinisekileyo bendifuna into ibuyiselwe apho’
• ‘Isiphumo besingazukukhangeleka sikhulu kangaka’
• ‘Zange khe ndinikwe ukhetho’
• ‘Zange ndancamathelwa emabeleni am’
• ‘Ndivavanye ndinentsholongwane ye-BRCA2’
• ‘Umahluko phakathi kwenyani kunye nezinto zokwenziwa uyabonakala xa ubani ehamba ze’
• ‘Ndandijolise kakhulu kumjikelo wokugqibela’

Abanye, ukhetho lwaluqhutywa kukufuna imeko yesiqhelo. Kwabanye, yayiyindlela yokufumana kwakhona ulawulo. Kwaye kwabanye, ukhetho yayikukuba "bahambe ngokuthe tyaba." Abafazi abasibhozo abanesibindi babelana ngohambo lwabo oluntsonkothileyo noluntu.

Le Nyanga yokuQatshelwa koMhlaza weSifuba, sijonge kubafazi abasemva kwerebhoni. Joyina incoko kwiCancer Brealt Healthline -app yasimahla yabantu abaphila nomhlaza wamabele.

Khuphela usetyenziso apha

Isigqibo sokudibana nenkqubo yokwakha ngokutsha emva kokuxilongwa komhlaza wamabele- okanye hayi- sisimilo sobuqu ngendlela emangalisayo. Kuninzi ukucinga, kwaye ukhetho lunokuzisa iimvakalelo ezininzi.

Izizathu zonyango ezithintelayo, abasetyhini abagqiba ekubeni benze utyando kufuneka bacinge ngexesha labo ngokunxulumene ne-mastectomies zabo. Ngaba kufuneka bayenze kwangoko emva, okanye bathathe ixesha lokuthatha isigqibo?

I-Healthline yathetha nabafazi abasibhozo malunga nento abayikhethileyo ekugqibeleni xa kufikwa kukhetho lwabo lotyando lokwakha kwakhona.

‘Le kuphela kwento endandinolawulo kuyo’

Katie Sitton

Okwangoku silindele utyando lokwakha ngokutsha

UKatie Sitton ufumene isifo somhlaza webele ngo-Matshi 2018 eneminyaka engama-28. Ulindele utyando njengokuba egqiba ichemotherapy.

“Kuqala bendingafuni ukwakhiwa ngokutsha. Ndacinga ukuba kungcono ukubulala umhlaza [amabele am], utshilo uKatie. “Kodwa uphando oluthe kratya endilwenzileyo, ndafumanisa ukuba ayiyonyani leyo. Umhlaza uthathe kude kum, kodwa le yinto ebendinokuthetha ngayo. ”

‘Ngokuqinisekileyo bendifuna into ibuyiselwe apho’

UKelly Iverson

I-mastectomy ephindwe kabini + ukwakhiwa kwakhona kwangoko

Ngama-25 kwaye esazi ukuba unenguquko ye-BRCA1, uKelly Iverson, umphathi wentengiso kunye neehostele zaseMad Monkey, wayeneendlela ezimbini anokuzenza: ukufakelwa kwangoko emva kwembumba yakhe, okanye izandisi ezandisiweyo zafakwa phantsi kwesifuba kunye nolunye utyando olukhulu emva kweeveki ezintandathu. .

"Ndiyicinga ukuba akuzange kube ngumbuzo wokuba ndiza kuphinda ndiphinde ndakhe kwakhona," utsho. "Ngobuhle, bendifuna ukuba nento ibuyiselwe apho."

UKelly waziva ukuba akonwabanga kamva ngendlela implantshi ezijongeka ngayo, angabuyela kuqhaqho-lokudibanisa amanqatha- inkqubo apho amanqatha omzimba wakhe afakwa khona esifubeni. Ingena kancinci xa ithelekiswa notyando lwesibini olwandisa, kwaye igqunywe phantsi kweinshurensi yakhe.

