Izizathu ezili-10 eziphezulu awunamathele kwizigqibo zakho

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Phantse isiqingatha sethu senza izigqibo zoNyaka oMtsha, kodwa ngaphantsi kweepesenti ezili-10 zethu siyazigcina. Nokuba kukunqongophala kwenkuthazo, ukunqongophala kwezixhobo, okanye siphelelwa ngumdla, lixesha lokuba senze isiqalo esitsha kwaye sijonge iindlela zokugqibezela oko sikuqalile. Nazi izizathu ezili-10 zokuba abantu bangabambeleli kwizigqibo zabo zoNyaka oMtsha kunye nendlela yokuyigcina ingenzeki kulo nyaka.

Isizathu 1: Ukuhamba wedwa

Nokuba uyeka ukutshaya, ukuphucula umdlalo wakho wentenetya, okanye ukuya ejimini rhoqo, sukuhamba wedwa. "Ukuba ungumntu onenqanaba eliphezulu lempumelelo xa unenkxaso yangaphandle, fumana umhlobo," utshilo umqeqeshi wempumelelo uAmy Applebaum. "Oku kudala uxanduva, oluyimfuneko kwimpumelelo."

"Zijikeleze nabantu abakukhuthazayo ukuba ube ngaphezulu, wenze okungakumbi, kwaye ube nokuninzi," ucebisa uMqeqeshi weMojo uDebi Silber. "Ukuba udlala intenetya kwaye ufuna ukuphucula umdlalo wakho, dlala nabantu abangcono kunawe abakukhuthaza ukuba ube ngcono." Khumbula, umhlobo wakho kufuneka abe yinto elungileyo ebomini bakho, hayi eyonakeleyo. USilber ucebisa ngokuphepha ekuthiwa zii "vampires zamandla," okanye abantu abakukhathazayo ngokwasemoyeni nangokweemvakalelo, nokuba bangamaqabane azimiseleyo.

Isizathu 2: IziGqibo eziPhakame kakhulu

Ukuba injongo yakho kukusombulula uxolo lwehlabathi, mhlawumbi injongo enokufezekiswa kukufunga ukuba uza kufunda Imfazwe noxolo. "Uninzi lwethu ludala izisombululo 'ezikhulu' kakhulu kwaye ngenxa yoko asinako ukuhlangabezana nazo," utshilo u-Applebaum. "Vavanya izigqibo zakho. Ngaba zezona zinto uzifunayo okanye uzibophelele kuzo kuba ucinga ukuba ubufanele?"

Thatha yonke imihla, utshilo umqeqeshi wobomi uHunter Phoenix. "Ndenze isivumelwano nam ukuba ndiyeke ukuthathela ingqalelo izinto ezidlulileyo, ndicinga ngekamva, endaweni yoko ndamkele okwangoku kunye nento endinokuyenza ukwenza umahluko apha nangoku."

Isizathu 3: Ukuncama ngokulula kakhulu

Nokuba uyadimazeka okanye uphulukana nomdla, ukuyeka ngokulula isisombululo esikhulu. “Abantu abaninzi benza izigqibo zabo ngenkolelo yokwenene yokuba banokuzifeza, ngokufika ngoFebruwari imincili iyaphela kwaye ezinye izinto eziphambili ziqala ukuthatha indawo yokuqala,” utsho uAndrew Schrage, umseki weMoneyCrashers. "Ukunyanga lo mbandela, zama ukuseta ibenchmark unyaka wonke. Ngokwenza njalo, unokuzigcina ulandela umkhondo unyaka wonke kwaye usebenzise amandla okuqinisa ukuze ugcine amandla akho."

Isizathu 4: Ulawulo lwexesha

Ngamanye amaxesha uyasiqonda isisombululo sakho kukuzinikela kwexesha elikhulu kunokuba ubucwangcisile. Endaweni yokuzama ukufezekisa yonke into ngosuku olunye, yahlulahlula ibe kukunyusa okulawulekayo. “Ndigqiba kwelokuba ndichithe imizuzu emihlanu ngosuku ndingenzi nto yaye ndilungelelene,” utsho umququzeleli oyingcali uMelinda Massie. "Eyona ndlela ilula yokufumana kwaye uhlale uhlelekile kwaye ungabinayo into ekukuxinana kukwenza umkhwa wemihla ngemihla, kwaye wonke umntu unokugcina imizuzu emihlanu ngosuku."

Isizathu 5: Uxanduva lwezeMali

Abaninzi bayanikezela kwizigqibo zabo ukuba iindleko ezinxulumene noko ziphezulu kakhulu, utshilo uSchrage. "Umzekelo, ukunciphisa umzimba ngamanye amaxesha kunokufuna ubulungu bokuzivocavoca obubizayo. Yiba nobuchule kwaye uzame ukufumana iindlela ezingabizi kakhulu zokufezekisa iinjongo zakho. Ukuba uzama ukunciphisa umzimba, ungazilolonga kwaye uzilolonge ngaphandle kokuzilolonga."

