Yintoni omele uyenze xa abantu bengazukuBonisa, okanye iPsoriasis yakho

Ukukhula, uninzi lolutsha lufumana idrama ephambili eza nokufikisa kunye nokufuna ukwamkeleka "kubantwana abapholileyo."

Mna - {textend} bendinayo leyo yokujongana necala eliphambeneyo le-psoriasis, elandishiya ndiziva ndindodwa kakhulu kubuntwana bam. Ukuzithanda kwakungeyonto endandisazi ngayo ngeli xesha lobomi bam.

Ukuba ujongene ne-psoriasis okanye enye imeko yezempilo engapheliyo, kunokwenzeka ukuba unokunxibelelana nolo luvo lokuba wedwa.

Ukuziva ndililolo kwakuyinto eqhelekileyo kum. Xa ndandinethuba lokunxibelelana nabahlobo kunye nosapho, ndandidla ngokwabelana ngeenkcukacha zomzabalazo wam wobuqu, kubandakanya ukukhathazeka kolusu lwam, ukukhathazeka kwam ngokungafani nabanye abantu, kunye nomsindo wam ngobomi. Into endiyifundileyo, nangona kunjalo, yayingekuba wonke umntu uhlala exhotyiswe ngokupheleleyo ukuba akwazi ukwenza yonke into eyenzekayo ebomini bam.

Ngaba wakha wakuphawula oko ngaphambili? Ukuze ekugqibeleni ufumane isibindi sokutyhila umphefumlo wakho emntwini, kwaye ngenxa yesizathu esithile, indlela abasabela ngayo kuyo ayinalo unxibelelwano olunzulu kunye novelwano obulangazelela? Ukuba kunjalo, awuwedwa!

Amaxesha amaninzi, nangona bendisandula ukuxelela umntu into esondeleyo, bendiziva ndindodwa kwaye ndibhencekile kunangaphambili. Kwaye yandishiya ndingaqinisekanga ukuba ndiqhubeka njani nokuzama ukuhlakulela ubuhlobo okwethutyana. Into endiyifundileyo ngokuhamba kwexesha kukuba le mpendulo yayingengam. Amathuba kukuba loo mntu ebephendula nje ngeyona ndlela ibalaseleyo ebesazi ngayo, ngaphandle kokwazi impembelelo enokuba nayo kum ngalo mzuzu!

Enye yeendlela ezinkulu esinokuthi sizikhathalele ngayo kula maxesha asengozini kunye nethenda nabanye kukuba nesibindi esaneleyo sokucela into esiyifunayo. Awusoloko uyazi ukuba yeyiphi imfuno yakho ngawo wonke umzuzu, kodwa ukuba unakho, zama ukwazisa isabelo ngokuxelela umntu onokusebenzisa uthando olongezelelekileyo. Okanye ufuna nje umntu ukuba akuve ngoku. Unokumangaliswa yindlela eyahlukileyo abakwazi ngayo ukubonisa!

Amaxesha amaninzi abantu babonisa indlela ethile kuba becinga ukuba bafuna ukukusindisa okanye ukukulungisa. Xa ubazisa ukuba akunjalo, ivumela ukuba babekho ngokwenyani kuwe. Ukubuza into oyifunayo ikwayindlela enamandla kakhulu yokuziqhelanisa nothando lwakho.

Ke kwixesha elizayo xa unqwenela le nkxaso inzulu kwaye ukuba uviwe ngokwenene ebomini bakho, khetha abaphulaphuli bakho ngobulumko. Ndafunda (ekugqibeleni) ukuba nangona abantu abaninzi bebengayazi indlela yokundibonisa, yayingumsebenzi wam ukukhangela abo banako. Kwaye ndithembe, balapha phandle! Ukulinda ukubonisa wena kwaye umamele ngothando.

Sukuzivumela ukuba ubekelwe bucala okanye ujonge iingxaki zakho ngaphakathi. Ayizukukunceda. Zityhale kude ufumane isizwe esinokuhamba nawe, nonke. Kubaluleke kakhulu kwaye kuyakwenza isixa esikhulu sohlaziyo ebomini bakho. Uyakukwazi ukubona ukuba kukhula njani ukuzithanda kwakho. Okukhona uxhaswa ngabantu, kokukhona uya kuthatha ixesha elininzi lokutyala imali ekuzithandeni. Thembisa!

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