‘Isiphumo besingazukukhangeleka sikhulu kangaka’

UTamara Iverson Pryor

I-mastectomy ephindwe kabini + akukho kwakhiwa kwakhona

UTamara Iverson Pryor ufumene uxilongo kunye nonyango lomhlaza izihlandlo ezithathu ukusukela kwiminyaka engama-30. Isigqibo sakhe sokungaphinde akhe emva kwembumba ibandakanya izinto ezininzi.

"Ukuphumeza iziphumo ezifanelekileyo kuya kufuna ukuba zisuswe zombini izihlunu ze-latissimus dorsi," uyacacisa. "Ingcinga yolunye utyando olunokuba nefuthe elibi kumandla am aphezulu omzimba kunye nokuhamba kwam akubonakali ngathi kukutshintshiselana ngokufanelekileyo ngento endicinga ukuba ayizukuba sisiphumo esihle."

‘Zange khe ndinikwe ukhetho’

UTiffany Dyba

I-mastectomy ephindwe kabini kunye nokwandisa + ukufakelwa kwexesha elizayo

U-Tiffany Dyba, umbhali webhlog ye-CDREAM, wanikwa ithuba lokuba enze i-mastectomy enye okanye ephindwe kabini ekwakhiweni ngokutsha kwangoko eneminyaka eyi-35, kodwa uyakhumbula ukuba akukho mntu umxelela ukuba angakhetha "ukuhamba ngokuthe cwaka."

Unokwandisa izicubu kwaye uya kufumana izinto zokufakelwa xa egqibile ngonyango lwakhe.

Ngokwakhiwa ngokutsha, enyanisweni zange ndanikwa ndlela yokuba nayo okanye hayi. Akubangakho mibuzo ibuziweyo. Ndixakeke kakhulu khange ndiyicinge nokuyicinga kabini, ”uyacacisa.

“Kum, ngelixa ndandingaqhotyoshelwanga emabeleni am, imeko yesiqhelo yayiyinto endandiyirhalela kuyo yonke le nkqubo. Bendisazi ukuba ubomi bam buza kutshintsha ngonaphakade, kangangoko ndinako ukubonakala njengomntu wam omdala, yile nto bendiyizamela. ”

‘Zange ndancamathelwa emabeleni am’

USara DiMuro

I-mastectomy ephindwe kabini kunye nokwandisa + ukufakelwa kamva

Kwiminyaka engama-41 kwaye esandula kufunyaniswa, uSara DiMuro, umbhali, umhlekisi, kunye nomdlali weqonga ngoku othe wancoma iRethink Breast Cancer, wabala iintsuku kwi-mastectomy yakhe ephindwe kabini.

"Andizange ndibambelele nyhani emabeleni am, kwaye ndithe ndakuva ukuba bazama ukundibulala, bendikulungele ukubonisana noGqirha uYouTube ndizisuse ngokwam," utshilo.

Akazange acinge hayi ukwenza utyando. "Bendifuna ukuba nento yokutshintsha iziduli zam ezibulalayo, kwaye ngelixa ndingesiso isikhonkwane ngeendebe zam ezipheleleyo ze-B, ndiyazingca ngokuba ndinazo."

‘Ndivavanye ndinentsholongwane ye-BRCA2’

USabrina Scown

Bukela + linda iprophylactic mastectomy

USabrina Scown wadlula kumhlaza we-ovari njengomntwana ngo-2004. Xa umama wakhe wafumana isifo somhlaza kwiminyaka emibini eyadlulayo, bobabini baye bavavanywa kwaye bafumanisa ukuba banentsholongwane ye-BRCA2.

Ngeli xesha, iScown yayiqala nonyango lokuchuma, ke yena wakhetha ukuzihlola kunye noviwo logqirha ngelixa egxile ekubeni nosapho- into umcebisi wakhe wemfuza wamkhuthaza ukuba ayigqibe, kuba umngcipheko womhlaza wamabele wawuza kunyusa umdala ndiyifumene.

