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Ukuhlakulela ingqiqo enamandla ye-intuition

kwaye ufumane ixesha lokumamela iimvakalelo zakho. U-Judith Orloff, MD, uncedisayo uprofesa wezonyango kwiYunivesithi yaseCalifornia, eLos Angeles, incwadi yakhe yokuzinceda Amandla Alungileyo isandula kukhutshwa ngamaphepha ngabakwaThree Rivers Press. "Ikuxelela inyaniso malunga nendlela onokuzinceda ngayo emzimbeni, ngokweemvakalelo nangesondo ngendlela ingqondo yakho engenakukwazi ukukuxelela ngayo."

Izisombululo

Mamela imiqondiso yomzimba wakho. Ngamanye amaxesha umzimba wakho uziva usongelo okanye ingozi ngaphambi kokuba ingqondo yakho yenze. Ukuphefumla okanye ukubetha kwentliziyo yakho kungatshintsha, okanye usenokuziva ukothuka ngesiquphe kulusu lwakho xa ujikeleze abantu abathile. Nika ingqalelo ekubeni uziva uzolile okanye ujikeleze abanye, kwaye uya kuba nakho ukwenza izigqibo ezingcono malunga nomntu ofuna ukusebenza naye okanye ukuba ngumhlobo wakho.

Landela imikhondo efihlakeleyo kwindawo yakho. Xa usemzuzwini kwaye ugxile ngokupheleleyo apha kwaye ngoku, ungaqala ukukhetha imikhondo ebalulekileyo- njengokuqina kumfana othandana naye okanye ukungaboni ngasonye phakathi kwabahlobo. "Nawuphi na ummandla uya kuthwala amandla abantu abakuwo," utshilo uLauren Thibodeau, Ph.D., umbhali wase Skillman, N.J. Intuition yoZalo lweNdalo (Iincwadi ezintsha zePhepha, 2005). "Ukuba ubeke ingqalelo kumgangatho waloo mandla, uya kuqala ukuqonda ukuba kwenzekani ngokwenene apho."

Cela umngeni kwiingcamango zakho. Sukuyithemba imvo yakho yesithandathu ngokungaboni - yibuze kwaye uvavanye ukuchaneka kwayo ngokuqhuba ithumbu lakho lesisu labahlobo bakho abathembekileyo namalungu osapho. "Ekuqaleni, nge-intuition ngamanye amaxesha uchanekile kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uyaphazama," utshilo u-Orloff. Ngokuziqhelanisa, nangona kunjalo, uya kufumana ingqiqo engcono malunga nexesha lokumamela ilizwi lakho langaphakathi.

Intlawulo

Ukuhlonipha intuition yakho kunokukunceda wenze izigqibo ezingcono, uze nemibono yoyilo ngakumbi kwaye ubone ukuba ngubani okanye yintoni omele uyithembe. Kufana nokuba nomqeqeshi wakho wobuqu, imyuziyam, umlindi kunye nebhodi yabacebisi, zonke zihlanganiswe kwinto enye. "Intuition ikunceda wenze izinto ezilungele wena kunokuba uxelelwe ngomnye umntu," utshilo u-Orloff. "Kwaye oko kunokukunceda ukuba uphile ubomi bakho ngokupheleleyo."

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