Isizathu 6: Izigqibo ezingekho ngqiqweni

Ungacinga nge-svelte entsha yobukhulu-6 bomzimba okanye loo msebenzi wamanani amathandathu, kodwa ngaba ungayenza ukuba yenzeke ngaphambi kokuba unyaka uphume? "Ukuba ucinga ukuba uza kuphulukana neeponti ezili-100 kwiinyanga ezintathu, ayizukwenzeka le nto, utshilo ingcali yesondlo kunye nokuqina komzimba u-Erin Palinski. "Kufuneka uzibekele usukelo olufikelelekayo ngexesha ozimisele ngalo."

Oku kuthetha ukuba uyinyani kunye nokuthatha nzima, ukujonga ixesha elide esipilini. "Izisombululo zifuna utshintsho kwindlela yokuziphatha, kwaye uninzi lwethu alufuni ukujongana nokuba kukho uluhlu lokuhlamba impahla ekufuneka lwenziwe," utshilo uJosh Klapow oyingcali yengqondo yaseAlabama. "Ke khetha enye onentembelo kuyo kwaye unamathele kuyo. Kungcono ke ukuba uphumelele kwisisombululo esincinci, esilawulekayo kunokuba usilele kokukhulu, okuphezulu."

Isizathu 7: Akukho Sicwangciso

"Ezona zigqibo zibalaseleyo zezi zibandakanya isicwangciso sokwenza into," utshilo umlungiseleli wehipnot uMichael Ellner. UApplebaum uthi abantu bazibekele ukungaphumeleli ngenxa yokuba bazibophelela kwisisombululo, besazi ngokupheleleyo ukuba abanaso isicwangciso sokufikelela.

"Kufuneka wenze isicwangciso esiya kukunceda ufezekise iinjongo zakho," utshilo uKarena noKatrina, abasunguli beToneItUp.com."Yaphula iinjongo zakho zokuphela kwiinjongo ezincinci, zeveki ukuze uzive ngathi usebenzela into ekhawulezileyo, kwaye wenze ikhalenda ngento oza kuyenza yonke imihla eya kukusondeza kwisiphumo sakho osifunayo," batsho.

Isizathu 8: Ukunqongophala kokunyaniseka

Ngaba uzinikele ngokwenyani ekusebenzeni imarathon, ukunciphisa umzimba, okanye nantoni na enye oza kuyenza? Nyaniseka kwisiqu sakho. Amaxesha amaninzi sizifumana sizibophelela kwizinto kuba sicinga ukuba kufanelekile, utshilo uApplebaum. "Musa ukuchitha ixesha lakho kunye naloo nto. Uya kudana kuphela kuwe. Yenza izigqibo ofuna ukuziphumeza kuba ufuna kwaye uzakubeka isicwangciso sokusebenza," utshilo.

Isizathu 9: Ukujonga okungalunganga

Ngelixa unokuba nezona njongo zilungileyo ngesisombululo sakho, usenokuba uzibeka uxinzelelo olungeyomfuneko kuwe. Beka ngendlela efanelekileyo. “Endaweni yokudibanisa uNyaka oMtsha nezigqibo okanye utshintsho ekufuneka ulwenzile, yithathe njengexesha lokucinga ngezinto onqwenela ukusebenza kuzo unyaka wonke,” utshilo u-Applebaum. "Yeka ukuhlala kwizinto ongakhange uzifeze kwaye ugxininise kwizinto oya kuzifeza endaweni yoko."

Isizathu 10: Ukungazikholelwa

NgokukaBeverly Hills ugqirha wengqondo uBarbara Neitlich, ngamanye amaxesha ekuphela kwento ekufuneka uyenzile kukuphulula umva-usuka kuwe. “Zivuyisele wena ngenkqubela yakho, ingxaki kukuba abantu abaninzi banesimo sengqondo esimnyama nesimhlophe kakhulu.

Ukuba injongo yakho yayikukuthumela abalishumi kwakhona ngeveki ngomsebenzi omtsha kwaye wathumela ezintlanu kuphela, musa ukuzibetha ngenxa yoko. "Endaweni yoko, vuyisana kwaye uzivuze ngokwenza umzamo kwinjongo yakho. Oku kuya kukunika amandla kunye nokuqina okufunayo ukuqhubeka nokuphumeza injongo yakho yokuqala, "kusho uNeitlich. Uze uzibulale ngobubele, utsho uSilber. "Kunye nabahlobo, sihlala sinikela ngobubele, indumiso, ukufudumala, kunye neemvakalelo ezintle, kodwa abantu abaninzi abathethi ngokwabo ngaloo ndlela. Zibophelele ekunikezeni obo bubele kunye novelwano kuwe."

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