Umgangatho omnandi ngokumangalisayo owenza ukuba ubenomtsalane ngakumbi

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Akukho nto ikwenza uzive ungcono ngesiqu sakho njengokunceda umntu osweleyo. (Kuyinyani, ukwenza izenzo ezincinci zobubele kwabanye kuyisithinteli esinamandla, ngokutsho kwesifundo se-2014.) Kwaye ngoku unokongeza esinye isizathu sokunceda abanye kuluhlu lwakho: abantu abanomdla banobuninzi, kwaye ngcono, isondo!

Ngokwenene. Kwiphepha elipapashwe kwi Ijenali yaseBritani yePsychology, zibizwa ngokuba zii-altruism ziqikelela ukuphumelela kwabantu, "izazinzulu zenza ukuba abantu abanobubele babekwe rhoqo. Abaphandi baphonononge abafazi be-192 kunye namadoda ali-105, bebabuza ukuba bazenza kangaphi iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuziphatha okungazithembi njengokunikela ngegazi, ukunikela ngemali kwisisa, kunye nokunceda ummelwane. Emva koko, bajonge imbali yomntu ngamnye yokuxela ngokwabo ngesondo. Kuye kwafumaniseka ukuba abantu abafumene amanqaku aphezulu kwi-altruism nabo bafumene amanqaku amaninzi kumashiti. (Kwiindaba ezinomtsalane ezinxulumene noko, nantsi Isizathu sokuba ubuGcisa bakho boSondo ngeGym buqheleke.

Amadoda azinikeleyo axele ukuba namaqabane amaninzi esini ebomini bawo kunamajelo angaphantsi kwesisa, kwaye amadoda nabafazi abanobubele njengangoku kubudlelwane baxela ukuba neentlobano zesini ngakumbi kwiintsuku ezingama-30 ezidlulileyo. Ewe kunjalo, kuhlala kukho iziphene kwizifundo ezibandakanya ukuziphatha okuxeliweyo (ingaba abantu banokuba njalo esithi banobubele?), kodwa uphando lwangaphambili lufumene ukuba sibona abantu abanomdla benomtsalane ngakumbi. Kwaye, abaphandi bathi i-altruism iluncedo ngokuzivelelayo kuba iluphawu lwangaphandle kwaye olucacileyo lokuba umntu uza kwenza iqabane elilungileyo ukuba abe neentsana.

Yiyo yonke into yesayensi-ithetha "ububele bushushu!" Kwaye iyavakala. Akukho nto isenza ukuba sidinwe njengokubona umntu edlala nosana, ehamba injana, okanye enceda ixhegokazi elingaphaya kwesitalato. Amakhwenkwe angalunganga? Sizakupasa.

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