Nantsi into encedisa iNenekazi laseGaga ukuba liGule ngeNgqondo

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Njengenxalenye yanamhlanje kunye nephulo le-NBCUniversal #ShareKindness, uLady Gaga kutshanje uchithe imini kwindawo yokuhlala yolutsha olungenamakhaya lwe-LGBT eHarlem. Imvumi ephumelele imbasa yeGrammy kunye nomseki wesiseko seBorn This Way uvulele malunga nendlela isenzo sobubele esimncede ngayo waphila kubunzima obuninzi ebomini.

“Kum, ububele sisenzo sothando okanye ukubonakalisa uthando komnye umntu,” utshilo. "Ndikholelwa nokuba ububele lunyango lobundlobongela kunye nenzondo kwihlabathi jikelele. Ndiyathanda ukwabelana ngobubele ngeendlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo."

UGaga wazisa izipho eziphiwe ngempahla yokunxiba kunye nezinye izinto, kwaye wagqithisa ukwangana okuninzi kunye namagama akhuthazayo. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela kodwa imvumi ishiye inqaku elikhuthazayo nelisuka entliziyweni kuye nawuphi na ulutsha oluhlala kweli ziko.

“Aba bantwana abangobantu abangenamakhaya okanye abasweleyo nje kuphela. Uninzi lwabo ngabantu abasinde kukwenzakala; baye bagatywa ngandlel’ ithile. Okwam ukothuka ebomini bam kuye kwandinceda ukuba ndiqonde umothuko wabanye.

Kwi-2014, uGaga wabelana esidlangalaleni ukuba wayengoyena mntu usindileyo ekuhlaselweni ngokwesondo, kwaye ukusukela oko wajika waba kukucamngca njengendlela yokufumana uxolo. Ngexesha lotyelelo lwakhe, waqhuba iseshini emfutshane nolunye ulutsha, esabelana ngomyalezo obalulekileyo:

"Andinalo oluhlobo lwemicimbi onayo," utshilo, "Kodwa ndinengxaki yokugula ngengqondo, kwaye ndiyasokola nayo yonke imihla ngenxa yoko ndifuna imantra yam ukuze indincede ndiphumle."

Akuzange kube ngaloo mzuzu apho uGaga watyhila esidlangalaleni ukuba uphila nesifo soxinzelelo lwasemva koxinzelelo.

"Ndixelele abantwana namhlanje ukuba ndinengxaki yokugula ngengqondo. Ndinesifo se-PTSD. Andizange ndixelele mntu ngaphambili, ngoku silapha," utshilo. "Kodwa ububele obuye baboniswa kum ngoogqirha - kunye nosapho lwam kunye nabahlobo bam - ndibusindisile ubomi bam."

Bendisoloko ndikhangela iindlela zokuziphilisa. Ndafumanisa ukuba ububele yeyona ndlela ilungileyo. Eyona ndlela yokunceda abantu abonakeleyo kukubatofa ngeengcinga ezakhayo kangangoko kunokwenzeka. "Andingcono kunabo bonke abo bantwana, kwaye andikho mbi ngaphezu kwabo bonke," utshilo. "Siyalingana. Sihamba sobabini iinyawo zethu kumhlaba omnye, kwaye sikule nto sikunye."

Bukela lonke udliwano-ndlebe olungezantsi.

NgoLwesithathu, uGaga uthathe ixesha lokuchaza imeko yakhe kwileta evulekileyo evakalelwa ngokwasemphefumlweni.

"Yinzame zemihla ngemihla kum, nangelixesha lomjikelo wealbham, ukulawula inkqubo yam yemithambo-luvo ukuze ndingoyiki ngenxa yeemeko ezinokuthi zibonakale njengeziqhelekileyo ebomini," ubhale watsho uPop star. "Ndiyaqhubeka nokufunda indlela yokugqitha kule nto kuba ndiyazi ukuba ndinako. Ukuba unxulumene nale nto ndiyabelana nabanye, nceda uyazi ukuba nawe unakho."

Ungayifunda yonke le leta kwiwebhusayithi yakhe yokuzalwa ngale ndlela yeSiseko.

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