Izabelo zikaTess Holliday Kutheni angasathumeli ukusebenza kwakhe kwimithombo yeendaba

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I-Tess Holliday ingamandla ekufuneka ibalwe nawo xa kuziwa kumngeni wolindelo olungeyonyani lobuhle. Ukusukela oko yaqala intshukumo ye #EffYourBeautyStandards ngo-2013, imodeli ibize ngokungenaloyiko izehlo zokuhlaziswa umzimba (nokuba kusehotele okanye ku-Uber), ebethetha ngesizathu sokuba oomama babo bonke ubukhulu befanele ukuziva be-sexy, kwaye uyenziwe. ityala lokuba kutheni utyando lweplastiki lunokuba ngumzimba olungileyo. Ngoku, uHolliday uthatha u-Instagram kwakhona, ngeli xesha ekwabelaneni ngeembono zakhe malunga nenkcubeko yokomelela kunye nemidiya yoluntu.

Kwiposti yakhe yokuqala ye-Instagram ka-2021, uHolliday wabelane ngevidiyo malunga nokuba kutheni engazukuthumela ukusebenza kwakhe kwimidiya yoluntu kunyaka omtsha.

Andizokwabelana ngokuba ndiyazilolonga okanye ndihambisa umzimba wam ukubonisa ukuba ndiyasebenza, utshilo kwividiyo, ethetha nabalandeli bakhe. (Idibeneyo: Njani iTess Holliday ikhuthaza umzimba wakhe ukuzithemba ngeentsuku ezimbi)

"Njengomntu otyebileyo kulo mzimba, ndidiniwe ukuba abantu basebenzise umzimba wam, basebenzise imizimba yabantu abatyebileyo, njengezixhobo ezichasene nabo ukuqhubela phambili ibali lokuba abantu abatyebileyo 'babi' kwaye 'siyingozi' kwaye 'sisongelo eluntwini, "uqhubeke watsho.

Endaweni yokuthumela umsebenzi wakhe, uHolliday ugqibe kwelokuba uza kuphinda agxininise amandla akhe kwimithambo kuba nje eyonwabela. "Ndifuna ukuyenza, kwaye ndiyabelana nayo ukuze ndikunike ujongo kubomi bam, hayi kuba ndinento engqinayo, utshilo kwividiyo. Andizukuba sisixhobo sokuba abantu boyike abanye ukuba baphile ubomi babo bokwenyani kuba ayingeni kolu bumba lumxinwa, luphambeneyo. (Eyeleleneyo: iTess Holliday iDityaniswe neFashoni ukuya kuMzobo weNgqokelela ye#EffYourBeautyStandards)

Njengokuba sisenza unyaka omtsha, uHolliday uthe ufuna ukukhokela ngomzekelo ekuncedeni abantu baqonde ukuba yonke imizimba ifanelwe ukwamkelwa kunye noxabiso, nokuba injani imilo okanye ubungakanani. “Akukho mntu ufanele ukuthandwa kwaye amkelwe ngenxa yokuba esebenza okanye enomzimba othotyiweyo,” ubhale watsho kwi-caption yeposi yakhe. "Umsebenzi wam kulo mhlaba kukunceda abanye ukuba beze kwindawo yokwamkela kwaye ngethemba lokuyithanda imizimba yabo ngoku, yiyo loo nto."

Eli ayiloxesha lokuqala uHolliday ekhanyisa ukuba kutheni ukuthumela iifoto zokuzilolonga kwi-Instagram kunokuba yingxaki. Kwiposti ye-2019, wathetha ngokungagungqi malunga nokuba iiposti zomzimba ngamanye amaxesha zinokondla njani kwinkcubeko yomsebenzi okanye isidingo sokubonakala "sixakekile" kwaye "siphithizela" ngalo lonke ixesha.

“Ukuba ‘matasatasa’ kuyinto entle, kodwa inkcubeko yethu yokuthanda umsebenzi inzima ngokwenene ngeendlela ezininzi,” wabhala ngelo xesha. "Khange ndiphinde ndibelane ngohambo lwam lomzimba okwangoku [kuba] kukho ukubekwa amabala ngabantu abatyebileyo abasebenzayo. Nangona kungavakali ukuthetha, luhambo ngenene." (Eyeleleneyo: UTess Holliday Wabelana Indlela Umfanekiso Womzimba Wakhe Wavela Ngayo Ngexesha LobuMama)

Umgca ongezantsi: IHoliday ifuna kwazeke ukuba into eyenziwa ngabantu ngemizimba yabo lishishini labo kwaye akukho mntu wumbi kwaye ekuphela kokuqinisekiswa okufunayo kuvela kuwe - hayi abalandeli bakho be-Instagram (okanye nabani na ongomnye, ngalo mbandela). Njengoko uHolliday wabelana ngevidiyo yakhe: "Sebenza ukuba uyafuna [okanye] awusebenzi. Ayinamsebenzi, ukuba nje wonwabile kwaye ukuba intliziyo kunye neenjongo zakho zicocekile, ingaba "

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