Umama womnye ngoku uthi, "Ndisathatha isigqibo sokuba nomntwana wesibini, ke kude kube lelo xesha, ndiza kwenza indlela 'yokulinda ndilinde'."

‘Umahluko phakathi kwenyani kunye nezinto zokwenziwa uyabonakala xa ubani ehamba ze’

UKaren Kohnke

I-mastectomy ephindwe kabini + yokwakha ngokutsha

Ngo-2001 eneminyaka engama-36 ubudala, uKaren Kohnke wafumana uxilongo lomhlaza webele kwaye une-mastectomy. Ngaphezulu kweminyaka eli-15 kamva, ngoku uhlala nezinto ezifakelweyo.

Ngelo xesha, nangona kunjalo, wakhetha ukuyeka ukwakha kwakhona. Esona sizathu sakhe yayikukuba udadewabo, owayebulewe ngumhlaza. Uyacacisa: "Ndacinga ukuba ndingagqibela ngokufa, andifuni ukwenza utyando olukhulu ngakumbi lokwakha kwakhona."

Wayenomdla wokubona ukuba umntu unjani ngaphandle kwamabele, kodwa wafumanisa ukuba ayisosicelo esiqhelekileyo. Uninzi aluzange libuze imibuzo ngalo. Ndingumbuzo obuza imibuzo kakhulu. Ndiyathanda ukuphanda ngayo yonke into kwaye ndijonge kuzo zonke iindlela, ”utshilo.

Inxalenye yesigqibo sakhe sokwakha ngokutsha sasisekwe kwimeko yakhe entsha. "Ubuncinci ekuqaleni, ngekhe kufuneke ndichaze imbali yam yomhlaza wamabele kwimihla yam," utshilo. "Kodwa umahluko phakathi kwenyani kunye nezinto zokwenziwa uyabonakala xa umntu ehamba ze."

"Ngenye imini ndingakhetha ukuhamba ngaphandle kokufakelwa," uyongeza. “Into abangakuxeleli yona kukuba izinto zokufakelwa azenzelwanga ukuhlala ngonaphakade. Ukuba umntu ufakelwa izinto esemncinci kakhulu, kunokwenzeka ukuba afune ukwenza kwakhona. ”

‘Ndandijolise kakhulu kumjikelo wokugqibela’

UAnna Crollman

Iimpawu ezizodwa + zokufakelwa kamva

Echongwe kwi-27, u-Anna Crollman, umbhali webhlog ye-My Cancer Chic, wabona ukwakhiwa kwakhona njengomgca wokugqibela kuhambo lwakhe lomhlaza wamabele.

"Ndandijolise kwisiphelo sokujongwa njengam kwakhona ndaze ndaluthathela ngqalelo uxinzelelo lweemvakalelo olunxulunyaniswa notshintsho lomzimba wam, utshilo.

“Inyaniso kukuba, ukwakhiwa kwakhona kwamabele akunakuze kufane namabele endalo. Sele kuyiminyaka emibini nangaphezulu kokwenziwa kotyando ezintlanu, kwaye ngelixa umzimba wam ungasokuze ubukeke unje ngaphambili, ndiyazingca ngawo. Onke amanxeba, isigaqa, kunye nokungafezeki kubonisa ukuba ndingakanani. ”

URisa Kerslake, BSN, ngumongikazi obhalisiweyo kunye nombhali ozimeleyo ohlala eMidwest nomyeni wakhe kunye nentombi yakhe encinci. Ubhala kakhulu malunga nokuzala, impilo kunye nemiba yobuzali. Unokunxibelelana naye kwiwebhusayithi yakhe uRisa Kerslake Ubhala, okanye kwiphepha lakhe likaFacebook nakuTwitter.